Life's Not Fair

I use my failure as an energy to have my vengeance to the world in a way that is favorable on my own victory.

If life is easy then I believe there's nothing more to live for. Trials are given to strengthen our souls. Calamities occur because of humans ignorance. Mother nature is like saying its pay back time since we humans had been abusing the nature our whole lives.

"Life is a matter of choice, we choose what our lives would become. Remember God has given us free will to choose our own destiny. To choose between what's right and what's wrong.

Our lives lies on our own hands---so we can't blame anyone else if our lives didn't turn out to be what we expected."

Happiness lies on every person. Its about being contented and learning to appreciate little things.

Most of the time we play victims of our own life on which we should have been the hero and the main character on our own life. We tend to play the bestfriend when we should not be.

For every fall there's every gain. When we fall we stand up and say that's life, but do not let it happen again for if it happens again then you cannot say that's life again. Because your trying to find reason for your own fault in that case.

Admit, accept and learn that is what life should be.

True SiS .................. We Are Not living a New Life We Are Just Playing the Role Of A Story (scripted)Written Thousands of Years Back ............. It Was Destined to happen the way it is happening Right Now ....... We Are here On Earth to do what we Were Destined to Do After we Finish all the duties That Had to be performed ......... We Leave this Body ....... We dont Decide It was All Decided Before Birth ........ Thank You ...... God Bless ............

Hi Zandi!
You are very right, 'Life is not a bed of roses'. Life's journey always crosses many tricky paths with its ups and downs. Ups and downs are parts of life and we should accept it gracefully. Getting overjoyed on our successes or on our achievements or getting too down and out on our failures lead us nowhere. We need to accept the challenges and failures in life with a bold face. It is also said that 'failures are the stepping stones in our life'. If some events in my life make me feel down and out, I do not give up easily, I try to fight it out to the best of my abilities and capabilities. I remain optimistic and believe that there is always some light at the end of tunnel (of sorrows). Crying or cribbing on our problems does not help, we need to fight out the oddities in our life.
Good Post!

I think your right, we are different people, lived in different situation. I could fall across hardly imgining tragedy in some times.But as far as i am concerned,i think just according to this, our life is brilliant and fabulous,and it can inspirit us to move . so i think the different ways have different way to move as long as you can face it bravely. So go your way happy.

When I fall down I allow myself to cry for while and then usually make the decision to pick myself up and carry on. I will stand up and fight if I feel strongly enough about something. I try very hard to ‘go with the flow’ and let go of results and allow life to move through me. I think that stopping the need to control is the trick to a much happier existence with a lot less struggle and stress.

I'm one of those for whom life has never come easy. I've had to fight for every little thing I've ever gotten. I'm still fighting. Seven years now, waiting for Social Security to believe a dozen doctors who all day I cannot work. If I could work, I would work. I've worked since I was 14 years old. That was my first, part-time, after school and Saturday job working for my dentist. I've always loved working but it hasn't been easy.

I've been cursed with panic disorder syndrome since the age of 17. Working with that is hard, but not impossible. I trudged on. At 19, I was told I had cervical cancer and needed surgery. I've actually had 28 surgeries to date. Not one of them was elective. They were all necessary, some to save my life.

I've never done street drugs or drank alcohol in excess. I don't drink at all now because of my numerous medications. I've always been a law-abiding and moral person.

My first husband, who was so warm and wonderful while we were dating, did a 180 as soon as we were married and became an abusive, dangerous husband. I had to get away from him before he killed me and our very young son (4 months old when we separated).

Life has gone on like this. I've had happy moments and, I fully believe, people like me keep on going in search of those happy moments. That's what gives us strength to persevere.

Someone in here said that life is what we make it. That is not true with everyone. I never asked for cancer. I never asked for my father to die of muscular dystrophy when I was 19. I never asked for a tubal pregnancy that almost killed me. I didn't ask to hemorrhage from my cancer surgery. I never asked for an abusive husband. I never asked to have a child with multiple health problems, beginning at 3 weeks of age. But, they happened. I dealt with them. That's what you have to do. Deal with it and move on.

But, I've also had some really great things happen to me and I cherish those things. I've made some wonderful memories for me to think about when I can no longer do anything. I've created a loving bond between my sons and myself.

If I am only able to plant one flower, and watch it grow into it's full beauty, I'm happy. I think that, the harder life is, the easier it is to understand and appreciate the little things that mean so much.

Hi, you are right. Life's never fair for every one of us. In fact, life's unfair most of the time, "fair" only comes as a relative term.

the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill.I do always think that life is always fair to everyone

Hi zand,

Please do not worry too much. First thing money is never too much nor should it be. You will invite more unhappiness.

The Nature has never been partial to distribute its attributes to the people but it is the we who fail to see them and make a crying road ahead. I know what problem in life is, I have seen people in sheer despondency.

And seeing them al reeling under the pressure have learnt a lesson that when adversity strikes you face it and strike it back, fave the problem from the front and your agony would be much lesser.