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myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people4 months ago

angry Things like this: http://www.11alive.com/vi... make me furious. A stranger was arrested today for slapping someone else's toddler. He was bugged that she wouldn't stop crying and that the mother couldn't make her quit.

Who does such a thing???? He even LOOKS mean in his mug shot picture.

Just wanted to share that, as I'm still shaking my head in disgust and disbelief!

http://news.aol.com/article/stranger-slapped-screaming-child-in/653392?icid=main|htmlws-main|dl1|link3|http%3A%2F%2Fnews.aol.com%2Farticle%2Fstranger-slapped-screaming-child-in%2F653392<< the article here, the other link is to the video, but that is also in the article.

Karen

 
 
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kitty42 (1165) response was accepted on 10/29/2009.
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tags:  stranger, people, child abuse, kid, violence
 
1. jenysie (98)   ranked 16,154 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

Wow, I think I would smack him right back and call the police!! That's shocking that someone actually had the audacity to hit someone else's child!! If he was so annoyed with the crying child he should have just walked away!!

What a jerk!!


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

thumbup Hello Jenysie. I am with you on that...I would instinctively swat the daylights out of him!! And then, yes, I'd have called the police. To the credit of the Wal Mart people, they did just that...called the cops on this maniac.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Stephanie5 (1741)   ranked 98 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

By the time I was done, that guy would be BEGGING for someone to call the cops to save him!!!! My kid or not, I would of tackled that idiot quicker than an NFL Football Star!!! What an A$$!!! I can't believe he hit her in the face that many times!

I think his punishment should be a padded cell with toddlers screaming over the speakers 24/7 for about a year! He'd probably try to stab himself to death with his toothbrush after the first week.

I hope the judge really 'slaps' it to him! And I really don't think that jail time is enough. Maybe some anger management and therapy!!!


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

thumbup Hi Jenysie. I feel like you do. I hate the "I don't want to get involved" mentality that some people hold. I would have defended that child no matter if she were mine or someone else's. thumbup

You're also right. He needs more than just jail time. He obviously has some deep issues that need correcting!shocked

Karen

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


Well I was wondering where you were did not expect to see my friend so upset sad

That is sad I will check out the link, the nerve of this jerk what a shame shocked


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

sad Hi Kitty. I adore children and hate any form of abuse aimed toward me. The idea of such a thing happening, via a stranger in a public store??? Wonder what the heck he's like at home???shocked

xoxo


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


I agree with you, he looks really scary as well grrr I am sure that child must have been scared to death what was her mom doing while this was going on, lucky for him it was not my grand baby shocked too bad he did not think before he acted which is what he seemed to expect from this two year old, now he will have to explain his actions to some mean men who may have children of their own sad


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

glare Yes, it just shows on his face that he would be more than likely of committing such a deed, grrrr. I don't know exactly what the mom was doing, but like you, had that been one of my grandbabies?? Look out! And yup, I've heard what happens to prisoners who've hurt a child!

Have a most blessed day:))thumbupthumbup

Karen


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


I use to watch this show when I was younger called Prisoner Cell Block H, I always remembered that show I would ask people did they watch but they look at me like what are you talking about doh anyway I found it on the net youtube have almost every episode I try to watch it everyday lol I said that to say this when you get an inmate that do bad things to children the prison will sensor all papers so the prisoners don't know why you are doing time, I wonder if this really happens in his case I hope not, they all need to know what he did shocked


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

happy Hi Kitty...I've not heard of that show either, but it sounds interesting. There are those rules, but then sometimes they are broken, even by guards, and other times, when asked by another prisoner, some of the inmates "tell on themselve," unwittingly.

Hugs,
Karen


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


You are so right my friend I was going to add that to my post sometimes the guards themself will make sure you get your butt kicked for hurting a child or any minor offense depending on the guard shocked


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

I know such things do go on. It sometimes seems that true justice is hard to come by. I get that the man is probably "ill," but then that, too, can become like a cop-out.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

Hello my friend happy

How dumb is this just when you think you heard them all shocked now he has to do time when he could have simply walked out of the store wow unbelievable,he slapped her more than once could you imagine how scared the child must have been, geez well I am sure he will get a few smacks where he is going thumbdown


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

thumbup Exactly! Just walk the heck away. I just cannot imagine such audacity...he must be at the very least semi-insane. Ack!! I still cannot stop thinking about that.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Good morning my friend happy


Really sad sad but right now not to make light of the situation I really want to give this computer a few hard smacks it is working against me and it is making me really angry angry not sure this will go through so I wont type any more lets see what happens with this.


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

lol Where I lived before, I had a home office and my desk faced a window. I've lost counts of the times I would have gladly thrown my PC smack dab out of that window!!


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


If only my friend, If only lol shocked


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


Things are looking up lol thumbup


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

thumbup This is good news:)


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


How are things going today?

my connection really needs a swift kick let me tell ya shocked

1 minute god next minute angry


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

lol LOL, hi Kitty. I think most of us tend to have a love/hate relationship with our computers and with the internet! I know I do!

xoxo


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,380 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy

This happens every now and then it really bothers me now because I am actually doing something I love and not being able to respond makes me mad, but no sense getting all worked up if you see I am not responding to you nine times out of ten it is my connection shocked

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. zoey7879 (1254)   ranked 4,562 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

I would honestly have to slap him in his jewels and if he made any effort to cry, moan, roll on the floor, or whimper, kick him again.. see how he enjoys someone touching him...


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

thumbup My very sentiments, Zoey. We parents are very protective of our babies and it would be a gut reaction to get physical with him! It just makes one wonder...why on earth so much anger and violence? Where does it all end? shocked Smacking a tiny child, not once but 4 times??? A child you don't even know, no less, and in public.

I'm glad he's been arrested. thumbup

Karen


myLot reputation of 94/100. zoey7879 (1254)   ranked 4,562 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

My child or not.. if I saw that it was a perfect stranger, you bet I'd be jumping right up there and doing it anyway. I'll be damned if I'm gonna sit by and watch that crap go on. Maybe that makes me just as bad,a hypocrite... I don't know... but an adult who has nothing better to do than to literally pick on a small child... I'm relatively protective of all children, period.


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

thumbup Same here, Zoey. Even if that happened to a child not mine, I would definitely interfered!! Like you, I have a tender and protective spot for ALL children. thumbupthumbup

Thank you for you input!

Karen

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5. dominiqueen (67)   ranked 7,673 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

I would have hurt this guy if it were my kid he did this too. What a looser and a low life to attack a child. I bet he wouldn't walk up to an adult and try to slap them. For this looser to do this to a child who can't even fight back he deserves a real good beat down.


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

angry Hello Dominiqueen. I would have hurt him, too. And yes, low life he must be. It makes me angry still! Such a tiny child, no less, and defenseless. I wonder what makes some people do such outrageous things!

Thank you for stating your opinion.

Karen

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6. Zavash (46)   ranked 15,696 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

Very bad choice do that man, he risk is life now.


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hi Zavash...a very bad choice is right. He will definitely be spending time behind bars. Someone should treat him as he treated that defenseless child!thumbup

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. mike197601 (2867)   ranked 1,396 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

Apart from agreeing with the responses above I was also thiking what a stupid thing to do.
If you want a small child to stop crying then hitting it isn't a good idea as that will just make it cry even more.
He will go to jail I expectthumbup


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hello Mike. I have heard people tell their children: you'd better stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about! Just before they spank them.

And yes, that makes no sense what so ever. I am sure he will do jail time, as he should. thumbup

Karen

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. James72 (6971)   ranked 79 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

I would have one heck of a hard time restraining myself against someone that did this, that's for sure! shocked I'd like to think that I could dig deep enough within to be able to stay relatively calm until the Police arrived to arrest the person, but there's unfortunately a better than average chance I'd smack them around myself and THEN call the authorities. This is horrible! sad


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

thumbup Hello James. I'd have had the same reaction as you've described. I hate to see anyone harm a defenseless child. And so often: well the crying got on my nerves.

Okay, so walk away then! I thought this was particularly audacious since the man did not even know these people!!shocked

Sheesh!

Karen

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9. myLot reputation of 87/100. cherrc (373)   ranked 2,454 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

psychologically unstable. tsk...tsk...tsk...need i say more?:)


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

confused Hi Cherrc...yes, behavior such as that really does make one wonder if the man is stable at all! Ack!

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. babymimi05 (662)   ranked 7,556 out of 35,380 in people   4 months ago

This something very delicate and I would definitely kill that man after slapping my child. First of all, a child of two doesn't deserved to be slap at all. But unfortunately some parents has the bad habit of doing it without realising that a child of two is very innocent and young.
Interesting discussion you came up with Dear friend.
Cheers.


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2890)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

shocked Hello Mimi. I agree...such a young child should not be slapped, and this man was a complete stranger to both mother and child...just another customer in the same store. I've never heard of such behavior in those circumstances.

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