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myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (684)   ranked 867 out of 32,962 in life 3 years ago

Hi Mylotters,

Old age is the age that no one can restrict or put aside... Everyone need to go through that... happy

My grandfather called my aunt yesterday (he is in his eighties)in the phone and with feeble voice he said that he is counting his days. He is suffering from a severe pain in his lap that he couldn't move without a great pain. He tried all the medicines and he is not getting cured. But he has already planned everything in his life and every sons and daughters are having a good life and now he is the only one who suffers. But he is living with his daughter right now. His only way now is to trust God.

How you people manage your old days?. Have you planned for a better living in your oldage. How you feel about your oldage?

Put some thoughts in here... Cheers... Have a nice day always...thumbup

 

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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. jonjee0203 (4680)   3 years ago

Sometimes you plan and you hope for success. You may plan, but it is God who dispose. For instance, look at what I did and what my friends did. I took up insurance policies as a savings plan for my wife and children. I bought a scholarship annuity in Australia for my daughter and one for my son back here in Malaysia. I bought my insurance policy in the Isle of Man, an offshore outpost near the UK.It is called the Clerical Medical Insurance Policy Plan. All I needed was to pay 5 years of premium and the insurance policy will take care of itself. I will then be able to withdraw its value in pounds.But truth be told, the policy failed to sustain and the company told me that it will becomes nothing in 2001 if I do not put in topped up premiums. So I surrendered the policy and took back my money. Meanwhile, my friends who bought houses saw a huge appreciation, many folds of their investment. I got nothing except for my principal amount.As for my daughter's annuities, what was planned did not come to pass either. The annuities could now no longer be able to cover even half a semester of her study.Another plan down the drain? So,do you still think its worth planning when inflation is eating you from all sides?


myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (684)   ranked 867 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Hi jonjee0203,

I am really sad to read your response.sad I believe the statement "Man proposes but God disposes". Really the outcome of every man is by God. But He may have some other plans for you. Really we don't have the meaning of success if we didn't face any failures. But success hits one day. Surely it will. In your case it may be late. Just out your trust on God and make out your plans.. Surely will have a better tomorrow.. Cheers,... have a nice day always...thumbup


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1662)   ranked 817 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Dear jonjee,

Life is Like That.... but at least you do plan!
As the saying goes :-

If you did not plan, you are planning for faliure.
At least you do plan, the only setback is wrong moves..
wrong plans!

At least there are pensions to help out...I am beginning to
worry as my husband are retiring very sooon...and he has zero
savings. I just got to be creative about what we have and
submit to God to show the way....

Thank God I do have little rental income to cover the basic
needs..

All the best, God loves you, I believed God will provide!


myLot reputation of 97/100. jonjee0203 (4680)  3 years ago

As we trust in the Lord, we must also be responsible for our obligations. We have to upkeep the family and to take care of the children's education. As such, apart from merely putting saving under the current low regime, we should also invest in bonds, unit trusts and also in the stock market. Choose a few strategic stocks and stick with it! If you have some handy cash, also look out for good properties to purchase.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1662)   ranked 817 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Dear jonjee,

Yes...do agree with you! We must take responsibilities,
to provide for our family and children. Good advise, really
appreciate it. Oh yes, when the stock market is down, it is
definitely a good time to invest in some potential blue chips
and keep...let it appreciate in value and receive the dividend
as a passive income too. Great idea, will consider it :)

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. bingchen (948)   ranked 3,754 out of 32,962 in life   3 years ago

whatever i grow so old,i hope that i live with some plans,because this is my habit,i hope that i can finish something everyday and don't waste time to do unvaluble thing,i found that my father live very well.he often do training at the morning,the next he go to mountain to cut off some firewood and take back them to home,he play game with other people at night,so he looks young and healty,he said
he could not worry about something,the best thing for him his children can often see him at convinient time and be happy to live well.so i hope that i live enrich
for my old age.


myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (684)   ranked 867 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Hi Bingchen,

I really admire your father. Of coarse you too. I don't have plans everyday honestly. But I have plans for the future to buy a good comfortable home with nice kids and wife. But these plans will become true only if I am having plans for today.. Really well said.. Cheers... Have a nice day,,,thumbup


myLot reputation of 97/100. jonjee0203 (4680)  3 years ago

Many poeple live a life of regret. There were many things my father could have done. He was earning quite a tidy sum i nthe late 50s but apaprently he squandered it away in gambling. While his friends bought rubber estates and land, he didn't. They became very rich. My father was still an average wage earner. Before he retired, he managed only to buy a quarter acre of land. It was abad investment as he could not supervise the land. Nasty neighbours came at night and took the earth and soil away from the site to build their houses. Today, there are hollows everywhere on the land.I guess he will bequeathed it to one of his sons and he most probably will put it for sale.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1662)   ranked 817 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Dear jonjee,

Hahaha...I got to know that my father too bought 1/4
acre of land...lying idle there. But the fact was, the
money to buy the land is actually my mum's money. If I
am not mistaken, the proceeds from selling the Jasin's
house! My mum used my father's name because he told her
that it is more feasible to buy the land under his name
because he earn more...and the Inland Revenue will not
query about it ...sigh~

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3. myLot reputation of 86/100. radx682 (287)   3 years ago

well, I have some insurance policies and thats it...I dont have anything else. Whatever we earn is just enough for the monthly expenses and loans so where is the time to plan for the oldage..may be our assets like house, jewellery are the only things for our old age now...

Nowadays the prices of every commodity has soared up that making the both ends meet is becoming difficult...living a decent life is itself becoming difficult then where will I plan for the old age when my present is so uncertain.


myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (684)   ranked 867 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Hi radx682,

It's better not to loose hope. During the coarse of plan we learn something and we experience somthing which will have a better plan for a better tomorrow. I don't think only money and things makes us everything we need. But a good health and sound mind and a merry heart will make our old age a better one. Hope you agree this?.... Cheers... Have a nice day,,thumbup

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4. myLot reputation of 81/100. pranavpillai93 (224)   ranked 5,775 out of 32,962 in life   3 years ago

I have lots of plans for my old age at the age of 16! Hehe! I plan not to be a burden for anyone when I become old. I mean, I don't want to depend on my children or my sisters to take care of me then. I'd like to be on a long vacation in Hawaii or somewhere like that! My plan is to save as much money as I can for my old age when I get a job! Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (684)   ranked 867 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Hi friend,

Really I appreciate you for this thought in this young age. Everyone won't have these thoughts. I wish you all the success in your old age to travel places and enjoy..wink God bless you...Cheersthumbup

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5. judy1988 (88)   ranked 13,445 out of 32,962 in life   3 years ago

i don`t have any plan,as you said,no one can restrict it,but i somehow i afraid of becoming aged,not young,not as smart as used to.i think i need a long time to accept it,maybe someday i will find that being a old people is not as bad as i thought before.after 20 yeras old,i just feel that the clock giong faster than before,i can`t do anything to grab the time,i have so many things to do but few of them can make sence to me.it makes me feel feel terrible i realize that i have wasted so much time.


myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (684)   ranked 867 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Hi judy1988,

Still we have time I hope.happy We need to work on that to have a nice future and I too doing that. Time is really a great thing and it can never be compared to anything even to gold or the precious thing in the world. Instead grabbibg the clock, we can try to run faster than our time.lol. Nice to have your response here.. Have a nice day... Cheersthumbup

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6. myLot reputation of 91/100. sudiptacallingu (8859)   ranked 434 out of 32,962 in life   3 years ago

Apart from a little money, I have no plans for very old age. I have an only child and little property so nothing to worry coz I know that worrying will not really get my anywhere! And then you know, people who have lots of money and property, have lots of worries too LOL
I will have a little pension from my work and let’s see if I can save something for myself after I spend majority of my income on my son’s education.


myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (684)   ranked 867 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Hi,

You are a nice parent indeed. Spending most of all to your son is really a great thing and I hope your son must be worthy to have such a nice parent. Apart from money we need a sound mind and good health I hope ..right?...As you said worrying produces nothing and it won't give us any pleasure... Cheers.. Have a nice day...thumbup

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7. Donna_hit (61)   ranked 30,947 out of 32,962 in life   3 years ago

To be honest, I haven't thought ahout this topic before, partly because I am young now and think old age is far far away from myself. As being an elder is inevitable just like mentioned above, it is time for me to think about it carefully. Some people like to be quiet, so do I. I believe reading is a good hobby to kill time and improve myself. I have learned a few elders prefer to be active and some of them participate in dance band or become good user of computer. It is really a challenge for them.


myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (684)   ranked 867 out of 32,962 in life  3 years ago

Yes Donna. I agree you. But the young age never lasts long..lol..It will go as fast as it could. But keeping up the young thoughts and sound mind as I mentioned earlier is the key to have a great old age... Cheers.. Have a nice day always...thumbup

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8. myLot reputation of 86/100. vkprincedark (199)   ranked 8,385 out of 32,962 in life   3 years ago

Not Exactly.i dont want to become old soon.Im still a college going student so i not decided about the oldage yet.thats far from me...:)
The Truth is everyone has his oldage.No Matter what happens you need to think of your future and your children's future.

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9. indyoke (79)   ranked 18,098 out of 32,962 in life   3 years ago

With my status as head of houshold now, of course i hope in next time i can get better living than now. With better living as economic, maturity, social status, i wish my children can get what they dream, and for me as father, i wish whenever i'm getting old, i don't make them worry about me, i wan to be such nice old guy with happy ending life.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1662)   ranked 817 out of 32,962 in life   3 years ago

Dear Philip,

Thanks for this topic, it is very practical and make us think
about the Question that some of us will just 'do not want to
think about it!'...or as one of the popular song "Que Sera , Sera'
strumming away with : 'Whatever Will be, will be'

For myself, I came from a very poor family living in a secluded
estate. My father was working then but all his salary went to one
special hobby of his ~ gambling away on the pay day ~
So, left only my mum's pay as a rubber tapper - she has to pay
for her 8 children's education, household sundries and expenses,
She knows the value of money, she lives on her next month's pay.
Rubber tappers are daily paid..so she will buy the groceries from
the friendly neighbourhood sundry shop on credit - recorded in the
popular 555 notebook.

She knew how tough life is if we do not plan, so from young I was
taught by her to save...save...and save. But there is one ARCH enemy
who will eat up the value of money ~ the INFLATIONS! So, how can we plan
by rely on savings alone...other alternative plans have to be considered;

1) Purchase a long term life insurance plan that will pay bonus and
dividend. In case the insured is no longer in the world, the next of
kin will be taken care off. Or the insured can withdraw / surrender
the policy to get the cashvalue..to take care of his old age expenses.

2) Buying an endownment plan that at certain years, the whole initial
capital plus bonus will be return back to the insured. This is a better
plan for retirement. I sometimes call this as savings for the retirement.

3) Save in Goverment Bonds with higher dividends and capital guaranteed.

4) Purchase houses for rental, the rental can help to pay the monthly
instalment. Once the house is fully paid up..the rental income can be
used for expenses during old age. Moreover, house value can appreciate.
If you are weel to do, can invest in shop lots, office lots or industrial
buildings....it is money taht attracts money :)

5) Employeed Provident Fund...those who works in the private companies,
it is the Government Regulations taht the employee and employer must
contribute to this fund for retirement benefits to the employees.
But sad to say, many retiree has spent off most of the fund within
5 years after retired. So, who gonna take care of them after that?
Many has used the retirement money for children to buy car, buy house
or for children marriage..sighsad


All the best, better plan now..no one else will plan for you :)

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