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Do you think it is unusual to be single at the age of 20? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 91/100. allenbucks (199)   ranked 1,694 out of 11,808 in love6 months ago

Since I was born, I never experience having a girlfriend. And I never experience being busted by a girl because I never courted a girl. But there are time wherein having a girlfriend comes to my mind. People say that I should have a girlfriend because I will be turning 20 by the end of July. Do you really think it is unusual if I will still be single at the age of 20?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. clorissa123 (3588)   ranked 446 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

Don't beat yourself up with this concept. There is no rule, or no law which said that you must dating someone at the age of 20. You follow what you want to do. If someone laughing at you about this, just ignore them. You do what is best for your happiness, not others.


myLot reputation of 56/100. Hucheng (136)   ranked 9,691 out of 11,808 in love  6 months ago

Objection! I think,a normal person at his age of 20 should enjoy his love life with a lovely girl,of course you guys who have different opinions maybe say love isnt the only happiness in your life, but if you dont have your love at your twenties, you will feel upset about your stupid at your fourties.

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7335)   ranked 1,295 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

It is not unusual to be single at 20 but it is unusual that you haven't had any relationship with a girl before. Most of the boys out there would have at least one serious relationship or at least have tried to be involve in one. But I guess you should try to be in one soon. Nothing wrong really if you get hurt because that is part of growing up. The pain will make you a better and stronger person if you can manage to overcome those.

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. JOIEMARVIC (1196)   ranked 538 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

No it is not unusual to be single at 20. So waht if your single? You are not left alone in the world. The youth maybe so liberated nowadays but that does not mean that single teenagers or single young adults do not exist. Being single is a choice. If your happy being single, then stay single as long as you want or until you bump into with the right person. Do not engage yourself in a realtionoship for the sake of having a relationship. Realtionships are emotional investment. Do not involve yourself into one when you cannot face the probable effects on investing emotinos and feelings in a relationship.
When your 30 and you still do not have a girlfriend,well, I guess you can say that its somthing unusual.
But your young, enjoy your youth.

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4. aisme1860 (9)   ranked 11,563 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

at 20 age, i was alone, till now, 29years old. I met a girld in this period, but we parted after 4Months, just because of my POORNESS. but i don't hate anyone. bacause that i am really poor. In my live environment, no money, no gf, and no happiness.

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. astonysh (1824)   ranked 1,029 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

Don't be in too much of a hurry. It isn't how old you are you meet the right person, it is meeting the right person that is important.

You may be shy, not particularly pushy, kind but introspective. Nothing wrong with those qualities - as you get older such qualities become more appreciated.

And remember the divorce courts are full of people who met young, didn't understand each other properly, and got married too early. Better to be patient and make sure that you make the right decision when it happens. It may take time, so don't start to panic yet.

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6. myLot reputation of 81/100. mypriv8link (139)   ranked 4,406 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

Of course there is nothing wrong with you. You are 20 years old and you are young. Everyone has different rate when it comes to development. Maybe you haven't reach the point to want to be in a relationship. And when you do, go and take risks. Never be afraid to try, or to ashamed to ask a girl out. You have to remember that all people at certain points in their lives -- get rejected and hurt by someone they care about, but it is no reason to give up and long to be with another. We all have our fair share of ups and downs...So, go live your life. Your first relationship may not be your last...because you are young and still has lots of growing up. Don't fret though, always remember that whatever you encounter, whether it may be triumphs or trials, there are always lessons to grab and learn from. Don't live a life of too many regrets because that won't be a pleasant life to live with. Take the risk...learn...enjoy.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. magojordan (2489)   ranked 1,885 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

No it is just normal to be single at that age. I think you're still young and being single shouldn't be a problem. You have a lot ahead of you and if you think that a girlfriend is not yet part of your priorities then it's okay. thumbup

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 752 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

Not unless your curious about other avenues but no if someone told that had not dated a girl in their twenties I would not think too much about it and assume you were busy with cars, school or a job. I do think you should start immersing yourself in situations now so you can learn from them and what you want. But thinking about it I would have to say that there must be a reason you have not found at least one girl and I can understand why people in your life would keep bringing it up. Its like a rite of passage--call yourself a 'man' thing, but do what is natural for you and don't force it but certainly let nature takes its course and don't fight it when it happens. There is many situations I let go when I was younger and can't help looking back and wondering 'what if'

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9. Sherka (38)   6 months ago

Its not unusual to be single at 20, i am single and i'm almost twenty, there is nothing wrong, its your choice.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. eLsMarie (1159)   ranked 27 out of 11,808 in love   6 months ago

i really don't think that it's unusual... for me, it's only a matter of choice. maybe there are certain reasons that made you decide to not still engaging yourself in a romantic relationship...

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