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myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people 3 years ago

My oldest son and I went to the bank to deposit my husband's check. As it was Friday afternoon I didn't expect to find a parking space close enough to the bank, which I was okay with. However, to my amazement there was a vacant one right in front of the bank. I made sure no one was coming from the opposite direction and proceeded cautiously into it, parked, and went inside.

When I got back outside I noticed a car parked right behind my vehicle. This car was not only blocking my vehicle, but the one directly next to me, so neither of us could leave. My first thought as the guy behind me got out of his car was "great, someone who likes to double park so he can talk to his buddy (the other car that had been blocked in).

Well, it wasn't anything like that at all. Apparently the guy I thought was his buddy had overtaken the parking space that was next to me. The other guy was beyond pissed. Apparently he had been going for this same parking space, but the other guy beat him to it (I had still been inside the bank when this happened).

Once I got my son inside our vehicle I went around to the driver's side to get in. But I couldn't get in as the one that was pissed off had been blocking my way. He had gone up to the other guy (who was still in his car) and started cussing him out (this was actually when I realized what was going on). He didn't just cuss him out though, he went as far as to say how this guy was lucky that there was a lot of people around, or...

The words faded away, but it was obvious this guy was very upset. As I was next to him I was going to offer him my parking space, seeing as I was getting ready to leave anyway, but decided to stay quiet and not get myself involved. As the angry guy looked my way I gave him a quizzical look. He let get by and he moved his vehicle so I could leave.

The other guy didn't say a word. He moved his car out of that spot and the angry guy took it.

So, if you were going for a particular parking space and someone else beat you to it, would you be upset?What if that person cut you off in order to get it? Would you get mad then? Would you try to get it back? Why or why not?

 

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sunnysmiles (637) response was accepted on 8/23/2009.
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tags:  parking, anger, upset, life, parking space
 
1. myLot reputation of 97/100. missybear (3135)   ranked 60 out of 26,925 in people   3 years ago

I would have been very upset, but now a days I'm afraid to say anything course you never know what kinda crazy person you're dealing with.
They might pull a gun on you and shoot you over a parking spot.
In the good old days I gave people the finger and told them to F off but it's
getting nasty in this world.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

"They might pull a gun on you and shoot you over a parking spot."

That's very true missybear! It just isn't worth the risk. sad

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. ShirleyBillingsley (883)   3 years ago

I just look at them crazy, and then park elsewhere. I only said something to one woman, and that is because she got so close that she almost hit me. I did mention that, and she was, of course, not friendly.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

I've done a similar thing too, though it wasn't over parking space, but it was in a parking lot. I had the right of way and some woman was trying to cut me off. So, I honked once at her to get her to stop, but she continued to cut me off anyway so I honked again. To top it off she had the audacity to get mad at me even though she was the one that was at fault.

Needless to say, I try to avoid hitting the horn now and just let it slide if a driver cuts me off as I don't want to go through that ever again! doh surrender

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (11773)   ranked 488 out of 26,925 in people   3 years ago

lolIt's a good thing he gave him a parking space and he didn't went angry on yah. nice move. maybe that guy gotten used that parking space for a long time. and it wasn't his day when some one else was trying to into his parking space like his own territorylol


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

Hmm, maybe rolleyes...though it couldn't have been that long as neither of them where there when I first got there. So, at the most it was 10 or 15 minutes, tops! rasp

You could be right, maybe he was just having a bad day. Heck, everybody has them every now and then. But to make a threat is taking it a little too far, don't ya think? surrender

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. webearn99 (1150)   ranked 2,198 out of 26,925 in people   3 years ago

Parking space is a major issue of contention in urban life. Ye if I were in the wrong end of such a situation I would be upset. The issue would be, was I a slow poke and did not get the space or was I crowded out or cut out of it. The second one is definitely an offense and I would be mad.

I have a space in the parking lot at office. It is at the end so I have a wall on one side and need to be very careful while parking. I usually park close to the wall as that gives me more space on the driver's side. On one Friday I found a car parked so close to mine that I had no way to get in! I waited a couple of hours and called the security. The other person as I was told, had gone for a weekend party and promised to remove the car on Monday. You have no idea how mad I was. I deflated both of the back tires, and called the tow. On Monday the offender came and, was told of the towing, paid his fine and claimed his wreck.


myLot reputation of 87/100. latoyahall (400)   ranked 8,504 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

Wow!!! What a creative solution to your parking problem....I don't think that I would ever have the guts to do that.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

I agree with Latoya. It was very creative, indeed. I couldn't imagine doing that, but it's one way to get the car moved and out of your way, that's for sure! blink

So, have you had any problems with your parking space since?


myLot reputation of 93/100. webearn99 (1150)   ranked 2,198 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

No, now people avoid my space like it was mined. As for the guy who got it, he was way below in pecking order to contemplate any thing. What rankled me is his unthinking nature and the gall to tell me to forget my car for two whole days.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

He actually told you to forget your car for a couple of days? What did he expect you to do? Walk home? rolleyes

It's no wonder you were pissed. I would be too. glare


myLot reputation of 93/100. webearn99 (1150)   ranked 2,198 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

That's what he told the security!

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15574)   ranked 1,700 out of 26,925 in people   3 years ago

If I had been cut off I would have been very pissed but knowing the world (and parking places) have their share of nut cases. I would not get out my car and put myself in potential danger (road rage). I would (and have done) given them the finger, muttered under my breath and moved on. To live and find another parking place.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

I'd pretty much do the same thing, minus giving the finger, as it might cause more trouble if the other person were to see it. doh

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6. myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (11930)   ranked 136 out of 26,925 in people   3 years ago

I think it is only natural to feel upset over incidents such as people stealing your parking space but to get out and confront someone who may or may not be stable is foolish in this day and age. There have been many reports of road rage and situations where people have been hurt. Personally I value my safety more than parking spaces so although unhappy I would quietly move on to another space and hope that Karma prevails!


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

I like how you think Paula! A lot of people could learn from your example. thumbup


markost (22)   ranked 13,183 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

That is very sensible Paula, and I kinda believe in Karma too, hopefully, they'll learn the right lesson when it happens.
I'd also like to add that it's not worthwhile to lose our attitude for someone who obviously would not get our respect in the first place. Let's not ruin a good day or make a bad day worse by being upset over someone we hardly care about. Its better to ignore them.
Though that wouldn't stop me from telling them which body part of theirs seems prominent. Then I'd ignore them, completely.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. The_Lamb_Lies_Down (6932)   3 years ago

Oh, I'd likely be mad, but it'd be one of those thing's where I'd yell "F*cking moron!" out the window and then look for another place to park.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

Yelling swear words and calling a person names might make matters worse though. Especially if it's something like "F*cking moron!" Because the "f*cking moron" may not take it lightly being called that. rolleyes doh

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8. myLot reputation of 78/100. fec139 (681)   ranked 5,504 out of 26,925 in people   3 years ago

Now that I don't have my health anymore, and am terminally ill and in a wheelchair, I reret all the times I have gotten angry over something so trivial as a parking spot. Now that I can't drive anymore, I would do anything to drive agan and look for parking spots. If someone takes your parking spot, wait for another one or go elsewhere in the parking lot and get another spot. And don't get into a fight because you never know what that can escalate into. You could end up very hurt, hurt someone, end up in jail, or worse. Over a parking spot. Think about it.


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myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

You have given some really good advice. I hope others will be able to benefit from it. thumbup


myLot reputation of 78/100. fec139 (681)   ranked 5,504 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

Sometimes it is important to figure out what r eally matters and to look at what you are upset about and say "will this matter in 5 years? in a year? in a month? in a week? tomorrow?" I think the answer to the prking spot situation is : it won't even matter in an hour!

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20665)   ranked 824 out of 26,925 in people   3 years ago

Over here in Italy it's the same. Parking spaces are becoming the cause of many injuries due to rage and last month one poor indivdual was killed after being pushed by an angry person. He fell and hit his head on the pavement and he was not even partly involved in the squabble because he, like you, was just the third party. There is just no more respect for human life and it is appalling.

I have had the space that I was eyeing up taken by some idiotic driver who got in quicker in the past too. Like others have said above, I just move on and think of certain exclamations without saying them outloud. I dare not think of the consequences if I was overheard so I mutter and move on doh


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

It was very foolish of me to stick around, I know. I worried about the possibility of getting hurt or even killed. Fortunately it worked out in the end, otherwise my son or I may not have been so lucky.

I think I'm going to park where I normally do when I go to the bank from now on (at least during business hours anyway). It's further away, but at least people aren't feuding over parking spaces there as it's pretty much empty the majority of the time.


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20665)   ranked 824 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

Your phrase 'feuding over parking spaces' conjurs up past and present and just show how trivial we have become nowadays sad

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. syankee525 (5263)   ranked 464 out of 26,925 in people   3 years ago

see it all the time here, i would have asked the dude if he could please move his car so i could have gotten out.
but i dont get to upset over it if someone take my spot. i might just say thanks alot A$$ hole. but once at the gast station i kept having people cutting me off to get to a the pump, so i finally said screwed and cut someone else off. i told them loud enough for the other four people to hear just some rude a$$es around here isn't there.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (7197)   ranked 27 out of 26,925 in people  3 years ago

I thought about doing that, but decided against it as I thought maybe this guy might turn on me for doing so. He was pretty angry, after all, and I for one didn't want to take that chance.

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