Are you in LOVE?

infatuation is term i should apply to what is happening to me i guess, yeah you are right!

Hey, keep it up dude, you both are going to have a nice time together . . . m glad.

Hello Jambi,

Glad that you love the girl. And it is amazing that she is your dream girl friend. When we in love with some one, we will for sure want to spend more time with them. More ever if we don't see each other for long, we will miss them, haha, Thus is what we call we are in LOVE!

Hope you will have a good relationship with her and happy in love!

Hi . . . for that suggestion you put about that jealousy thing, i was and i still get when this girl i know though she is only a good friend oh mine, i have been trying to understand it, i just hope i am not in to this girl, i dun wanna fall in love now, i have my studies and all, the funny part is that she knows that i frown each time she talks about other guys! and she takes it lightly and gosh she admits she like to tease me with talking about other guys, i can't help it lol . . . she is a little crazy i guess and i think for sometime i fell for her but now i am letting go of her, i don't want to fall in love with someone like that, she will be my good friend though, and i don't know if she likes me that way(no she doesn't of course, she talks sweet with all the boys! for once i thought even she was being special to me but no.) but if she does then she has to tell otherwise i am leaving and will be just friends, oh what complex this love or attraction is, sometimes we can't understand the way we behave... i really liked this girl and i think she knows and she kinda plays around teasing me talking about others boys doesn't make it look like she deserves me... fair enough i have already lost most of the feelings for her and i don't care if she thinks about me coz i don't think she deserves me... lolz this is funny!

Dear voldrox,

Yes, you definitely have a feeling for her.
But you are wise and practical too. At times
being good friends is a great way to spend time
together and undertand each other better. As life
journey goes on, perhaps after both of you has a
stable career, love may just bloom. If you are meant
for each other, you will be. If not, stay as friends
are great too:)

not his looks, not his money, . . but his being around you, the way he makes you feel!

there, you have the proof...

i am sure you can't exactly put those feelings in words . . . have a nice time both of you.

something interesting mhmm well looks like my best friend is just an ideal match for me, i am quiet and she fills the gap but yeah well now she only seems to my best friend after all, wow she doesn't smell foul though... just kidding.. yeah well she says she likes you then she does. . . . . all the best:)

you are absolutely right, love should be from both the sides, i had feelings for this girl and she knows, she plays around teasing me with those feelings, i have understood she isn't for me. . . now i also laugh when she teases me with talking about other guys coz i used to feel jealous each time she used to mention their names and she still does. . . i am ok with it now coz we are just friends and i have stirred away those feelings for her, but their is a huge problem she likes me (i can only hope she doesn't like me too much!) and misses my txts at times i just hope she doesn't fall for me plz.

I am feeling sorry for you . . .

hi . . . i am in the same situation, hasn't been long i have known her, i have been special to her always, gave her my attention always, always loved talking to her and meeting her, i thought even she was special to me but wait . . . she is special to others as well, it is time i let her go, she is not for me... i deserve someone better, no remorse and no bad feelings what so ever coz she will still be my good friend, i am glad i could know how she is and i guess she didn't know that i had fell for her though she has a doubt i know, yeah but she is not all that bad, she is still a nice girl to me but not someone who i can live with or share my love with plz.

hmm physical attraction . . . i wonder if that is the case with me with this girl now. . . nopes!

i just like her very much, hmm i guess she will be my good friend though, i have had a hard time understanding my feelings for this girl, it's like i was attracted to her very much but my conscience tells me something is wrong and it is better she just be good friends, and so i am trying to let go of those feelings for her, i know it is kinda weird but that is the actual case with me here . . .also my conscience tells me that i can't spend my life with someone like her. . . definitely relationships can be so complex!