Anybody feel JEALOUSY when their friends purchase car/costly items?
By Baluyadav
@Baluyadav (3643)
India
September 8, 2009 11:21pm CST
I saw some people who feel jealous when their friend purchase some costly items.But they never come out or out spoken with that friend.Have you come across that type of people?
4 responses
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
well,i am also feel that sometimes my friend,i think it just normal and i just admire that my friends have and i also dreaming that someday i will buy the new car of own a lot or vacation house.people that are successful are the one who are hard working and they can buy all those things that they like because they work so hard and save their money.so i think they deserving to have it.have a nice day
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
4 Nov 09
Hi,no amy,not that much hard work.My main source of income is from my consultancy on biodiesel.I used to charge $250/hectare[3years service-monthly 1 visit] of land for my supervision while planting jatropha plantation.Usually i get tie ups from farmers ranging from 150-200 hecatares.These 2 sites are not affiliate sites,they are purely related to my own consultancy.
http://www.newjatrophaworld.com
http://pergu-wwwjatropapongamia.blogspot.com
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
3 Nov 09
Hi,yes,after all we are human beings.Best wishes for purchase a car by you.You are true that work hard to meet all desires,but there are few people who born with silver spoon and few people are lucky in the middle of the life.Fortunately,i had everything for living happily.My car no is AP 36T 2345,for getting this number i paid extra for registration authority.This is on my wife name-p.sudha rani.
Hope you get whatever you want.All the best.
.All the best.
@aileen2008 (838)
• Philippines
4 Nov 09
No way! I am always happy with what my friends achieve even if have not experienced nor matched their achievements yet. I believe that we have our own time to succeed. If it is our friends' time, then let us just support them and congratulate them for a job very well done. What we have to do on our end is to make our friends our inspiration so we will strive harder.
Jealousy will not get us anywhere. It will only give us more troubles. Do your best and the rest will follow.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
6 Nov 09
hi,aileen,yes,actually we have to get motivated by the achievements reached by our friends/any member in the society and we too try for it.It is our duty to congratulate them for achieving some thing and for the hard work they did.Have a nice time.
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
I honestly do....
But this doesnt make me feel pathetic. It only empowers me to do work better so that i can get a raise and eventually buy the stuff that he procured.
Come to think of it, perhaps i shouldnt be jealous. What if he just filed a loan to get that car? I guess i would always be contented with what i am and have, i may not have a car but at least i dont have a loan...
eeewwrrr... sour graping...
@asiangirl93 (73)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Honestly, I do too.
I have a youtube account, and one my friends are getting really popular among fandubbers, and that really makes me feel down or like, I felt like, I lose. But, I keep on being positive and think that I will be like that someday.
But it's really hard to control these jealousy feelings.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
31 Oct 09
Hi,thank you asiangirl for your open response.One has guts to accept that i had jealous.It indirectly increase our inherent strengths to compete.Any how as you said it is very difficult to control especially who are facing the situation.Let us hope you relieved that feeling completely and with all people.HAVE A NICE TIME.
