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myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships6 months ago

Hi myLoters this is my first discussion in relationships, and I'd love to hear your views. Here's mine in brief, I had many relationships before I got married the first time, and still made a mistake. The marriage didn't work. Do you think you should have multiple relationships, or is one enough?

 
 
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sunita64 (5596) response was accepted on 7/22/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. anna04 (146)   ranked 2,932 out of 23,162 in relationships   6 months ago

it depends on the person himself/herself, really. Haven't been in a relationship lol so I don't know really but it guess 3-4 times.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

Hi anna, thanks for responding. Do you think a boy or girl learns from each relationship that leads them in the right direction? I had many relationships and still made a big mistake.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. sunita64 (5596)   ranked 3,156 out of 23,162 in relationships   6 months ago

Few things in life are not under the control of human beings, you keep meeting people at every age, but it depends on you to keep relationship with whom. I feel one must be moderate in approach towards life even if it is a case of relationship.To be honest it is really tough to maintain a single relationship so to think of multiple is really impossible.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

Hello sunita, I didn't mean having multiple relationships at the same time, I meant how many boys you might date before Mr. Right comes into your life.

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3. sunchany (11)   ranked 11,215 out of 23,162 in relationships   6 months ago

how to meet the right person in the right place,right time,I wondering...


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

Hi sunchany, the right person can enter your life anywhere and anytime, the difficult part is recognizing this person.

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4. Tessalim (32)   ranked 9,471 out of 23,162 in relationships   6 months ago

I think there is no such thing as one is enough or multiple relationship is good. Some people take longer time to find their true love and there are some people who are lucky enough to find their true love at once. So it depends on fate.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

I understand what you're saying, and agree with you. You need to be lucky to find tru love at the first attempt.

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5. myLot reputation of 83/100. rogue13xmen13 (7104)   ranked 528 out of 23,162 in relationships   6 months ago

It depends. Some people find their true love on the first try, others have to go through several people before finding the right one. It all depends on the people. I dated a lot before I met my true love. It just takes awhile.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

I dated a lot also, and still made the wrong decision. Maybe, one of the ones I passed over would have been right for me. Something I'll never know.


myLot reputation of 83/100. rogue13xmen13 (7104)   ranked 528 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

Okay, do you have a list? By which I mean, do you have standards? Because if you have a list of things that you want it a person, that will make your life a lot easier. Also, how accepting are you? If you cannot accept a person for who they are, then you are not going to make in very far in a relationship either. I say all this because I have seen relationships go down fast because the person just decided to settle without checking to see whether or not they were really the person for them. Don't settle! Find a person who meets your standards, or who is someone that you can really live with.

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6. changsheng (43)   ranked 15,763 out of 23,162 in relationships   6 months ago

the relationship between this and both sides may be responsible for men not respect,or lack of female tenderness,the reasons are manifold sure,if there is only one reason is gathered by the many problems.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

I'm not sure I know exactly what you mean changsheng.

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7. zura80 (27)   ranked 11,732 out of 23,162 in relationships   6 months ago

It all really depends on your approach to realtionships. Sometimes,some people end up marrying their partner whom they have known since childhood. And some people went through lots of failed relationships before finally settling down. For me there is really no right or wrong or how many realtionships you have to go into before finally marrying the right one. Compatibility also plays a big part.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

Hi zura, that's a very forthright response, and your dead right. There is no number, you know - or at least you think you do - when you're in the right relationship. Unfortunately some people change after they get married.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. polachicago (7871)   ranked 903 out of 23,162 in relationships   6 months ago

It is not about numbers, but about right choices. people rush into relationship knowing that relationship may not work. I knew what relationship may not work and I shouldn't start few relationship....I am wondering why I didn't trust my instincts...


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2430)   ranked 2,431 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

Hi polachicago, I am probably one of those who rushed into several relationships, especially when I was young. When do you think casual dating becomes into a relationship? Is it when the couple decide not to date others? Or is there some other factor.


myLot reputation of 97/100. polachicago (7871)   ranked 903 out of 23,162 in relationships  6 months ago

I wish I was smart years ago....... rolleyes

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