Do you try to stay out of trouble after you get married?  

I would try to avoid it. But I'm not married, so I can't really say for sure. All I know, though, is that being physically ATTRACTED to someone isn't the same as cheating; at least not in my opinion. So long as you don't act on it.

Answer is NO, Avoid it and Never even think of flirting. I am a married person already, i committed myself to be with my husband and if there is more that I wanted to develop friendship, it has to be my husband and no one else.

I am still open to have friends but there should always be a point of limitations and you know where your boundaries are. We all know that opposites attract, so the idea of getting to know other person more is just a trap for me, so I don't entertain the idea of one person having interest on me even if I am married, I stay far away as much as possible to a person who is really stubborn and cannot understand.

I do meet a lot of people online because I have a blog and I used to get referrals from social sites. But they are much more interested in friendship and much more than that, so I do drop the subject of befriending some that are pretty obvious about their intentions. And tell them frankly that I am married and I have no intentions of what they have in mind, of course in a nice and decent manner, not to offend such. But to those who are stubborn, i simple do the silent treatment. Happy Mylotting.

Yes. You should avoid it. Being attactive to somebody is not really cheating but it's the first step of doing the real cheating thing. I think, if someone is trying to give attention to somebody, of course, they will end up liking each other.

When one is in a serious relationship whether it be marriage or not the individuals should not encourage things that will not be healthy. I will not encourage it because I wouldn't like to know that my partner would do this.

I'm not married yet but I'm engage for years now. Since I was committed to my partner I'm avoiding people that makes him jealous or that will lead us to argument. It happened all the time that i was surrounded by temptations but I always keep in my mind that I won't find another person like my partner.

As much as possible I try to avoid it. When I was single, I used to go to bars almost every night and check out on the ladies. But now that I'm married, I don't go to night spots anymore. I don't even have lady text mates anymore. I don't know why but I think I already have the responsibility of a married person. And I'm stuck with my wife forever..happily of course.

Hello friend,

Being attracted to others is just a normal feeling.Especially if i really found that person attractive or he does have the qualities i really admired.
But since i am already married...it's off the limit ...so...must avoid the admiration.

I would say, steer clear of such people, for this is just a passing phase where you are attracted to a person. Its like having curry rice everyday and wanting to taste something different. Its normal to feel that way sometimes, but it is better to put a full stop there and then. One fling could break up your family, no three actually your parents, his parents and yours. So I suggest one must be careful and walk out of such a situation based on the love and understanding you have for your family.

Hi there!

Definitely I'll be avoiding him, I can't risk my marriage for silly things like this. My husband is very much upright when it comes to married women playing single and I don't want to give him an idea of me being unfaithful to him. Though at times he seems to be the faithless one, as dictated by my conscious mind still I remain to be with our society's double standard perception of a married life. Good day!

I feel that If you're married you've made a commitment to stay faithful to the one you married. If you want to play the feild than dont get married because then its cheating