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Girls: does the ring have to have diamonds? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married6 months ago

Or would you be as happy with an alternative precious stone on your engagement ring? I personally love the sparkle of a diamond as I am sure a lot of women do, but I do understand and appreciate that other precious stones can be beautiful and special in their own unique way.

What do you think?

 
 
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jt1981 (113) response was accepted on 8/11/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. rainmark (3691)   ranked 391 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

I don't mind if it's diamond or not, the important is it's the thought that counts.
Actually i don't have an engagement ring, instead my hubby bought me a house.
And i got a diamond ring last xmas from him. I love it, it's so cute and it sparkle,something to brag with friends lolz.


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

What you say is so true and your hubby is really lucky to have someone as appreciative as you are. A house instead of a ring is really quite awesome by the way!

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2. myLot reputation of 69/100. jt1981 (113)   ranked 441 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

i would be happy with an alternative. diamonds are nice, but sometimes in order to get the one you can afford you have to get a smaller one. if you get an alternative stone, you can get one any size you want. also, there is a lot of controversy over how diamonds are mined and the human rights of the people mining diamonds. so if you get an alternative stone you might not have to feel as guilty about how your diamond was obtained. also, lately i have noticed a lot of engagement rings look really similar. either one big diamond with a bunch of little ones around the main stone, or a bigger diamond in the center with channel set diamonds on the band on either side of the main diamond. i would prefer to get a ring that doesn't look like everyone else's. i would just be mindful of the durability of the ring. you want it to last a lifetime, and some stones would not be good for a ring that you'll be wearing everyday.


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

Thanks for a really well thought out contribution to this discussion! I know what you mean about everyones rings looking pretty much the same these days. Being unique is more precious than having a big expensive diamond on you finger.


myLot reputation of 69/100. jt1981 (113)   ranked 441 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

haha, sorry for the length but it is a topic that is near and dear to my heart!
i guess you can tell i've thought out all angles of this. i'd prefer to have a unique ring. with a diamond it's easy to constantly be comparing yourself to others and thinking in terms of "whose is bigger?" i just want to be myself and not be surrounded by all of that diamond anxiety!


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

yes I agree, the ring needs to be meaningful above all else.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. celticeagle (4466)   ranked 70 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

It would depend on the ring! There are so many fine cuts and types of diamonds it would be hard to say no to that. But there are alot of other precious gems too. Saphires and Rubies and opals, oh my. So many beautiful antiques and family heirlooms that it is hard to say what would whisp me up and take me away.


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

The choice is too much! x


myLot reputation of 97/100. celticeagle (4466)   ranked 70 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

Yes, it would really depend on the mood and what looked good at the time.


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

Lol, I would love to be so well-destined!


myLot reputation of 97/100. celticeagle (4466)   ranked 70 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

Yes, nice. Just pick it out and tell the man behind the counter.

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4. myLot reputation of 77/100. swtpareek (314)   ranked 595 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

I would really appreciate if my ring had a diamond but I would really go by the feelings so I would like anything that he get for me... Just as far as we are together nothing matters....
happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

That is a very sweet response and a really lovely attitude to have.


myLot reputation of 77/100. swtpareek (314)   ranked 595 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

thank you for the lovely words... happy

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. Galena (4035)   ranked 14 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

I love opals. they're my favourite stones. but as they are my favourite stones, I have a lot of jewellery with opals.

so when we chose my engagement ring together, I was keen to have a diamond, as I didn't have any diamond rings, so it would seem more to me like an engagement ring than like the other rings I have.

also, white gold and sparkly diamonds go with everything you have. and as it's something you don't take off, that's important.


but its up to a couple to choose the engagement ring. choosing one that they both like, that is comfortable and convenient to wear, and that everyone will enjoy for the rest of their lives.


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

I completely agree with you. Its the symbology of the ring that is really quite important - that it stands out from other jewellery and that both partners see it as a symbol of their commitment to one another.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. cyrus123 (1636)   ranked 1,496 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

I always thought that an engagement ring had to be a diamond. I guess not, though, because I've heard of some girls who preferred to have a different stone. I have known one or two women who said they didn't care for diamonds. I think they're pretty, myself. To me, it doesn't matter what color the stone is. whistle Kathy.


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

Traditionally, most do wear a diamod engagement ring. But like you said, it doesn't have to be diamonds. Depends on personal preference I suppose.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20182)   ranked 323 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

My wedding ring has no stone. It is sterling silver in a Celtic knot design.I love all kinds of gemstones, I love color, so it would be cool to have anything. I knew someone who had an opal birthstone, and so asked to have that in her engagement ring.


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

Yes I have heard about many opting to have their birthstone in their engagement ring too.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. larish (1398)   ranked 109 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

For me it doesnt matter as long as it came from my significant other. I won't appreciate a diamond ring if it comes from someone who is not special to me. But come to think of it, it will really be nicer if I get a diamong ring from my special someone. lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

Thats very true. It's who it comes from that is the most important thing.

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (7909)   ranked 2 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

I'm not a diamond girl. I like the fact that my fiance and my birthstone is on my engagement ring. It feels that much more special to me. I don't really understand jewelry
lingo anyway so the simpler the better for me, especially as I am not a jewelry type of girl either way.

Lol.


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

That's really nice that you have your birthstones on there. I am sure it is very special.

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11072)   ranked 254 out of 3,045 in get married   6 months ago

I prefer diamonds myself not that i'm expecting to get any new rings.I BELIEVE THOSE DAYS ARE OVER. w00t


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

You never know! Never give up hope I say. xxx


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11072)   ranked 254 out of 3,045 in get married  6 months ago

That is not on my hope list. I'm satisfied w/my life as it is. Don't want some ol' man to have to wait on & cater to. rolleyes


myLot reputation of 98/100. UK_Shree (1848)   ranked 11 out of 3,045 in get married  5 months ago

Yes I suppose that is the downside! x

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