He actually Suggested I declaw my cats in order to rent an apartment!

@Aurone (4755)
United States
July 30, 2009 7:26pm CST
In the past, I have been particularly lucky with being able to rent an apartment with my furbabies, I have never really found an apartment where I wanted to rent that wouldn't allow my kitties. I have paid extra deposits and pet rent even, with no problem. My cats are a must in my life. I am moving again and had to go apartment hunting in the LA area. One apartment manager that I called suggested I declaw my cats before renting his apartment. He said they can do so much damage so quickly with their claws. I promptly told him that declawing a cat would be the same as cutting off the top joint of his fingers and I wouldn't do that to my cats, and that I didn't think the apartment would work out (it was too expensive anyways) besides I wouldn't rent from him anyways, he deeply offended me by suggesting I declaw my cats. What would have been your reaction to this property manager? Anyone else have any similar stories?
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
31 Jul 09
Even I being a dog lover, would be horrified at that suggestion. The cats need their claws to defend themselves. And I would rather see furniture clawed then mice running around. (I really hate mice.) He does not sound like a nice man. Why he probably does not care for children either. Because if you do not have cats to get rid of the mice, you have to put out traps and kid will get his fingers caught. I was wondering whether you could rent a house. It would be so much nicer for the kitties and they would have a yard and trees to play around.
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
31 Jul 09
My girls are strictly indoor kitties and have always lived in an apartment of some sort. I found a nice place that will allow them with a pet deposit. I picked the apartment with trees in front of the windows so maybe we will get some birds dropping by, I might try putting up a bird feeder on the window to encourage some stop by and entertain my kitties while I am out for the day. They love the squirrels where we live now. I just couldn't believe that someone would insist you declaw your cats before renting from them. How horrible.
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• United States
31 Jul 09
i would have told him may his crabs become lobsters and looked for another apartment i didn't have one quite like that-although one tried to blame me after the fact. he said my cat gouged the kitchen floor linoleum. ok..my cat did weigh 18 pounds at the time,but it just wasn't possible. especially when my move-in sheet stated "dog damage-previous owner" maybe if i owned a puma...
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Seriously, the linoleum? How is that even possible? Mine like to claw doorway frames, but I have tried to get them to cut that out. Now we have boxes for clawing, and its the carpet that also gets a little claw wear, but to suggest I declaw them. What an idiot. I told him I didn't think the apartment would work for me. Don't people know declawing cats is painful and risky, plus it can make a cat's personality change. I wonder how he would like his fingers cut off.
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• United States
1 Aug 09
really. plus they have those lil glue on caps,if the clawing's really a problem. we had to put those on my calico once-not due to damage,but because she kept socking her brother.she hated them so much,she stopped clawing
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
9 Aug 09
Maybe I should try that with my kitties, at least if they fought they wouldn't do any damage to each other.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
31 Jul 09
No thank goodness I don't have a similar story, but what nerve of that apartment manager to suggest such a thing to you-goodness what does he think cats are...saber-toothed tigers with enormous claws? I'm glad you told him off, and that would be my reaction as well as I'm so opposed to declawing cats as you know--I just hope that doesn't become some new policy though in renting apts. when you have cats
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I don't think it is, in fact I looked at several apartments and even more on-line and he was the only jerk I ran into. Most places just want pet deposit for any furbabies. Some will limit how many you can have. Dogs seem to be a bigger problem rent wise. Most places don't mind you having a cat.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I have paid a pet deposit at all three apartments I have lived in since I got my furbabies. The one I live in now that I am leaving even charged me pet rent. As did some of the places I considered in LA. The one I am moving into doesn't though, which is nice.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
31 Jul 09
That must be a new practice...never heard of needing a "pet" deposit before but maybe since I've been here for so long (48 years!!--gasps)
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
31 Jul 09
My reaction would have been pretty much the same as yours. When we moved from LA to Sacramento, we had to be in an apartment down there for a few months. We had to pay an extra deposit for the cats and we had to leave the dog with my MIL. But nobody ever asked about de-clawing. We live in a house though so normally I wouldn't have to deal with this.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
12 Aug 09
Out of the dozen or so apartments I looked at he was the only on who suggested such a thing.
@chi2nasrin (1101)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
That is cruel, declawing a cat. I wouldn't listen to him if I were you. Maybe I would say something like, 'your kids also will do some damage when they crayon your wall, did you cut their hands?' There's so many other apartment that you can find.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
12 Aug 09
Some people can be so inconsiderate can't they? I already found another apartment that has no problem with my cats.
• United States
31 Jul 09
Hey they do due damage and it is his place. It is no diffrent then a land lord saying no pets or no smoking. As for the declawing I have my cats declawed. One they do due damage, two my one had health concerns that warranted us doing it and three why take offense to something like this. If this is the worst that is happening in your life please be thankful.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I think he would be better off having a no pets policy then suggesting declawing. Yes they do do damage but you can train them not to. What health concern did your cat have that warranted cutting off part of its paw? I am offended because most people think its a mundane thing, but I wouldn't consider cutting off part of my fingers as mundane.
• United States
12 Aug 09
She has deformed paws, the claws where unable to retract or even grow properly. This caused infection after infection as well as sores. She also has extra digits and had 3 extra non-retractable claws in between them that scraped the skin off of the inside of the toes. Not being able to retract them she would get stuck on carpet or couches and even broke a toe trying to get out of one of these predicaments. That is when we had them removed. The regular surgery is painful but there is a laser treatment that kills the cells of the claw bed that isn't as painful (it is very much like laser hair removal) as claws are not needed it leaves no longer term effects at all. She doesn't go out side as she has other issues as well. She cannot hear all tones of sound do to a deformity in her ears. We had a surgery on that as well but she still only has partial hearing.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Ok, I'm on a narrow ledge here but I'll jump off anyways. We moved into our apartment 3 years ago and we had our cat declawed at the time. It wasn't a requirement or anything by the apartments but we do have a waterbed (medically necessary) and cat claws and waterbeds don't mix. I researched it completely and talked to 2 different vets and found that it isn't near as horrible as what some ppl make it out to be. We had it done when Morgana was 8 weeks old. She is now 3 years old, she runs, jumps, climbs, bats at toys, grips your finger and even kneads a bat board all without her claws. She still has her back claws for traction when she runs and jumps but not her front ones. She is happy, content and well-adjusted. She is also perfectly capable of defending herself...she now nips rather than scratches. While I would never have something like this done b/c someone else told me I had to, I don't see it as being the horrible mutilation that some ppl see it as. I have a wonderful declawed kitty as all the proof I need. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I am glad it worked for your kitty. But I have heard horrible stories how it has changed the personality of the kitty when done and it just seems bad to me to remove or cut the paws of a kitty.
• United States
31 Jul 09
I would have told him to stuff his apartment where the sun don't shine! I do some part time security work for the complex we live in. I've heard the manager say before (and yes, she has kids) that she'd much rather rent to a family with a large dog than a family with a small child. If that manager you talked to think cats can tear up an apartment, he's never seen a toddler left alone with mama's nail polish or a set of markers. I've seen apartments in our complex so torn up, it took the paint crews over 4 months to rehab the apartment. One was so bad, the manager took the family to court and won over $13,000 in damages. The cabinets were destroyed along with the walls, floors and counters.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I guess that cats do relatively little damage compared to children and dogs. Thats probably why most of the apartments I looked at allowed cats.
@kprofgames (3089)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I have indoor cats and they aren't declawed - there is one spot on the door casing that they wanted to claw up, but I got some Pet B Gone and sprayed that area and they leave it alone now. I don't let them claw up my furniture - they know better but they still get the urge every once and a while. From a landlord prespective I do understand. Some people have pets and don't maintain them or correct them when they're into something they shouldn't be. It's the few that bring down the rules and stipulations on those of us that watch and interact with our furry little friends. I wouldn't be offended. I just have to put myself in his shoes. Maybe a previous owner had a pet that did some damage and he was just looking at costs for replacement.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I guess I think that is what the pet deposit is for and he shouldn't suggest such a horrible procedure for renting an apartment.
@jshekhar (1562)
• India
31 Jul 09
Hello friend, I am sorry for you and your cat(I wish I knew its name). We have to understand that different people in this world think differently on various issues. Yes, he should have refused you the apartment straightaway, citing the cat as the reason if he really wanted to put safety first. But the, suggesting to declaw the cat?? I've not heard anything like that and I am not sure if I ever will..
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I have two, Ashley and Carlye. I think he should have a no pet policy instead of suggesting declawing. Its the first time I have run into this myself.