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myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers 3 years ago

Hi friends, you might be knowing about the lady i met in the supermarket and she kept staring at me and i, being too shy ran away from the place without asking even her name. I wrote about her in other discussion.
So now i was very excited about her and kept thinking about her all the time. I also went to that supermarket many times but i couldn't find her. so i was very sad:-(
Yesterday, in the morning i went to bathroom and found my soap missing, so i went to the same supermarket to buy some soap. As i entered i saw the same girl standing there. I couldn't believe my eyes. The lady of my dreams was in front of me. But as you all are aware of "The Phemophobia"-fear of girls(beautiful girls:-)) ran into me and my legs started shaking. I tried to run from the place but suddenly i heard a sweet voice calling me.
She said-"Hi!" i tried to reply but words refused to come out, she kept staring at me. then i gathered some courage and went near her. i asked her name and she replied-"Anjali" we had a chat for a while and she gave me her cell phone number and asked me to call her at night.
Now come to the problem friends. I haven't talked to any girl on the phone yet. I don't know what to say and how to say? what not to say? Please help me i don't want to lose her again.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. Flirtykumquat (550)   ranked 622 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Girls are easy to talk to. Ask her what she is into. For example, what does she do for a living, what kind of music she likes or movies. What she does on the weekend. Ask her if you can take her out to dinner or for some coffee.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

hi flirty! your name says that you can be of great help to me :-) so i wanted to know how to say hello! to her. taking her out for a dinner so soon. i can't just talk to her. she makes me feel nervous.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. sysdexlicwriter (1210)   ranked 4,182 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

I don't know if this is the right response but when I dated, I liked a guy who would tell the truth. Women can tell when a man is shy. It is actually appealing many times. I know that her beauty intimidates you but even the most beautiful girl has her bad hair, face, etc. days. Try to be more centered on her personality. Any man that falls in love with a girl should realize that youth goes by fast and age and wrinkles appear. Make sure that you are not just in love with a face but in love with her soul. What you see her doing and acting like will be what she will teach her children. Soon you will have a house full of her personality. Make sure it is what you are most happy with. I have been married for over 30 years and my husband still looks as young to me as the day we were married (he has changed a lot physically. His soul is amazing and wonderful and that is the beauty of love.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

hi sys, her beauty makes me blind, every time i see her i get lost into a different world. ya definitely i love her completely, her soul her everything. she is so cute always and i wonder she will make cute children :-). i accept her as she is. i will also say the same after 30 years that she is still the girl of my dreams and no matter how much she change with time for me she will always be the same. still i don't know much about her soul as we talk less. How and what shall i need to know more about her?


myLot reputation of 96/100. sysdexlicwriter (1210)   ranked 4,182 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

You should know what her basic beliefs are. How does she picture the role of a man and woman in a relationship. How does she handle conflict. Does she fight fair when there is a disagreement. Is she a loyal person. Can she endure through hard times or does she walk away from challenges. What are her personal habits. What types of foods does she like. Does she know about healthy foods and habits or will you be in the doctor's office all the time with things that she does not understand. Is she well educated. Will your children love education because you and her emulate that. This will give your children a good start in a world that struggles financially. I realize that some of this is developed over a period of time but it does not hurt to at least have an idea. The woman spends more time with children. The woman speaks more than a man and thus ends up teaching more of who she is to her children. Listen to what she knows and how she approaches life. I hope this little list helps. Only you know what little or big habits you just can not bear or what things are endearing. Make a mental list, listen and observe, and evaluate whether you could be comfortable with her in these areas.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Still i doesn't know about her much as we talk less. Still we haven't faced any disagreement. i feel yes she is loyal and will face all the challenges with me. she likes normal home food and is not very expansive. i feel that she is more educated than me. I can always hear her sweet voice even in the sleep. yeah this list have helped a lot and she is so cute that can bear her all the habits. i am most comfortable when i am with her. sys will you tell me how to keep her happy?

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. smileonstar (2935)   ranked 1,624 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

lolzzz....ur dream girl again? how many time will u learn?....lolzzz just kidding. all i can say is good luck my friend. just follow what you heart told you, dont against her thought too much and always make her laugh... she will like you. :)


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

hey smiley! ya she is back. i will learn as many times as my teacher is as nice as you are. i love your kidding :-D my heart told to fall for her and i did that already. i never go against her thoughts and keep her laughing as i keep you always.:-) are you impressed with me? can you give a few tips how can i impress her too!


myLot reputation of 92/100. smileonstar (2935)   ranked 1,624 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Hi again. I wish I can give you some tips but I dont know what it will be tho. I dont really know :). That's good, keep it up and I will push up and support you all the time, as you know.

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4. myLot reputation of 82/100. cieldz (381)   ranked 4,837 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

hmmm....u'r so lucky cos ur soap suddenly disappear like the magician...
*cling...*

girl loves honest man, so dont make lies to her....and remember always give her respect even is she's younger or older than u and she will respect u as well...just be the real you...

just try to ask her simple questions bout her hobbies and activities, but dont ask bout her private life, cos she just met u...and dont force her to answer all ur questions...

ask her on a date...! go to the cinema or restaurant perhaps...
good luck and hope this ur love will everlasting forever... ^^


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

my soap doesn't disappeared, it was eaten by my neighbor. try reading my other discussion "my neighbor irritates me" of course i am honest boy. i never lied to her. she is few months younger just like you but she doesn't call me "Br..." tell me 1 thing, all mylot member are your "Br..." i prefer calling friend. :-D
ya i respect her and i am real to her. simple questions-? when i come in front of her. i could barely speak due to the fear in my heart. i can never force the person i love the most. Date LOL :-) she will kill me. ya i also want an everlasting love. but the problem is how? what makes me so afraid in front of her? how to overcome that feeling?

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5. myLot reputation of 54/100. ptclickmail (122)   3 years ago

I think you should not let that chance again miss you. You could start with asking her how she's doing. You could also tell her honestly how you feel that why your acting like that and may help you get loosen up a little. Then ask her stuff like stuff she likes to do you might meet with a common interest and start off. Good Luck :D


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

hi friend, i also doesn't want to miss the chance. i want to ask something which make a good impression on her. something that she will keep on thinking even when she is asleep. i cant tell her how i am feeling,she will think that i am a fool. can you tell me how to make a good impression on her?

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. aakansha12 (156)   ranked 3,723 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Wow , sweet love story . I am glad you find her again but was she really your dream girl ? haha kidding


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

thanks akansha, its a real life situation not just a cute story. ya i am also happy to get her back as i thought we would never meet again. it was impossible to find an unknown person in a city of millions. but God wants me to be with her. ya she is the girl i keep dreaming whole day and night. tell me how to keep her happy?

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 60 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

To first discussion of you about this girl, i told you that if is your destiny you will meet she again. And i were right, you will be with this girl if you really know to keep she, and if you are honest. When a man lie a woman, love story will broke soon or later...so, be honest with she and...good luck, i am happy for you!thumbuphappy


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

hi icy, i remember each and every word of yours.(joking:-)) Its my destiny and my stars are favoring me so i met her again. that was the question i was asking, how to keep her happy? of course i am honest (except sometimes :-D) don't worry i will never lie to her (only lie to u :-D) glad to know you are happy. i thought that you feel jealous to see others happiness :-D ha ha ha
hey icy tell me how to impress her Please!


myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 60 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Who lie one, lie all. Any way, i am happy for your luck.Never lie, and in this way you will show that you really love she. And learn what a woman want.thumbup

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. kun2349 (10498)   ranked 1,101 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Finally, out of your 12 posts, only one is standing right here for me to respond to.. lol =D What happen to u huh??

Anyway back to the topic, i guess u are lucky and that she's interested in u.. If not, she wont not have talked to u first, when guys are supposed to do their own introduction to gals.. haha =D ON top of that, she even willingly gave u her contact number without having u to ask for it, it can only mean one things, she's feeling for u.. lol =D


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

you meant to say 12 discussions, Aren't you? :-) so now i know your topic of interest! yes i am the luckier person to have her. shy and silly guys like me never dare to introduce themselves to girls as they fear of getting slaps and beaten by the public :-D yeah she is interested but what to do of my problem phemophobia? i never feel comfortable with girls?


myLot reputation of 95/100. kun2349 (10498)   ranked 1,101 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

lol =D NOt everybody is comfortable with gals around.. Because that's a totally different kind of experience.. haha =D Just be yourself, and treat her like the way u are chatting with a normal fren ^_^

If u are interested in her as well, by all means impress her with whatever u've got ^_^ Very soon, both of u will be going out for your first date.. lol =D

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. rsa101 (9174)   ranked 3,609 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

I guess this is your opportunity to talk to her and you should jump over the this as you may lose her again if you don't. Well I guess that fear of yours must be defeated with this if you're really that interested with that girl. If your cellphone has a texting capability then you might as well text her a message before really calling her. That might break the shyness in you.

Hopefully you will be able to let this opportunity pass you by.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

hi! but i can't make use of this opportunity. i have her number but i can't dare to call her. i don't wanna lose her. she is everything i have. how to defeat that fear? what to write in text message>? i have even text messaged girls. please help as i don't want to offend her by my message. shall i write poem and send to her? or something else?


myLot reputation of 90/100. rsa101 (9174)   ranked 3,609 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Don't be a slave to fear. Conquer it! I don't want to give anymore suggestions since the simplest thing of texting her is what you cannot do.... Please taking the opportunity is taking risks too and not making the first step won't do any good to you either. How to conquer your fear will never start unless you make the first move. The girl already made a move it's your turn.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. lingli_78 (12264)   ranked 5,654 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

woww... that is really lucky of you to be able to meet her again and she actually approaches you... you should make good use of this opportunity now that you have her phone number and she actually asked you to call her... just have a general chat with her for a start and don't get too personal yet... as you get to know her better, then you can start to ask her personal questions and ask her out for a date... good luck... take care and have a nice day...


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (181)   ranked 1,463 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

hi! i feel so lucky. how to start the general chat? what shall i ask her now? something that makes her happy? date is too far i am not even able to speak to her. my day can't be nice till i talk to her. please give me some questions to ask her?

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