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myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers 3 years ago

I sure do! It seems like the older I'm getting the worse I'm getting. I will put something down and then the next minute forget where it was I put it. This is so frustrating, isn't it? The main things I have trouble keeping up with are my car keys, my cell phone, and my glasses. I have a special place where I hang my car keys when I get home. However, sometimes I will lay them down somewhere and forget where I put them. This is especially aggravating before I start to go somewhere. I've learned to call my cell phone to see where I put it. As far as my glasses, I don't have any way of calling them to see where I put them, LOLlol. The only thing I know to do when I put my glasses down is to make a mental note of where I put them. I used to have a time keeping up with my check book. I lost a check book one time and had to change my account number, etc. I also had to call the social security to tell them I had a new account number, as I get my SSI check through direct deposit. I keep my check book in my desk drawer now so I'll know where it is everytime.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. nanayangel (5037)   ranked 4,385 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Hi there Cyrus!

Oh, tell me about it. I have really bad memory. My mom said that really happens to women who give birth. She said it has something to do with the anesthesia that is being used in delivery.

I even ask my husband a question and after a few minutes, I'll ask him again. It's really bad also when I meet new people and the next time I see them, I already forgot their name and sometimes even their face especially when I'm not wearing my eyeglasses. Eye-mind coordination, lol.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhpshql (536)   ranked 3,152 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Hello.nanayangel.
That's so terrible~~
I didn't know when women gave birth to child,they have to use the anesthesia,yeah,the drug is bad for memory,but do all of women use anesthesia when in delivery???
And we all forget things sometime,it's nothing serious,just remember it again, all we have to do is repeat as many times as we can~~
Happy mylotting


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I didn't know this happened to women who give birth. I don't have any children so I never have had this experience. I never heard my mother or my sisters complain of this. This is interesting. It might depend on the person. I think I've heard of people being forgetful after surgery due to the anesthesia. I don't know.

Don't worry because I have trouble remembering people's names after I meet them, too. I didn't have this problem when I was younger. When I went off to college in the '70s, I met so many people up there and that's when I started having problems. I know faces but not names. Thank you for responding and happy mylotting. Kathy.

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. vnrsudhan (1001)   ranked 715 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

hi cyrus,
i don't have any trouble keeping track of my things as i always keep my room neat and tidy.so i can pin point where i kept each thing,so i don't have to go around searching for something i need.i suggest that you try to drink a lot of water it helps yo increase your memory power.and one more thing please read the message above my avatar in my profile and please do the help you can.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I drink a lot of water all the time. I try to drink about six to eight glasses a day. I can't tell that it helps my memory that much, though. I think it's just normal aging. Plus, my mother had alzheimer's and I have that to consider, too. I don't worry about it that much, though. I started a discussion about drinking water not too long ago and I couldn't believe all the responses I got. You might want to check it out. I have a very dry throat due to sjogren's syndrome so I have to drink a lot of water.

I do need to be a little more organized, though, that's for sure. I have a big house, too, and I feel like that might make a difference. Have you ever gone to a particular room and forgotten what it was you went in there for? I've done that plenty of times, lollol. Kathy.


myLot reputation of 88/100. vnrsudhan (1001)   ranked 715 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

hi cyrus,
six glasses of water a day is too small.you must drink at least 5 liters of water a day.i usually drink about 6 liters of water a day.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. ANTIQUELADY (16514)   ranked 46 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

GIRLFRIEND, u better get it together.w00t. i do try to keep myself organized. &f i didn't i'd be in a mess. HATE TO TELL YOU but it doesn't get better as u get older.rolleyes


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

You are so right! I need to get more organized. I have a big house, though, and it's easy to lose things in it. As I told one of the mylotters, I will sometimes go to a particular room and forget what it was I went in there for. Have you ever done that? Kathy.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ANTIQUELADY (16514)   ranked 46 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

OH YES, i do not all the time, have been for years so don't get worried about that yet.w00t. do get organized tho if will make you not have the stress of hunting for your keyes etc.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Like I said in my discussion, I have a place where I hang my keys all the time but sometimes just before I go out the door, I will put them down somewhere and forget where it was I put them.rolleyes I haven't done this in a long time but it's aggravating, especially when I'm in a hurry. Kathy.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ANTIQUELADY (16514)   ranked 46 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I always keep my keyes in my purse. I locked myself out of the house once years ago so i have tried to be careful of that since then. We all do things we wish we hadn't or don't understand why we did them.rolleyes. Have a good weekend, Kathy.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35334)   ranked 54 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

If I do not hang my keys up immediately on the hook inside my door, I lose them. It is a huge key ring, full of keys to my clients' apartments as well as other things. I do not take a step without my glasses, so the only chance I have of losing them is at bed time or if I take them off to shower. Cell phone is another issue. I can call it, but only if it is on. It is not as important to me as some other things as I do not want it to rule me. I only use it if I have to. Fatigue as well as age affects the losing of things.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I believe this is very true! Fatigue as well as age affects losing things. As far as fatigue, I work out everyday and that keeps me from tiring as easily. I try to keep my glasses and cell phone with me at all times. I still sometimes put them down and forget where it was I put them. It's very frustratng, isn't it? Kathy.

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. sanuanu (4141)   ranked 2,429 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Surprisingly, I do also have problems with thsoe three things:
Keys, glasses and cellphones.

Once, I have lost my glasses in my office and it was eventually lost. My cycle keys are also one to make me trouble but now, I have only three places where I keep them, my pocket, computer table or where I use to hang it!

For cellphone, this is very difficult for me to keep up with it jus because I have an option of calling it and finding! The problem occurs when I have put it on silent mode! LOL


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I hardly ever put my cell phone on silent mode. That way, if I lose it, I can always call it. Like I said in my discussion, I have a special place where I hang my car keys in the house but I have put them down somewhere just before I started to leave and forgotten where I put them. This isvery frustrating, especially if I'm in a hurry.angryThere's no telling how many pairs of glasses I've lost. I believe I left the last pair of prescription glasses I had at the assisted living facility where I go to sing once a month. That was the last time I remember wearing them, anyway. Nobody who works there or lives there ever found them, though. There's no telling what happened to them. I need to be careful and not leave them at places like this any more. In the meantime, I have some little reading glasses I can wear. Kathy.


myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35334)   ranked 54 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I need a little pouch or bag to wear on my shoulder for the phone. Clipping to the belt just causes me to lose it.


myLot reputation of 90/100. sanuanu (4141)   ranked 2,429 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Having a bag is better than clipping. I am planning to use it in my life too!

Cyrus: Did you use two kind of glasses?


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Hi sanuanu! I haven't heard from you in a long time! Where have you been? I'm not sure if I know what you mean by two kinds of glasses. I did have a pair of prescription glasses that I lost at the assisted living facility and I have a little pair of reading glasses that I use since I've lost them. I would use the reading glasses whenever I didn't know where my other glasses were. The prescription glasses are the ones I got from the eye doctor and the reading glasses are just some little ones I bought at Dollar General. Kathy.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. smooch091784 (819)   ranked 314 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

There are times I do!! I hate it! I feel being incapable and useless whenever I do a mess, although I know we get to mistakes.. When I get panic and I have to do a lot of things and I have to comply with that I sometimes having trouble to track things and ended up forgotten something and miss some important things to work on.. Well I guess it's normal, isn't it? Well, with that, I try to focus my mind with what should I do and try to list down things so I could follow what will be the next thing to do..


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Yes, I think it's normal, especially the older you get. It doesn't do any good to panic, though. That just makes things worse. It gets frustrating for me, especially when I'm in a hurry. It's a good idea to focus your mind on what you're doing and list things, like you said. Thank you for responding and happy mylotting. Kathy.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. Buchi_bulla (3529)   ranked 192 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Oh my God, I have a bad memory. I keep milk on the gas stove forget it and it spills on the gas. Apart from wasting milk, I have to clean the gas stove. I open the fridge and forget for what I opened the fridge. This forgetfulness has no end. I do not know how to come out of it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

It looks like spilling milk on the stove would be dangerous. I don't have a gas stove, though, so I don't know that much about them. My stove is built inside a cabinet. Have you ever gone to a particular room in the house and forgot why it was you went in there? I've done this! I've also opened the refrigerator and forgotten what it was I was looking for. I think it's just a normal sign of aging.happyKathy.

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8. myLot reputation of 69/100. grinjaguar (538)   ranked 15,733 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

try listening to this one. this helps a lot
audiobooks
memory: tricks of mind the
by derren brown

works wonders


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Thank you. Where can I get these audio books? Are they available at the library? I'm living on a fixed income and I can't afford to spend too much money. I don't worry about it that much but it can get frustrating at times. I'm aware that it could be a normal sign of aging. My mother ad alzheimer's and I tend to think about that at times, too. She was already in her 80s when she first started getting it, though, and I'm just 57. Kathy.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. zhpshql (536)   ranked 3,152 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Hello,
Kathy,we all forget things,you don't have to be worried about it,it's nothing serious,as we come across new things everyday,so we have to throw some old things~~
Though I'm only 23years old,I find it's so hard to keep up with my things,but I don't take it as a serious problem~~LOL


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I'm not worried about it or anything. I don't take it seriously, either. It can get pretty frustrating, though!angryYes, I'm aware that we all forget things but it gets worse the older you get. What's so frustrating about it is that you can be starting to go somewhere and you try to make sure you have everything you need. You realize you're missing one little item and it takes you forever to find it.rolleyesWhen you finally do find it, you end up being late to wherever it was you're going. I know young people are forgetful sometimes. I'm also aware that forgetfulness is a normal sign of aging but there is alzheimer's in my family, too, and you tend to think about that as well. Kathy.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. lynnemg (4035)   ranked 900 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   3 years ago

I do too! If I am in a hurry to get out the door, I can forget almost everything that I need for the day! I have a horrible habit of looking for my keys when they are in my hand, and my glasses when they are on my nose! My kids think it is hilarious, but I am telling you, it can get pretty frustrating.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cyrus123 (3255)   ranked 184 out of 19,273 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I know just how you feel. I sometimes will be looking for something and it will be in my hand the whole time. This is especially true if my hands are full of other things as well as the thing I was looking for, lollol. Thank you for responding and happy mylotting. Kathy.

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