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sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life2 months ago

Nowadays there are more and more beggars.But what quite confused me is that some of them are strong men,they can totally live on their own work,maybe some of them have some difficulties,but surely not all.what's your opinions about them?I just keep silence on it,because I think though they are healthy,they just don't wanna to work,begging is their choice,begging is a kind of work maybe,everyone can choose it if they like.
I disputed with one of my classmates over it once.We were passing by a street,we saw a young mother with her baby were begging for 8 yuan to buy sth to eat and to take her bus,but we have no money at that time,but my classmate said so much to criticise her,she said she were cheating,and so much!I nearly couldn't stop her,so I had to make my voice louder and louder to stop her!Of course it made her angry.
Do you think I am wrong?what's your opinions?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 34/100. loganirado (252)   ranked 11,464 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

I don't think you are wrong. Your friend's opinion is just like mine. I can't stand beggars, even if I have money, I don't give then a dime. But I don't talk to then or criticize then either. In my opinion, being a beggar is a choice, saying that the government or the society doesn't give then opportunities is just an excuse to do nothing.

You were right to tell your friend to not judge that beggar because it not right. Well, this is just my opinion.


sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life  2 months ago

Thank you so much!T was a little troubled,but I am better now.

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2. myLot reputation of 78/100. votenoonpineapple (209)   ranked 14,527 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

I think there are lots of reasons why people end up on the streets like that. I don't think that young, fit people actually want to be there. Sometimes, if you can't find work, or things happen in life and you don't have anyone to fall back on for support, things can go badly.

Not everyone has someone to go to for help, and the government seems to be there for you after it's too late. It's sometimes just a matter of luck, friends/family, and circumstance that keeps you going long enough to get the help.

Plus, if one of the young fit men that you see begging walked in to a bank asking for a job, they probably wouldn't be given one. Not without a shower, and clean clothes, a resume, etc. Also, once you get a job, it would take a few pay checks before you could afford a place to live and all the necessities. They couldn't exactly sleep outside the bank after their shift, and then walk back in in the morning to work the next day.

Sometimes, you need money to make money.


sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life  2 months ago

You have a warm heart,I do think some of them have some troubles,however I didn't think so much in detail.Maybe some times we should learn to think on another side.

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. vonmac (1838)   ranked 4,389 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

Most of the beggars here are people trying to get money to feed a drug habit
So one day one asked me if I could spare a quid for a cup of coffee.
I thought I would do the nice thing and went and got him a cup of coffee.
Well he wasnt happy and he told me to stick it up my arse!!! So I drank it.


sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life  2 months ago

That is too bad! you are so clever.If it was me,I would just give him some money,but that was wrong in fact!

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. notlistening2 (10593)   ranked 7,684 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

I don't give to beggars, I understand they are going though, a hard time I am to I just lost my apartment, and I am now staying with my sister, I am thankful I have family who will help me, that is why I stay here on the internet, all of the time trying to earn me some money, eaveryday I don't want to end up in the streets. sadthumbdownthumbdown


sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life  2 months ago

I am so sorry to hear that,and wish you a nice life!Yes, you are right,we have relatives who are willing to help us when we are in trouble,we are lucky anyway.GOODLUCK!!!

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5. silverstone_131 (55)   2 months ago

Hi sophia10, well I feel really sad for them and try to help them from time to time, when I see a beggar most of the times I give him/her money but though sometimes you may blame them .. but I think we have to blame the country, what can he/she do when they do not have money to study and to work and life was not kind with them at all? I think we have to help these people out. I am currently studying in university so I am not working but when I do work hopefully I will try my best to help any beggar I see. Thank you for your response and have a great day!


sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life  2 months ago

silverstone_131,you are so kind,so helpful!a nice day too!Thank you.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. thezone (1883)   ranked 1,933 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

What would happen if you were a beggar?


sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life  2 months ago

Anything could happen!I even don't know whether I have the faith to continue to live or not.

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7. ladyella (88)   ranked 3,793 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

some beggars who seem to look fit and healthy really annoy me but i feel that i have to help because there are persons who tug at my heart because i see that they are really in need. these people are not holding college degrees and may ave tried applying for a job but because of their lack of qualifications, they opted to beg just to support themselves and their families.

the beggars that i really give something to are old men and women who look so forlorn and hungry that it makes me want to cry. we should give if we have something and if it's not against our will. we should give freely without doubts and regrets.


sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life  2 months ago

Give them freely without doubts!Right!There are alot of things that we were unable to indentify their authenticity,so,if we choose to give,just do it,and give without doubts and regret.

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8. myLot reputation of 83/100. Bluepatch (2451)   ranked 3,674 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

The thing about beggars is that those are people who cannot help the situation they are in.
No one wants to be a beggar and no one volunteers for that kind of life.
Sometimes they do cheat but if you lived in that kind of situation you probably would cheat too.
Its a hapless situation to be in.


sophia10 (32)   ranked 8,265 out of 38,036 in life  2 months ago

Most of them are helpless,and need our help.But as a student I don't have extra money to help all of the beggars I meet,so I usually give money to handicapped poople and old men,not healthy one.

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9. rachaelspires (39)   ranked 34,819 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

In some cases there are people on the street not because they have a drug or alcohol problem. I believe in second chances and everyone getting theirs. I help out where I can and where I can see there is someone really in need of it. I once gave away half of my furniture and clothing to a family that had lost their home in a fire and had nowhere to go. I am not a well off person I believe in karma and in keeping faith with mankind.

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2932)   ranked 30 out of 38,036 in life   2 months ago

Human society since time immemorial has always been plagued by the presence of beggars. Mostly were born poor and have no means to find a job. People who can neither read or write or are phycically challenged. They became what they are not by choice and it is difficult to categorize. The government, through social welfare agencies have programs to address this particular issue but in many places,it's obvious that it's lacking. We should always be discerning and compassionate and help those who are genuinely needy.

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