I'm not a darn yoyo thank you very much!!!

You are definitely not a yo-yo.. However, if you feel like you are being treated like one, try talking. If talking doesn't help, try counseling.. if nothing ever work, and it is every-time everything on your part only, then you have to have a serious talk. If you have tried countless times and the results are still the same, it's time to make a decision. For better or worst.. but if possible, try to avoid the D word. I know you have the every determination to work it out. Stay strong aite, Dawn..

Stay put with children. Do not leavde your home. Let him yo yo off into yo yo land. Up down and around. Up down and around. Wow! He's hit a snag and can't yank the yo yo. The yo yo is just dangling there all sad. Marityal conflict therapy takes two people, not one.

Are you talking of your marriage, Dawn? My ex (we never made it to the alter but lived together) went up and down like that. It is enough to make you crazy. He'd be cold for days & days. When I'd be ready to leave, suddenly I would get flowers...romantic dinners. I loved him and did want things to work. It was when I was done..,,.no matter what he did...I was on my way out and not looking back....that was when his true colors really showed up vibrantly. He got so so mean and vicious and the mind games were over the top. I got out and have no regrets. You need to think of your own happiness, Dawn.

ARE U speaking personally? I guess i have missed something, as usual.

Sometimes in extreme anger and frustration things are said and not really meant. However i don't buy into that totally. At times what we say in anger.. i dont mean pissed off or just annoyed.. i mean full blown "i am so hurt i want you to know a thing or two" sort of anger.. that to some extent what we say is derived from a truth. Ranting is a way to get all that emotional gunk out otherwise you'll feel like exploding! I know what you mean... and sometimes i feel like saying just get it over with already and make up your mind. Try to be patient.. easier said than done i know.. but all you can do is try.

oh, that's horrible..i think you should wank him to wake him upjoke. well, guys can be like, i dunno, happens to me too. probably he should have talked it out rather than expressing his emotion using anger in action..yeah, i get the point there, that reminds, u think i should buy one, have a great day.

you are a strong, powerful woman and you don't let any man yank your chain - YOU GO GIRL!

Up, down, up, down, and I'll bet you're not a fan of rollercoasters anymore either. Do what I did..........get yourself a bic lighter, a can of gas, and go stand by his truck and flic your bic. Got my hubs trained in no time!

hi dawnald sorry to hear things arent going well for you. I'think I must have found a fourleaf clover when I met my husband as he'was one in a zillion.faithful, fun loving oh he had his faults but they were really minor,none of the yo yoing some many mylotters have.What is in the mind of someone who enjoys yanking ones chain? apower trip?I would joke about this but it sounds serious to me. take care.

Hi Dawnald, I am like a yoyo evertime hubby gets home, I am on my computer, up I get to the kitchen, sit down get up again, yeah feel like a yoyo alright, grrrrr. Tamara

would you like to play a game of monopoly? (No cheating!) they better than a yoyo and last longer and you'll likely come out richer and happier

*Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeee* Thank you Dawn for reminding me why I've never married xD

Hi i feel like that as well all the time.It seems to me like one min they want you then the next they dont want you.It also seems like no matter what you do it will always be wrong.The children are always left so confussed no matter what and just like me you will always put the children before anything you want.Good luck.