What would you do if it were your child or belief?
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
May 15, 2009 2:32pm CST
I just saw that the court ruled that the little boy with cancer must be checkout to see if Kimo will help. He and his parents stopped kimo back in February because of religious beliefs and the boy didn't want it.I am not a parent. All I can think is that the States is overruling the desires of his parents. I think forcing him to get the treatment won't help alone, Cancer is a hard fight and I thought the patient needs all the support to fight it. But if they take him away from his parents wouldn't the kid be depressed? So he gets the kimo but would he keep fighting ? I know when I was 13 that i would have just given up if I were forced to do this treatment. what do you think? is it a good idea to take this teen away from his parents?
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
16 May 09
Hi Sarah. I certainly feel that this is such a delicate situation. It's is not so clear as to whether by having this treatment, the child will be totally free from the illness. I certainly think that at a tender age of 13, a child needs to be with his parents. Furthermore, he is still a minor in the eyes of the law. Hope that he could be with his parents soon, no matter whether there is a treatment or not.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
16 May 09
I read that he is with his parents for now.But if he is forced into treatment, who knows.
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@Qaeyious (2357)
• United States
19 May 09
I read of a judge's opinion in a similar case that though it is lawful for the parents to martyr themselves, but they have no right to do it to their children.
There's another story - the river was rising, authorities were telling people to evacuate the area. This resident said, "God will save me." The streets became flooded, and a boat came by to evacuate the people who stayed. This resident said, "God will save me." The water became higher, this resident was waiting on the roof. A helicopter went by, offering aid, but this resident said, "God will save me."
He perished, and up there in judgment he voiced his confusion, why didn't God save me? God said, "I sent the authorities, a boat, and a helicopter ..."
Perhaps if someone would do a proper survey about the success rate of cure by prayer and belief as opposed to current medical procedures ...
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
19 May 09
I don't think the study would help as much as it should. The " true" fateful wouldn't believe the study. If you truly believe prayer is all you need, no study will change your mind.I feel you need both prayer and technology when dealing with Cancer.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
19 May 09
I can't talk for other people but I would want my child to live and if chemo meant living that is what I would go for.
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@jillhill (37353)
• United States
17 May 09
That little boy lives in Minnesota and not too far away from me...I read alot of what was said at the court hearing and he really didn't know anything except for what his mom told him to say.....without it he has a 95% chance of dying....with it 95% chance of living....I would do everything in my power to save one of my kids!....
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 May 09
The closest thin I have to a maternal instinct is worrying about friends. But if I trully believed that it was g-d's will and that I couldn't tamper with it, I would not let him have the treatment.the state would Have to take him away grom me. Thankfully I will never be a parent.
@soulsearchin (81)
• Canada
16 May 09
This is a very touchy topic for me and I know we are ALL entitled to our beliefs and opinions etc. But I will never understand any belief system that forbids anyone life saving medical treatment.
Sure the parents have THIER beleifs BUT this is not THIER life!! This life belongs to a 13 yr old boy that probably does not have all the facts. I dont think the boy should be removed from his parents but I do think the boy's fate is NOT thiers to decide. If treatment has any chance of saving his life it should be given to him and I really hope this boy knows he will NOT go to hell if he chooses to live!! God bless this boy and help him see that YOU want him to live period!
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
16 May 09
I hope the boy can remain with his parents and get treated. I can see not believeing the doctors nor the treatments. I assume for some it is because non are mentioned in their Bible.I sometimes wished we could sneak a gospel with Chemo and other treatments.
@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
15 May 09
Taking him away from his parents is a complete no no, per me.
He is only 13 and is already facing a tough battle. Separating him from his folks would only mean adding to the pain he is already facing. It is a very hard time for this child. I think the only thing that can be done is for Doctors and other people ( perhaps from their community who are more liberal in their outlook), to try and convince the parents that he needs treatment. But taking the child from his parents is no solution.
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@lelin1123 (15594)
• Puerto Rico
15 May 09
Not at all. They have their religious beliefs and they should be able to
exercise. Taking the child away from his parents will just bring down his inmune system and will not help in the treatment at all. He needs his parents to be with him.
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