Tell me I am being silly

So a few weeks ago my baby sister got married, which I could not be happier about.

what is bugging me is this. For the longest I have been my sisters go to person, the one who was always there for her, the one that helped her through the hard times. I helped plan the wedding, I purchased as much as well her father did, my step dad, if not more for the wedding. I went out of my way to make certain that her wedding was the best day of her life.

at her wedding she made sure she got pictures taken with everyone, but me. In fact had my husband not insisted on it we would not have had a picture take together, he brought it up etc. and she said oh yea..

I felt the entire weekend that I was hired help.

well this week her cat passed away, the one she has had since she was eight years old. I sent her a very sweet message on facebook, she got several messages, and well her responce of thanks was directed to my sister in law, brother, mom step dad, everyone but me.

what the heck did I do, am I being silly, is it crazy for me to feel so hurt by all of this. I feel as if I am just an acquaintance to her, do I say something or do I just let it go.

the other thing that really bothers me, is the last time she was in town she did not even stay at my house, she stayed at her husbands friends house and slept on the couch, at my house she has a bed, a private entrance etc.

I know her husband comes first, but I was always the first in the family as far as brother sister in law etc comes and now it seems I am a second thought to her, if that. and it hurts. I miss our friendship. I have no idea what happened and no idea if I should say anything or not. I am hurt. I guess this is kind of petty considering all the crap that is going on in the world. I just feel as if oh yes that my sister no big deal. When I have always gone the extra mile plus some for her.

I flew her to Chicago twice a year when I lived there. when she graduated from high school I got her tickets to the Daytona 500, that is what she asked for it was any trip she wanted (with in reason, I offered a week long cruise she suggested that) it was not cheap. I have always gone above and beyond for her and now I feel as if well I do not even matter to her.

okay I know I am being silly, I just needed to get it out