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I'D LIKE COME BACK AS A MAN', she said.'PREFERABLY JAMAICAN'.  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (5235)   ranked 564 out of 19,197 in relationships 3 years ago

My friend, has a husband that has been going through a mid life crisis for the past 20 years. Now in his seventies he is still such a charming womaniser and ladies of all ages chase him so much despite his age. He is also very wealthy. He doesn't chase - he just chooses. And he really is a charmer. When you talk to him he makes you feel that he is so interested in what you have to say and he gives you his complete undivided attention.

Anyway, I asked her why she wanted to come back as a Jamaican and then she explained. He grew up in an era where boys were preferred over girls and they were spoilt and cossetted by their mothers and over indulged by their fathers.

Wives of her era expected their husbands to have flings or a mistress. Often the wife and the mistress knew each other and sometimes the man had two homes. Isn't hat nice for him? It wasn't all hunky dory with the wife but unless she had independant means then she put up with it. I calmed her down and she knows that he is not going to change so she went away feeling resigned I suppose to how he is. Thank God things have changed!

My question is, if you could come back to earth after death, who or what would you want to be?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. beautyqueen26 (34377)   ranked 368 out of 19,197 in relationships   3 years ago

Wow! I didn't know people did that kind
of thing in real life. I mean the out right
adultery.

In the US, most men keep their adultery
secret for fear of being sued for divorce
by their wife.

Have you ever seen that show, 'Big Love'
on HBO?

It's about a guy who has three wives.

It's a really funny show.

One of my favorite.

I can't imagine actually ever living that way.
I'm a very jealous person and would never put up
with it.

As for an after life, I'm hoping to be in heaven.

If I could have chosen to be born as anyone else or be reincarnated
in another time or another place, I would have
chosen wrongly.

Glad the decision was made for me.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (5235)   ranked 564 out of 19,197 in relationships  3 years ago

I am a Christian too! This was a tongue in cheek question. Also this was in a previous generation but I have to tell you that although this doesn't go on so much it is still a macho society. This also is changing as younger women will. quite rightly, not put up with it. But these are the professional ones with careers outside of the home. The woman who are dependant on their husband's do oftern turn a bind eye as it were. Regretfully, I do not get HBO as I would have loved to have seen the show.

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2. myLot reputation of 100/100. jillhill (17704)   ranked 216 out of 19,197 in relationships   3 years ago

I am not sure! That is a tough question..I thought at one time I would like to come back as a dog.....of course with a good family so I could just lay around and keep the family company and offer them alot of love....but now I don't know...I don't want my life to end by getting hit by a car! LOL....


myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (5235)   ranked 564 out of 19,197 in relationships  3 years ago

You could also end up being abused by the owners too! Yuck!

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. Shar19 (3970)   ranked 1,599 out of 19,197 in relationships   3 years ago

I always have said that I would want to come back as a man in my next life. They seem to have it easier than women. Most women have to do all the cooking and cleaning and taking care of the children. Not to mention we women have more mental problems and physical ailments in life then men do. Men have it easy for the most part.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (5235)   ranked 564 out of 19,197 in relationships  3 years ago

I so agree with you. I think that men have it easier too. Women have to do so mnay jobs that itis a juggling act - and on top of that we are ewxpected to look good all of the time too.

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. winterose (18789)   ranked 147 out of 19,197 in relationships   3 years ago

I would want to come back as someone who could do something good for the world, perhaps discover a cure for a disease or something like that.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (5235)   ranked 564 out of 19,197 in relationships  3 years ago

Now that's a great thought. I am sure you would make a difference to mankind as a whole

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. katsmeow1213 (7758)   ranked 4 out of 19,197 in relationships   3 years ago

Hmm.. good question.

On one hand I'd like to be some sort of animal. Not sure which, but I won't give it too much thought as it's too dangerous to be an animal right now. Their habitats are threatened, and they're hunted for their fur, or bones, or other parts. Not to mention, almost every animal has a natural predator aside from man.

So, I think I'd just rather come back as a rich person, so that I can use my wealth to help put a stop to cruelty to animals. I'd use my wealth for every issue I believe in, and donate as much as I could. Also it would be nice to live a more luxurious lifestyle!


myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (5235)   ranked 564 out of 19,197 in relationships  3 years ago

Oh this is lovely. I too would love to do more. I do as much as I can by begging for the children's homes we look after (my Church). I would love to get them vitamins and not the outdated ones that we get free from the developed countries like your. when we visit it is torture to see how little they have. 2 years ago I was begging soft toys for them to cuddle. 30 physically and mentally handicapped children = totally defenceless. Now we have another home as many have lived long enough to become teenagers and ths is a mega problem as when they do not get enough to eat they become angry. They don't understand why there is so little food.

A better lifestyle is good too. There is nothing wrong in being rich - as long as we give to those who no htought of their own cannot help themselves. Many blessings

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. change1life (1297)   3 years ago

When I leave this place why would I want to come back confused, life on earth as we know it is going downhill fast and the sooner Jesus comes back the better. I honestly don't know who or what I would want to be, I think I would just like to be myself with a few minor life choice changes, a little more financial security would also be nice but, for the most part, the person I have become is good with me. God Bless!


myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (5235)   ranked 564 out of 19,197 in relationships  3 years ago

This was a tongue in cheek discussion started by my friend who has a womanising husband. happyI would make a few chnages with me too - but guess what? Our Saviour accepts me just as I am.thumbupthumbup


myLot reputation of 97/100. change1life (1297)  3 years ago

You got that right!! Thank God for His grace and mercy! Have a great weekend!

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