Life's Not Fair

I do both,, in same order as mentioned,I do lose courage too,,But I have seen that I get new ray of hope,, I don't know from where,,But I do,,,That's the fact of life,, Think of God all the time,, In Good times,, In sad times,, And at other times,,anyone will agree with that

Hi zandi, stand up and fight! That is what I have always done, luck hasn't come my way really and when have been knocked down, slapped in the face etc etc which has been many times..I get up dust myself down, and start again...survival is what it is all about...hugs LoLo

I am very tenacious, I just keep plugging away. I am not necessarily a fighter, but I am loyal, and I hold on to what is right, even when things seem unfair. I am not one to say "Why me?' but am more likely to say "Why not me?" I am not better than anyone else. All of us deserve the worst possible outcomes, none of us deserve the goodness in life that we get.

People said that I'm the melancholy type of person. I was easily break down. What do I do to survive..? just trying to except anything and be thankful to God for what I've got. And usually I'll feel better after I shed my tears and have a little strength to stand up and face whatever the problems...

U are right it's not fair but u are like me i think u are not going to let it get u down. I have fought all my life for waht i wanted & what i have. I'M sure not going to give into it now at my age, I can still fight if necessary.

For myself,now,it's not good.I quit and I'm seeking a job now.Roads will never be smooth.I'll cry to take out the feeling and then stand up to fight.

You got that right. Alot of things seem to come easily for alot of people and alot of us have to work our rearends off to have and keep everything we got. I fall down and cry but then I get right back up and go on fighting for what I know I deserve.

Yes, sometimes i do felt our life is unfair to us. We had tried our very best to do a particular things, hoping it will turned out good, but instead sometimes it turned out the opposite way. I ever gone through few times, such a patch in my life, especially when i was still an office staff. I had tried arrange all my schedule well, and informed my head and colleagues about it. But, the end result become the opposite way. sometimes, i ended-up being blamed for the thing that was not arranged or done by me. It makes me felt very stress and wanted to cry at that very moment. Luckily, i am able to bounce back very quickly and treated it as a lesson, not to believe in colleague's idea, whenever i am doing my job....

As a Zen practitioner, I consider life to be like a classroom, when we all learn how to be more spiritual.

Some of us learn through great riches, some learn through great poverty. I don't think it is meant to be fair, but yet it probably is.

Animals go through their existence, sometimes happy and sometimes sad, but they don't look back or forwards and have no desires apart from immediate needs for food and safety from predators.

Without struggle we would not grow, as it makes us stronger. I see that if I try and stop changing things and accept things as they are, I become more content, relaxed and at ease.

I only stand up and fight if a current situation warrants it. Whenever I have failed at anything, I don't see it as failure at all, just a lesson that I am going down the wrong road. Nobody gets it right all of the time, so there is no great shame in failing - Derek

I like to fight. If I ever fall down, I do not cry for it. Again I try to stand and start fighting with more energy, enthusiasm and dedication. May God bless us all.