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myLot reputation of 92/100. becdmd (296)   ranked 8,462 out of 35,243 in people6 months ago

When people come to you for advice, do you give good advice or do you just tell them what they want to hear?

I give good advice by being tactful of my words and having sensible judgements, because I don't want to hurt the feelings of other people especially when they are the sensitive type. But sometimes I tell them what they want to hear, when the person don't listen anymore. Being honest in a way that sometimes the truth hurts.

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1. myLot reputation of 87/100. abhaijith (760)   ranked 1,345 out of 35,243 in people   6 months ago

Its a good habit to give good advice to others.I will definitely try to give advice to others,with my little knowledge.


myLot reputation of 92/100. becdmd (296)   ranked 8,462 out of 35,243 in people  6 months ago

the thought that counts...giving good advice don't need a lot of brains just a concern for other people. (^_^)

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2. myLot reputation of 52/100. handsomerohith (272)   ranked 8,981 out of 35,243 in people   6 months ago

advice is one of the most worst thing according to me i really hate the advice. So i didnt advice to any one.


myLot reputation of 92/100. becdmd (296)   ranked 8,462 out of 35,243 in people  6 months ago

really?! so you don't give comments at all if people need your advice. hmmm?? anyway thanks for the response.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. lcdelmendo18 (514)   ranked 5,469 out of 35,243 in people   6 months ago

Yes, i do give advice when he/she is asking me to. and most of the time, i make him/her see the alternatives and make him/her realize the effects or possible result of the action.

But if he/she does not ask for my advice, i just listen to him/her. There are some people who just want to be heard.


myLot reputation of 92/100. becdmd (296)   ranked 8,462 out of 35,243 in people  6 months ago

yup ur right especially is ladies we want to be heard most of the time.(^_^)


myLot reputation of 92/100. becdmd (296)   ranked 8,462 out of 35,243 in people  6 months ago

sorry for the typo. I mean "us" ladies hehe...(^_^)

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. syankee525 (3437)   ranked 381 out of 35,243 in people   6 months ago

i think i do give good advice and dont tell them what they want to hear but what they need to hear. people know i am not to going to tell them what they want to hear but i will be straight up and be honest with them
there are some who dont like it but my thing being honest is the best way to be. i see it as if the people who was part of the reason why i am who am today they were honest and straight with me, if they told me what i wanted to hear then i wouldnt be the man i am tday


myLot reputation of 92/100. becdmd (296)   ranked 8,462 out of 35,243 in people  6 months ago

your right, sometimes some people don't mature because they were tolerated by others.

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. lulu1220 (431)   ranked 8,779 out of 35,243 in people   6 months ago

When someone needs advice, I listen to them first and repeat it back to them. I give my advice by giving the possible outcomes...the good and the bad. I use tact and never judge. I end up telling them it is their choice and they have to do what they feel is right for them.

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6. resourceofhealth (2)   6 months ago

People come for advice to get a clear idea or for want of a good lisitner to lisiten their views. Be a good lisitner and then only you can give advice according to the problem they faced. Then definitely they will follow the good advice you give. visit my site for http::www//resourceofhealth.com

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7. myLot reputation of 73/100. bird123 (1154)   ranked 12,672 out of 35,243 in people   6 months ago

I do my best to give good advice. If you come to me for advice, expect the truth. It is something I never play games with. I will ruffle your feathers before I will just tell you what you want to hear. We all want an easy, emotionally comfortable life but I have found most of the learning comes when the drama arrives so I never try to avoid it. In the meantime, all you sweet worderful caring people out there, have a great day. I love each and everyone of you especially the ruffled feathered ones!!!!!!!


myLot reputation of 92/100. becdmd (296)   ranked 8,462 out of 35,243 in people  6 months ago

yes your right...learning comes from our depest hurts...have a great day too bird.(^_^)


myLot reputation of 92/100. becdmd (296)   ranked 8,462 out of 35,243 in people  6 months ago

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