what would you do if you found that your friend is a homosexual?  |
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 hi all,
i have a friend who i know from 18 years. we have grown together and played together. recently he came to my house and we were talking and he said he is a homosexual from more than 7 to 8 yrs. i was shocked. i couldn't sleep that day. i called our other friends and told them.. they were surprised too.. we spoke to him and he was totally out of girls. i dont know why. we tried to talk to him in a lot of ways but he was ready with an answer... i dont know what to do... i dont want to meet him too...
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 raulmetalhead (166) | 12 months ago | actually he is not the girl homo type.. that is another twist.. he still behaves a a guy and doesnt like the girl homo types.. the problem is we dont know if he has any interest on us. if not then what is the guarantee that any interest will not generate in the future,.. just imagine this.. we are playing football in our shorts..or go swimming in bathing suits.. normally it is kool.. but with him around we feel awkward... | |
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| newgreenyou (8) | 12 months ago |  well you are a crappy friend for being so judgemental AND for telling everyone about something that he entrusted you with.
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 GhostCat (239) | 12 months ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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2.  Latrivia (1536) | 12 months ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| raulmetalhead (166) | 12 months ago | thanks for responding... i am also open to homosexuality.. but we dont think he is a homo.. he has not gone out with a single girl and he says he does not like girls.. thats why we dont believe him.. he hangs out with the homo friends of his and they talk and we think they brainwashed him.. we think it is some kind of mental problem... anyway we have not abandoned him as well.. its just we cant digest it.. | |
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| GhostCat (239) | 12 months ago | raulmetalhead, don't try to second guess your friends sexuality. How would you feel if he and your other friends tried to convince you that you were not really heterosexual because you had never been out with a man. If your friend is not really a homosexual he will figure that out for himself, but if you keep hassling him about it it will probably just end up ending your friendship. Be a real friend and let him be. | |
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| raulmetalhead (166) | 12 months ago | due.. all i want is if he is the second type of homo that changed his sexuality because of non availability of girls then im going to help him in that matter... because i have seen bi curious guys turning to guys coz they coul'nt find girls and ending up liking it... if he is dat type then im more than happy.. | |
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 sid556 (10585) | 12 months ago |  I'm pretty sure you are going to be hearing from Cyntrow here anytime now. She will explain things to you much better than I could.
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| 3. zackyo7 (259) | 12 months ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| raulmetalhead (166) | 12 months ago | hehe... good luck with him,.. i think you are right... talkin to him doesnt seem like to help us much... | |
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| sid556 (10585) | 12 months ago | How about we all pray for you both that you will change and not be so closedminded and judgemental? If prayers are answered the world will be a much more peaceful place than if we all prayed for everyone to change up and fit into your little box of reality. | |
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| 4. pia725 (5) | 12 months ago | talking to him and discussing about what he really feels may help him and you (if you're feeling any awkwardness). just don't abandon him because he may go astray if you do. i also have a friend like that, and everything is normal, nothing changed when we knew that he is a homosexual. we never abandoned him because that won't help him, til now we're still trying to talk to him about it. | |
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| raulmetalhead (166) | 12 months ago | we are not abandoned him or anything .. he is our friend dats y we worry about him.. maybe you are right...already i feel i cant do anything about it.. | |
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| 5. di1159 (1529) | 12 months ago |  I suppose it must be a shock after having been friends for so long. You need to adjust to the news and once you do, if you are a true friend, you will accept his revelation and continue your friendship. I think that he will probably need the support of his friends. You shouldn't feel threatened, but learn to accept him for what he is. Good luck!
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| raulmetalhead (166) | 12 months ago | it is quite a shock... for example in school we guys in the class were totally open and free in a lot of ways (if you know what i mean)... and just thinking about it feels weird for us... but i guess i have to accept.. | |
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| 6. Takashy (226) | 12 months ago | Well, I would just continue to live like I have been doing it before. I mean, really. You have been friends for so long and now that you find out something like that you don't want to meet the person again?
Sorry, but isn't that a little stupid? I mean, you have been fine all the time so why should this change the way you look at your friend? Its not like he would try to date you.:x | |
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8.  cooler1968 (500) | 12 months ago |  It depends ...
Irrespective of your own feelings on homosexuality, this man is either your friend or he isnt. The only thing he may have done to you or your friends is deceive you by pretending to be one thing, when in actual fact he was another.
Him being a homosexual is not enough to break up a friendship.
However, if he berates you for not accepting his choice of lifestyle, then he could be considered to be two-faced ... as he expects you to accept him, but he will not accept you and your thoughts.
If he has been a friend for 18 years, and has been good to you, well there's no reason why that should change. A person's sexuality should not mean an end to friendship. While at the same time, he should take cognisance of the fact that it may be offensive to you, he should try to accept the fact that while he may have changed, he cannot force you to change.
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