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Should I or should I not sell my wedding dress?? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married7 months ago

Hi guys,

I'm toying with the idea of selling my wedding dress. I got married 18 months ago in New York and since then it has been hanging on the back of my bedroom door.

I mentioned the idea to my husband and he said it was upto me but didn't want me to regret it at a later date. Although I said, if I did we could renew our vows and I could have a brand new dress!!

It is in excellent condition, just a couple of marks on the underneath of the small train, which should come out.

I really don't know wether to just do it or not!! If I do, do I fix a price and then sell it online/newspaper ad or do I auction it off on eBay?? If I sell at a fixed price how do I decide how much it should be? The dress cost me £700 in the sale.

Have you sold your wedding dress? Would you sell your wedding dress?
If you sold it, how did you go about it??

Thanks for reading

 
 
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11. myLot reputation of 60/100. xoxcharityxox (572)   ranked 618 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

I would sell it. I just rented mine though. I look back to the pictures and other little keepsakes for memories. A dress is just a big item to store. Yu wouldn't want to renew your vows in the exact same dress anyways. I'd list it on craigslist. Thay way if someone buys it you don't have to ship it or wait for payment. They can just pick it up.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

It is nice to hear someone with a supporting positive response, I tried it on today & althougth I think it is a beautiful dress. I think it is going to waste.

I would not wear the same dress to renew my vows, I would probaly go for soemthing a little more under stated, more simple dress than my wedding dress.

We shall see, I haven't seen Craiglist, so I shall check it out.

Thanks

Mrsl x

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12. myLot reputation of 97/100. JoyfulOne (4248)   ranked 211 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

This is my thoughts on selling the wedding dress, and I'm coming from many years (60) and having many, many friends with daughters over the years. I have never, ever, met one daughter who ever wanted to wear their Mother's wedding dress, even tho the Mom kept it for all those years thinking 'they might want to wear it.' I saved my own wedding gown with those thoughts in mind, and even though it was kept nicely, it was 1. out of style, 2. not either of the girls sizes and 3. they both wanted their own special dress of their own for their day. So, coming from that place, I think it's kind of pointless to hang onto a wedding dress that will stay in a box wrapped forever lol.

I know lots of gals who think they might want to wear their original wedding gowns for their 25 or 50th anniversary, or repeating the nuptuals, but hey, out of all the women I've known, I've only ever known one person who ever fit into their dress again, (and it still had to be altered.) Personally, I wish I would have sold it after the wedding and gotten at least some return on what was spent on it. After all, I DO have the pictures to remember it by!

As for how to go about selling it? I would take it to a bridal shop that sells gently used wedding gowns. At least they would give you a fair price. Their price would actually be lower than what it would sell for, so if you sell it on your own you could ask for a lot more than their offer for it. If you did it on eBay, you could then set a minimum bid and still get more than you expected for it. Good luck.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

Hi Joyful one,

It is very nice to receive a very honest opinion. I never wanted to wear my mothers although she kept hers. I wouldn't want to wear it again as for me, it has served it's purpose.

Thanks for your comments

Mrsl x x

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13. myLot reputation of 83/100. rogue13xmen13 (7192)   ranked 624 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

Honestly, it is up to you. I still have my prom dresses. Yes, I have my junior and my senior prom dresses, and I cannot seem to let them go.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

Hi,

Thanks for your response. I'm leaning towards selling, I think.

Mrsl x x

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14. myLot reputation of 19/100. PrarieStyle (1140)   ranked 615 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

I would sell it if I needed money and space. I would take lots of good pictures of the pretty details and sell it. I have lost so many nice things trying to hang on to them. I wish I would have sold them to good homes instead.
I would probably just list it in CraigsList for a reasonable price, noting that the price is negotiable. That is if I didn't need the money right away. If I needed money I'd list it on ebay with a reserve price.
You could always try a Consignment shop.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

Hi,

Thanks for the response, It not so much about the money, more about it having another good day. It seems such a waste just to keep it for keepsake.

Someone else suggested the website you mentioned so I shall have a look.

Thanks

Mrsl x x

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15. myLot reputation of 96/100. bing28 (1910)   ranked 621 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

I'm still keeping my wedding dress, as my mom advised me to keep it. She told me keeping the wedding dress insinuate a smooth marital relationship. I was widowed 12 years later however, still I'm keeping it, though a cousin borrowed it for her daughter's wedding but demanded her to return it back to me. For 30 years am still keeping it, but wait, it might be the reason why until now I was not remarried (lol). It's alright, anyway I'm 53 already and I don't have the plan of marrying again. If I were you, I won't sold my wedding dress. That's a part of your wedding souvenirs.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

Hi,

I'm sorry to hear you were widowed. I like that you kept your dress because your mom advised you too. Thats so lovely.

It is also nice that you have kept it since your husband did pass away but those are the unprdictable things in life and unfortunately happen too often to good people.

I accept it's part of my wedding souvenirs but I really don't get what the fuss was about. I made a really big issue out of having the dress and it turns out it really would not have mattered.

mrsl x

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16. myLot reputation of 84/100. ayis12 (175)   ranked 617 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

Im not yet married but if i am in the future. I will never ever sell my wedding dress. What im gonna do is to put it back to box and keep it. You know, its gonna be nice after many many years of marriage and being together. You gonna reminisce your special day.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

Hi,

You may change your mind yet!! happy I think I feel more of a duty towards the dress to see the light of day again instead of rotting & discolouring in a box in my loft. It seems such a waste.

We'll see what happens as although I'm leaning towards selling I haven't made my mind up completely!!

Thanks

Mrsl x x

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17. yuvaraj_chowdry (39)   ranked 631 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

dear friend,
to my concern u should not sell ur wedding dress . because wedding is the occassion that happens once in our life time, and more over u have mentioned that u got married 18 months before so ur not that much old after marriage . they are the things that to be taken care and maintained with high priority ... it is a sign of rememberance ...


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

Hi,

Maybe, but it is going to get degraded and yellow if it sits in my attic. Would it be better for it to have another great day??

Thanks

Mrsl x x

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18. sourcherry (94)   ranked 295 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

hello
I think that you should sell the dress, I mean are you planning to get married again. I think alot of women keep there dress just to savor the memories honey that is what pictures are for. Another reason is they may want to pass down the dress to their daughter or daughter in law, not to be mean but half the time they don't want it. I say sell it because let some have the same great memories in the dress as you do pass it down that way.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

Hi

Your seniments are shared with other mylotters, and lets face it most daughters/inlaw want a dress of their very own.

I like how you put it that I can pass it down that way.

Thanks

mrsl x x

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19. sourcherry (94)   ranked 295 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

hello,

I think that you should sell the dress, I mean unless you plan on getting married again and want to use the same dress then by all means have fun. but i think you should sell it so that another women can share the same great memories you did in that dress

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20. myLot reputation of 61/100. sonusd (932)   ranked 745 out of 755 in got married   7 months ago

see this is totally your own decission whether you want to sell it or want to keep it for ever, because wedding dress is a memmory which will never come again if you think in that way then keep it with you so when ever you miss your married day then you can check that dress again but if yu do not want to keep these memory and want changes in your life always you can sell it and can buy a new one so that you will be wearing the new dress


myLot reputation of 86/100. mrsl2008 (270)   ranked 28 out of 755 in got married  7 months ago

Hi,

I have the memories regardless of the dress. The dress does not define my marriage, My husband & I do that.

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