I get to brag about my daughter...ok my children in general.
By Aingealicia
@Aingealicia (1905)
United States
March 2, 2009 6:15pm CST
Motherhood is a hard role in life. Parenting is hard. We are given these special individuals to mentor, teach, encourage, and correct when needed. My children will be the first to tell you I expect excellence. Not in the way you may think but I want to see 100%. If you succeed give it 100%, if you fail, give it 100%. Did you learn from the lesson is always my motto.
My daughter, my little redheaded child, is only 14. She has a radio show so that alone is really cool. However yesterday, when we were on the phone, she told me something’s that were going on in the school. These issues concern the School Board, PTA, and the Principal. She came to me to ask my advice on how to make sure that her school programs of Allied Arts are not cut? What could she do about it? She is on the Student Council. She explained to me that the new Principal decided that how the school looks is far more important than the Arts that are supported by the funding of the school.
Now, last year it was they needed new curtains for their stage, and she headed the fight to get that new curtain. They got it. I am so proud of her for becoming this voice of the future. This new Generation of hope.
Now it is not so much she is going to spearhead for this to not happen. Several Teachers are on the chopping block for school improvements. It is the fact that somehow, I taught her well to stand up for what is right. This is a moment of pride for a parent. Any parent.
I don't know what will happen, but in my daughters words...Anything is Possible.
It is nice as a parent to see that some of your good values and morals rub off on your children. Both of my children are amazing, survived many things that most never should have to. My son alone died 3 times before the age of 6 and was paralyzed from the neck down at one time. He walks today because of some of the pushing I did. My daughter survived Meningitis.
So parents out there, those of you who wonder if you are doing the right thing. It may take a few years but you will see what you planted grow.
I have no doubt that both of my children will make their own impacts in the world. I am thankful for tenacity; my children have reaped the benefits. Pray for their teachers, not to keep the jobs, but that my daughter does not rip the school a new one.
Thanks in advance for any responses.
Ainge
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5 responses
@DavidReedy (2378)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Sounds like to me that you and your daughter (and rest of fam) are all pretty outstanding. God bless.
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@Aingealicia (1905)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Thank you for the comments. I am extreemly proud of them. If only you knew what they have gone through, you would find them more amazing.
Ainge
@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
3 Mar 09
motherhood is really tough as you've said. sometimes, in fact, even yesterday, i was pondering where my actions towards my children were right or if i could have done it better. i too feel at times that i'm not doing that good a job. thus, it's really encouraging to hear this support of yours.
you did a great job with your kids. they really did experience some hardships when young. that's tough. i'm happy for your daughter that she's doing great in school. she has good character. and i'm happy that your son's able to walk now. it's good that you pushed him, sometimes people need a little pushing to accomplish something. i hope they grow up to be great individuals and make their impact on the world. congrats on a wonderful job done.
@Aingealicia (1905)
• United States
3 Mar 09
I think we need to quetion ourselves at all times as parents. We were children once after all. I know in my heart you are doing what you can to be a good mother. No it does not get easier, my heart stopped when my children told me some of their grades, but well as you see I now know why.
Education is priceless.
I will tell you it was their choices, I just guided them with my actions and words.
Ainge
Keep going, it does not get easier but it is worth it.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
3 Mar 09
it is truly wonderful that you have such great kids. I wish my son would have taken my values too but he did, and we are always at odds, now that he is a man.
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@Aingealicia (1905)
• United States
3 Mar 09
Rose,
Honestly, I don't know how I got such wonderful kids. I am not the best example and my son and I are at the weird teen vs. mom issue.
Thank you and you know at least your son came around.
Ainge
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@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
3 Mar 09
The biggest responsibility of a mother is to teach good values to their children. I can see you have done an excellent job, and that your children are now standing up for their own. My son too is a wonderful boy, now 20 years old, but a very loving and caring boy. Oh yes, he too argues with me at times when he feels he is right but thats normal. Im glad our children are good, and hopefully all mothers will say the same. Amen.
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@Aingealicia (1905)
• United States
3 Mar 09
Thank you for that. I really needed it. I often feel I have failed my children because of some of the situations they were placed in. I am so proud of them and what they are becoming but your son is 4 years older. This gives me hope that they will carry certain values with them through out their lives.
Ainge
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 09
hi aingealicia let me be the first of many to congratulate you for all you have accomplished. without your fine guidance and
great child rearing skills your kids would not be making you
'so proud like they are now. so more congratulations to your
children, you gave them wings and now you are letting them fly.
I wish all parents could be that skillful at raising fine
young people. great discussion.
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@Aingealicia (1905)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Thank you, I was the mean mother when they were young. I am sure you know what I mean by that. I know they are prepared and ready for the basics of life and I was told along time ago, learn to let them go from birth because that is our job to let go and teach them.
Thanks for the comment,
Ainge




