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myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers9 months ago

It's school holiday time here. On the way to work i could not but help notice a couple of a school kids not older than 12 years happily engaged in conversations on thier cellphones.

As a tool to contact in an emergency and for parents to know the wherabouts, the cellphone sure iasan important tool. But on the negative side of it, the cellphone can be a big distraction for children. There are various other such negative impacts as well as.

This made me wonder as to what age would be right for children to start using cell phones? When do you think that children can start using the cellphone with responsibility?

 
 
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mimpi1911 (8139) response was accepted on 7/14/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. mayka123 (2620)   ranked 555 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

Some kids may be able to use the cell phone responsibly at the age of 12 and some do not use it responsibly even at the age of 20. These days with both the parents working it is good to give a 12 year old child a cell phone but the child should be taught to use it only as an emergency tool and not to chat with friends the whole day. Actually the parents these days are better able to keep a track on the child if there is a landline and the parents can contact them on the landline because with the cell phone very often the children do not tell the parents the truth of their whereabouts!!!!!


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

Yes it does happen so often, that older children use the cellphone more irrresponsibly than the younger ones.

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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. LevysLuv (189)   ranked 2,464 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

I think there's a company that makes cells phones for kids. It only allows the kids to call four telephone numbers that are programed in the phone by an adult and the phone allows all incoming calls. I think those are a excellent tool for kids once they start going to school. It allows the parents to have a way to locate their children and the kids have a way to contact their parents or a trused adult in a emergancy. As far as a "normal" cell phone, I don't think kids should have those until they can pay for the bill or the prepaid cost of the phone itself. Its a good way to teach respocibility and repect.


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

The cellphone for kids is a good way to control the usage of the cellphone. Your opinion of allowing kids to use the cellphone when they can pay for it is alos very valid.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. happy2009 (216)   ranked 273 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

I think is a right time when they are in colleges or universities.
I've seen many students in middle school or even primary school use cellphones,they use it to play games,chatting,listen music and take photos,and many of this ringed at the class,yes,I can't negate there's some children just use it as a relation tool with their parents,but most of them can't use it the right way,it do much distraction of their study.and some school,teachers had to collect their cellphones and give back when the weekend or the school off to make sure they are not play with the cellphones at the study times.and the parents also worried about the kids,you see,how bad the thing is!
but when they come into the unversity,they are old enough to control their behaviors,they can have a cellphone,and it's needed.


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

This is exactly the problem which exists. Unless the children become responsible and are matue enough to use these properly they will always be a source of distraction. If they ae they to be used, they should be taught and monitored properly.

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. balasri (9541)   ranked 465 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

I think the right age for them is fourteen.Especially the girls.It is the age when they are in their eighth grade and like to have their own gang and like to attend the Bday parties or gettogethers in their friend's homes by themselves.I prefer them to have the cell phone at this stage with proper patrolling over the usage as it is very useful in locating your child in case of an emergency.And at this age they become intelligent and responsible enough as in my experience. happy


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

Maturity and responsibility do determine this Bala. And the age 14 would seem to be right provided they are monitored properly.

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myLot reputation of 94/100. balasri (9541)   ranked 465 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

You are right.Monitoring is the key word Alok.I can see most of the parents giving away the most expensive cell phones to their kids to show off their wealth.It is really a kind of sickness.


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

Yes Bala, monitoring is.
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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. CJay77 (2810)   ranked 2,033 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

I've also seen kids here with mobile phones at the age 12-14 and mostly boys and they seems to be capable of using it, not that I know how they really use it, but once I'm in the cinema with my Husband and we're sitting next to the six childrens and when their phone rang they would pick it up and go out. I am surprised to see them in the cinema without their parents actually, but maybe that's the reason why their phones kept ringing in every few minutes. I think these ages would be fine to have their own phone with their parents guidelines. happy


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

The age you have indicated seems okay, provided proper usage etiquette and guidelines are indicated to them.

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6. reshmivinod (14)   ranked 7,483 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

children should use cell phones only after their schooling.In school teacher should conduct an awareness class about the merits and demerits of using mobile phones.They want to know the bad effects that had happened due to the using of mobile phones.Mobile phones should strictly avoided from school premises.Not only teachers but the parents also want to take a care towards their students.


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

I most certainly agree on the teaching the children about the cellphone and making them aware of the merits and demerits.

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7. mymhie5 (94)   ranked 18,823 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

may be at the age of 12so that it would be a bad influence to a children


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

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8. myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4303)   ranked 2,248 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. mimpi1911 (8139)   ranked 2,725 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

I think its after death! lol

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9. myLot reputation of 83/100. net_ankit (510)   ranked 2,515 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

If it is very necessary then we should give cellphones to the children otherwise not because they will more concentrate on chat with friends on cellphone not on study.
we should give cellphone after the age of 18 years, but if really necessary then then it is after 16 age.


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

Valid point you have.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. mimpi1911 (8139)   ranked 2,725 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   9 months ago

Firstly, I think, it depends a lot on the parenting. Children a have different behavioral patterns, different psyche and different level of comprehension. The maturity of a kid vary from one another. Some are mature and responsible even at a young age while others are not even when they grow up! Today's world is certainly more complex and difficult that previous generations. So, I think a cell phone is a good idea. The age would depend on the maturity of the child. That's for the parents or counselors to decide for in many cases the parents get biased and fail to understand the pros and cons. Thirteen to fifteen would be a good age if things are normal.

And also, I feel, the children should be provided with a phone with minimum enhancements and applications. a phone should just serve the purpose of a phone - that's it! They can always play on when at home under adults' supervision on computer. I might sound harsh but the kids must be given proper cell phone etiquette before providing them with one. But in a world where we adults are not aware and responsible how will we make the children aware!

I am not in favour of cell phones to children until they are responsible enough which may vary from one another. And if I can, I would refrain fro carrying one myself. We tend to use it so irrationally! Just a while ago, a patient was ringing the doctor from outside this chamber. What a waste!


myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 218 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

I totally agree with you on this Mimpi.

On an average 13-15 would seem to be the right age and these would be the factors
Maturity levels and determining how responsible, phones with lesser gimmicks and proper phone etiquette training.

The example you have given is pertinent as to how irrationaly a cellphone could be used. Children may do this moreso without proper training.

Thanks for the great response.


myLot reputation of 98/100. cyrus123 (1850)   ranked 64 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  9 months ago

I haven't given this much thought since I don't have any children myself. I always thought that 13 or 14 would be a good age to let a child have a cell phone. However, I agree with mimpi1911 100%. I think it depends on the maturity of the child. I don't think some adults use them responsibly, myself. Some talk on their cell phones while driving and a lot of accidents have happened as a result. I must admit that i have used my cell phone while driving but it's usually to check my bank balance, etc. Kathy.


myLot reputation of 43/100. IMEzekieL (505)   ranked 3,128 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  5 months ago

Most teenagers are craving for iPhone nowadays so various applications will always be present. Some applications are so addicting that they now serve as bad news for parents.

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