Can you stand SNOBS, my friend's hubby is a big Snob.

@aweins (4198)
India
June 12, 2009 12:48am CST
I am having a friend and her husband is such a big "SNOB". i really dont like talking to him. as per his body language it feels as if he is too proud of everything in himself and his life. he dont even say hi or bye to anyone. when i had a talk with my friend, i mean his wife, she also said that he is like this but what to do. they had a love marriage and she said that before marriage he wasnt that big a snob. i think becasue of his big income and his post he is a snob. i dont wanna disclose his post becasue i am not comfortable in it but he has good money inflow every month plus too much of gifts as well as cash because of the post every month.
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@YazEid (1138)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
I can't stand those people , and when I feel that the person who is in front of me is a snob I change my behavior immediately , I am never good to those people and I like to make them feel the exact way they make others feel. take care when you deal with hi , and never make him feel that he is a big thing for you . have a good time
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@balasri (26537)
• India
12 Jun 09
I am the most dreaded for the snobs.I just cant stand the showoffs and snubs and cut them to size immediately if they try to be smart with me.These poor things are missing a lot of good things in life and will repent later in their life.But who cares?Let us be the normal human beings ourselves.
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• United States
12 Jun 09
Oh yes i have met many snobs in my life, first living in a smallish town where basically you were either rich or according to the rich, you were poor....and my high school consisted of sort of the same idea, there were a large amount of kids that lived in huge houses with sucessful parents but a large percentage were just people from everyday families,,,,and the thing that makes me classify a snob as snob is because they would think that they were above everything, that they were better than everyone....one lesson my mother taught me when i was little that i wish these people would have learned is "No one is better than me, but that doesn't mean I'm better than anyone else"
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@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
12 Jun 09
Those type of people I can't stand he's going find that allot of friends will not want to nothing to do with him he's going say some thing to wife and she will tell him that nobody likes the way he'sacting they wont get ask to go bbqs.the people just say ask every body else except them which is sad for his wife.He will have to prove he's no longer a "SNOB" I wish them best of luck!! cd
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@daliaj (5674)
• India
12 Jun 09
I have come across too many snobs in life. I feel pity for them. I can never be like that. Those people don't think it is not advisible to talk in such a way. They don't consider the feeling of listener.I try to get rid of those people, but it won't work many times, especialy when snob is your friend. I can understand your problem. I think your friend, his wife has to talk to him in open to change his character. Yes, I have seen becoming rich and good job makes people snob.
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@eileenleyva (27555)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
Aweins, I have noticed that observation with even my own friends. Once when they were not so rich yet, they were talkative and friendly. When they became rich, they became civil, as if we had not been friends before. My theory is this. They are guarding their money. The less talk, the less you know about how to become rich like them. Keep the friendship with your friend. Her husband is her problem.
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• United States
13 Jun 09
I cannot stand Snobs, and I have come across a lot of them in my life. My niece's father is the biggest snob of them all, and I cannot stand being around him sometimes. He truly thinks that he is better than everyone and yet, his children screw up all of the time. People who are snobs have skeletons hidden in their closet.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Jan 10
hi its so sad when a lot of money and high post make a person think hes a whole lot better than what he really is; a person who likes everyone and sees the good and the accomplishments of other people will never be a snob. but those who center on their own achievements and look down their noses at everyone else are the biggest snobs in the world. Those people really tee me off.[
@reckon21 (3477)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
Thanks God there are not too many snob people in this world. They are only few of their kind. Life is meant to be shared with smiles and laughters regardless of each individuals status of life.
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
People sometimes really change for the worse when they have more money or power. They feel that just because they are earning more than others, then they are superior to others. I have come across too many people like him. When I encounter such people, I usually just ignore them right back. If they don't want to talk or mingle, then fine with me. Maybe your friend should have a nice long talk with her husband as to why he became such a snob. She should also tell him that others like you are starting to think he is a snob. So he can change once he knew of others' impression of him.
@rdadey (484)
• Canada
12 Jun 09
I don't have any snob friends and I pity anyone who is married to one. They are loners and the day will come when they may realize how stupid they were, but it could be too late by then. I've run into a few and it really makes me want to choke the life out of someone who thinks they are better than me just because of a job and/or money. Normally I will make a remark loud enough for the snob to hear what I think of them, it throws them off their game.