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myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life6 months ago

Life doesn't treat everyone the same way. For some, it is as if their roads are paved with satin gold - every step just falls into place and the journey is a smooth one, except with the most minor of infractions.

For the second lot of people, life deals with it, at every corner, some form of pitfall or other. Nothing comes easy. Struggle rules the day. Failure stomps its feet. Calamity strikes. Money is never enough. Friends aren't easy to come by. Criticism is abundant. Stress abounds and life seems too much to tolerate.

What do you do then? When failure haunts you. When your plans fail, when things don't come easy - what do you do? Do you fall down to your feet and cry? Or, do you stand up and fight?

 
 
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31. myLot reputation of 94/100. flyisky (143)   ranked 627 out of 3,482 in life   6 months ago

Well, just like you say life is`t fair. Some born in rich family and have a smooth journey to success, the others born in poor family and must stand up and fight for their fate. Unfortunately, I belong to the latter group. However, I don`t feel depressed because nothing gonna change if I fall down to my feet and cry secretly. What I wanna do now is to fight for the better future. Poverty, failure, pain all these stuff cannot beat me down, because I have faith and strong determination to support my action. Past is unmodifiable, but the future is held tightly in my fists. So, don`t kneel to the life, just conquer it. Have a good day!


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

life is, as the way we see it, not fair, then it is time to change your focus. As long as you focus on what you have lost, on what you don't have, nothing is impossible if we are positive in our outlook.

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32. myLot reputation of 94/100. Jody20 (738)   ranked 3,445 out of 3,482 in life   6 months ago

I'm struggle every day. Falling down and crying doesn't help, so all you can do i stand up and fight and hope the next day will be better!!!


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

What is life without struggle. Problems are simply challenges waiting for solutions to meet them. The two are partners.

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33. myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2495)   ranked 357 out of 3,482 in life   6 months ago

Hi zandi,

It is not expected that life would be your hand and glove friend. Life has ever been hostile towards man and therefore all the struggle man had taken to face the Nature and they emerged victorious in some cases though the Nature is not yet explored.

I have never expected any good return from life abut this does not convey a meaning that I have been careless towards it. I go my way life takes its own course.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

Hi raj, to overcome these negative feelings, you have to bear in mind that there are a variety of human beings, each having his part to play. We must be aware that, unlike a drama in a theatre where there can be an understudy or substitute, in this unlimited drama of life, there is no other actor who can play our role as well as we do. Each individual has a rightful place and role in the drama of life.


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2495)   ranked 357 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

Clap, clap, clap.

Wonderful zandi. This is why I appreciate you.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

[em]rasp[/em...as a seasoned lady, I have gone through much in life. No harm in sharing with others what life means to me and for othes who are yet to taste the bitter pills of life.

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34. myLot reputation of 83/100. carolscash (4886)   ranked 723 out of 3,482 in life   6 months ago

I am the second kind of person the last two weeks anyway and I don't know where I am going but I know that God has a plan for me. It seems that everything that I do is failing and that everytime I need to pay bills I am out of the loop. I hope that I can do something to get back on track with everything.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

Hi carolscash, life is hard and life is often unfair and we can expect trouble. But that doesn't mean we have to let it defeat us. That is maybe God's way of telling you that He has something much better for you. The only option for those who find life going crisscross is to be patient.


myLot reputation of 94/100. indahfth (1350)   ranked 198 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

Inner strength and be patient in facing the problem.

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35. myLot reputation of 94/100. indahfth (1350)   ranked 198 out of 3,482 in life   6 months ago

I often cry if one fails to do something. but now I do not want to continue to cry, because crying does not help anything. I have to fight for a better life.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

Through life experiences, we built strength within us to fight any challenges that comes our way. Tears are friends to problems and will not solve it. You need your inner strength to face what ever problem there might be.


myLot reputation of 94/100. indahfth (1350)   ranked 198 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

Inner strength and be patient in facing the problem

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36. myLot reputation of 99/100. zhuhuifen46 (2677)   ranked 767 out of 3,482 in life   6 months ago

Life is never fair no matter how nice it is said to be. With this in mind, you will feel more easily at ease. What I do is to try my best to seek a change for the better compared with my past self, or people at more inferior status. When you go over the mountains, hills would look plain.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  6 months ago

Most challenges in life come from not knowing ourselves and ignoring our true virtues.

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37. myLot reputation of 85/100. maygodblessu44 (2475)   ranked 323 out of 3,482 in life   5 months ago

Hello my friend zandi458 Ji,
You have described clear concept of our life. So my concept is not to expect anything from life and be happy, whatever comes. So I do not have any tension. A person, who thinks that life is so easy that whatever obne wants, one will get are rare cases. But even if I know that life is struggle, I love to live andface all odd situations happily. If i am not able to get anything nearby, I just leave it to Almighty and never crib, why I failed. I always think, there is nothing in my hands. I am just puppet in hands of Almighty, who only created me. HE is there to take care of me. So I remain balanced.
May god bless You and have a great time. thumbup


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  5 months ago

I sure admire your conviction to prospect in life. As a obedient child we trust God for what ever He has planned for each of us.


myLot reputation of 85/100. maygodblessu44 (2475)   ranked 323 out of 3,482 in life  5 months ago

Hello my friend zandi458 Ji,
So nice of you for your encouraging and supporting views.
May God bless you and have a good time. thumbup

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38. myLot reputation of 74/100. EliteUser (3956)   ranked 1,172 out of 3,482 in life   3 months ago

Hey,

Yes most people have to go through their lives and for them it also isn't quite fair. Many people have lost their loved ones in accidents or various things. They have to also deal with these things. It will never be smooth, I can tell you that. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!happy


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5838)   ranked 14 out of 3,482 in life  3 months ago

We are bound to meet various happenings in life. We just pray that God protects us from all bad happenings that we may encounter in our daily existence.

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