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Jcnelle (6)   ranked 34,640 out of 38,140 in life6 months ago

So... I'm getting married in 7 days!!! My Fiance and I will have been been engaged for a year on the day of and planning has been both hectic and fun. Before our engagement we had been dating and living together for over 3 years. We even dated in high school before that, so I definitely know that he is the one. We get along very well, we don't fight all that often except the occasional venting of steam. We have generally the same goals in life and many things in common. I have never felt more at home, or more like myself than when I am with him. So why is it that I am scared shitless???? Any suggestions from those that have been through this; are going through this; have been married for years; or have had unsuccessful marriage(s)... I'd love to hear all about it!

 
 
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tags:  marriage, relationship advice, wedding, cold feet, normal nerves
 
1. myLot reputation of 71/100. goldeneagle (3498)   ranked 1,754 out of 38,140 in life   6 months ago

Life doesn't get any better once you get married...do yourself a favor and just stay engaged LOL

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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. spalladino (8993)   ranked 411 out of 38,140 in life   6 months ago

Your nerves are normal. Even though you and your fiance live together and you're happy in the relationship, getting married represents a commitment and a change so it's perfectly normal to be nervous about it. This is the worst part, too...the right before the wedding days. My husband and I lived together for a couple of years before we were married but I managed to escape the nervousness...for the most part...because we had the ceremony three days after we decided to get married. My husband's brother and his wife handled all of the arrangements so all we had to do was show up for a very lovely outdoor wedding. You just hang in there and you will be fine. It sounds like you have a great relationship. thumbup

Congrats!

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (14554)   ranked 1,527 out of 38,140 in life   6 months ago

hi its normal to be scared shortly before really tieing the knot, it was the same here. Two days before I actually got married in the civil ceremony I had a huge fight with my mother who didnt approve of my choice of a husband at all these times 4 years ago and I just thought for a while is it really worth it but then I decided its worth the hassle with the family.
By now it has worked out fine and neither my mother nor my mom in law have anything against our marriage.

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