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myLot reputation of 96/100. laydee (6297)   ranked 18 out of 3,532 in me 3 years ago

I have been great with advising people here when it comes to day-to-day living and relationships. But I know deep down inside, I know the theories and logics but I'm not really applying them to my own life. It's crazy, I know, but it's sometimes better judging or helping someone fix their lives but it's different when it's fixing your own life.

I have just responded to a discussion about relationships and at the middle of my 'all-so-mighty-beyond-everyone's-idea' typing, I realized I should take the advice I was giving her for myself. Whew! Ironic.

Do you ever realize that you yourself should listen and follow your own advice too?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 61/100. turones (188)   ranked 1,200 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

I'm guilty about this too. You're right when you said that it is different when it comes to your own personal situation and it's kind of difficult to follow your own advice especially if it goes against what you like. One good example is when it comes to love and relationships. You know what's right and wrong and you also know what to do under certain circumstances but when the time comes, you'd find it so hard and difficult to do the right thing especially if it will mean the end of your relationship with someone that you really loved.


myLot reputation of 96/100. laydee (6297)   ranked 18 out of 3,532 in me  3 years ago

Oh yeah, it somehow seems the advice would work for them but you are always exempt from it, hehehe.. It's the same old story really, we can't control ourselves but we like playing know-it-all in other people's matters hehehe.. I'm guilty of that too, most especially here in mylot! hahahhaa

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. angelbelle578 (1033)   ranked 1,225 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

Me too, I can give good advice to my friends but I cant apply them to myself. Maybe Im just concern to them and I know how to handle my self well. That's what I thought but sometimes I feel guilty when I remember that I should be the one doing the advice I gave to my friends. Its really easy to say but sometimes its hard to do it.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. dodo19 (9042)   ranked 675 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

I have the same problem. It is easy for me to give advice, but it's really not as easy to actually listen to my advice, to actually take my advice under consideration. I don't know why, but I just have a really hard time listening to the advice that I'm giving to my friends and family. It's easier said than done, I suppose. It's just the way that I am, the way that some of us are.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (11361)   3 years ago

WOW, you sure are brave to admit it. Sometimes we all deal with something like that. Like for instance all of us know what is healthy to eat but we do not all follow a healthy diet. Thats just an example. Peaceout and blessings.

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. sanuanu (4141)   ranked 703 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

Pardon me as I read your discussion as
"You should not listen to your won advice too!"

Interesting, isn't it? I mean how many times we are suggesting others to forget their exes after a break up but do we do the same thing when we face such situations? For me, I often do not do those things but then again, I pray that I don't face such situations in my life.


myLot reputation of 96/100. laydee (6297)   ranked 18 out of 3,532 in me  3 years ago

Well, read the discussion title again. Perhaps you were in lala land the first time you read it.

There's a big difference with people who advice others based on experience, and those who just say it based on theories and assumptions. I guess you won't know the difference yet since you haven't really gone through relationships.


myLot reputation of 90/100. sanuanu (4141)   ranked 703 out of 3,532 in me  3 years ago

you could say that because I haven't had gf in my life but then again, I am not that brave person to try for getting someone in my life. I know that one day or another that person would leave me, isn't it? So, it is worth marry to someone I don't know for me!

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6. juanj5208 (52)   ranked 693 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

Yes all the time and I think it must hapend to everyone. Because it's simple to give an advice but its difficult to use it on you. It's like you tell some one to write 10 pages on something difficult, that was easy but lets see you writing them.


myLot reputation of 96/100. laydee (6297)   ranked 18 out of 3,532 in me  3 years ago

Hahaha.. Reminds me of teachers and professors. It's so easy for them to tell us to do this and that, but I doubt they'd do it to themselves.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. SomeCowgirl (14319)   ranked 304 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

You know I've heard a lot and seen for myself (of my own advice) that you can't or shouldn't just shovel out the advice, but take it yourself too! It's often odd how your asked for advice about situations you've been through or are going through, and sometimes without the asker even knowing! Well I hope that all those who need to take their own advice take some time to contemplate what they are saying, me included!

Have a wonderful day!

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1867)   ranked 988 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

I think I am just like you and I bet most people are the same. I am pretty good at giving out advice which sounds real good but it would be a whole lot better for me if I would apply some of that advice to my own life. The truth of the matter is that we are all generally better at judging a situation when we are not actually in it ourselves.


myLot reputation of 96/100. laydee (6297)   ranked 18 out of 3,532 in me  3 years ago

"we are all generally better at judging a situation when we are not actually in it ourselves".

Absolutely true!

But, does it mean our advices are better than how a person could decide to do about his/her own situation?


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1867)   ranked 988 out of 3,532 in me  3 years ago

Yes I do think so, because someone who is involved in a situation usually cannot think or see clearly.

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9. myLot reputation of 80/100. arkansos (397)   ranked 989 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

Well, I too happen to be a good adviser on relationships, bujt frankly my love life is DOA. It'd be nice if I'd listen to my own advice, but its kind of hard to disrelate yoursslf, and comment as a thir person, that;s kind of tuff

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. xParanoiax (5014)   ranked 742 out of 3,532 in me   3 years ago

Every now and again, for all my logic and reason, I find myself not being very logical or reasonable...and not following my own advice, usually.

Not often, but every once and awhile. In many ways, I'm not dismayed at this because at least it reassures me that I'm still human. I often come off as a bit untouchable and overly analytical, but times like that prove that I'm really not like that 24/7. That I'm human and feel as much as everyone else does.

I do sometimes kick myself for not following my own advice, though. It seems kind of silly to forget things I counsel others to do, when faced with the same thing myself!

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