I've married two years ago. I do not get a baby yet. So sad

maybe you can adopt a child

If you love your wife, you won't think of getting divorce just because you can't have a baby. Ok, One of my aunt was about your age, has been married for 6 years already, just last year They've been blessed with a baby girl. She has some own problems like as that of your wife. My point is, If you are really so desperate to have one, then you have to try harder, try to test different advance ways. I understand how you feel, It's ok to be sad sometimes, but it's not like its the end of the world right? you still have your loving wife with you.

It is very sad to know that your wife has not been able to conceive since the past two years. But you should not lose hope because cyst is very common in ladies these days and can be treated by a gynecologist. My neighbours who did not have a baby for the last 8 years finally took treatment of three months only for her cyst and she conceived and delivered a healthy baby boy on fifth January this year. And as far as hypertyroid, I myself am suffering from this disease and take treatment from PGI which is largest hospital in our area. Earlier I was not aware that because of hyperthyroid, woman can not conceive, but after getting this disease, I read everything about it on internet and if you also try to find out about the disease, you will come to know that with right medicine, conceiving is not a problem for a lady suffering from hypertyroid. ANd it is really sad to read that thought of divorcing your wife just because of this problem came into your mind. What if you were suffering from some disease due to which your wife was not able to conceive. Be positive and practical in life.

You know, if you love your wife, I think you should stick with the "For better or worst" part of your commitment. Not having a baby doesnt mean that it's the end of the world. I dont think anyone should measure their love by whether or not the wife can have a baby.

You can adopt or you can go to a doctor that specializes in fertility. Alternately, you can try artificial insemination if you can afford it.

However, if your wife has hyperthyroidism then the risk of carrying a baby can be high for her. If she also has a cyst, it depends on whether the cyst is malignant to determine if it is something serious or not.

Before you seek for a fertility specialist, you have to treat her current health condition (cyst and hyperthyroidism). Otherwise, even if she gets pregnant, the chances of losing the baby may be high.

Best of luck and blessings to you and your wife.

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hello pormadi,
i know how you feel and you should understand that your wife is having medication right now. for sure she herself, wanted a baby more than you do. you are both still young. you can have it in no time. but for now, you need to have a lot of patience for she needs to be treated first.
you can adopt if you really can't wait any longer. but divorcing her i think is unfair to her. besides, you are only two years that were married. other couple married longer than you do and have same problem like you but getting out marriage is not their option just to have a baby. don't lose hope. have faith.

Well,i think its better pray to god He will full fill your request,and there is lots of time don't feel sad.And don't think of divorceing.It is not her fault,wait and see few more years,and then you can adopt a child.Show her to a doctor and pray both of you.Hope God will listern your prays.Good luck.

Hi there.
You must consult the doctor of your life if there is still possibility for your wife to get pregnant, and if ever the answer is yes, you need to ask if she can get pregnant even if she would be undergoing treatment. But if your wife would have difficulty to get pregnant, maybe you can adopt a child. I don't think it is fair to your wife if you divorce her. Do you love her? or does she love you? I think she needs you in this kind of situation. She's sick and she needs support and attention. Good luck to you. Let's just hope and pray.

why should u get a divorce? do u think a problem can be solved by another problem?
i cannot answer ur question whether ur wife is still capable of bearing a child. what did the doctor say?

ur wife needs ur support, therefore, support her. if she is now seeing a doctor, accompany her during her visits and be supportive. that is how a good and loving should be.

You and your wife are not alone, many people have problems getting pregnant, and lots of people try for longer than 2 years before it happens. You should be grateful that you have found out the reasons why you're not conceiving; now that you know about your wife's cyst and thyroid condition then there may be a way of curing this and improving your chances of making a baby.

You may be desperate for a baby, but is that really a reason to think about divorce? If you love your wife then you're lucky that you have her and that you've found love. And even if you don't end up having a baby you'll still love her, right? Divorce should only be a last resort measure; if a couple don't love each other and cannot bear to live with one another.

You should show her your love and be sympathetic to her and try to imagine the horrible things she's going through with all the medical treatment. She must be feeling a thousand times worse than you about the whole situation as it's her body that is suffering. Men don't have to suffer these things and so sometimes they don't try to sympathise and put themselves in their wife's shoes.

She needs lots of love, affection and support. One of the main reasons for not getting pregnant is stress. So try to do everything you can to not put her under further stress and pressure, and make her feel relaxed and appreciated!