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myLot reputation of 91/100. mzz663 (996)   ranked 1,339 out of 38,193 in life2 months ago

Hilary Swank recently revealed that she walks around nude in front of her boyfriend's 6-year-old son.
Is this promoting body acceptance or damaging for the kid?


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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20381)   ranked 103 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

It all depends on the culture. I have a German friend who "raised the family nude," so to speak. They all went nude swimming, took nude saunas together, etc. Now the kids don't think twice about seeing someone nude, male or female, young or old. I don't think there should be a problem with nudity. The only reason why it would scar a kid for life is because of what we, as society, have turned it into.


myLot reputation of 91/100. mzz663 (996)   ranked 1,339 out of 38,193 in life  2 months ago

I don't have a problem with nudity in the home, but this being a step son that's already six years old seems kind of odd to me. If my kids were young like that and in a household where the step-mother walks around nude, I'd probably be upset somewhat unless that was my way of life, too and it was acceptable to both households. If his mother don't agree with this sort of behavior, it could possibly confuse him later.


myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20381)   ranked 103 out of 38,193 in life  1 month ago

But is the step-mother supposed to change a perfectly OK part of her lifestyle just because her new husband's children might not have been raised that way? Why should she change, rather tahn the couple helping the step-children understand that nudity is not dirty?

I have some ultra-conservative family members (step-family!) and some in my new family (husband's family), but since they are not going to become liberal for me, I am not going to become conservative for them. We're not necessarily talking about nudity here, but if we were, my principles would stand.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. sinnedsejatnom (236)   ranked 6,443 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

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myLot reputation of 91/100. mzz663 (996)   ranked 1,339 out of 38,193 in life  2 months ago

I'm not so sure about that, being born in a family that doesn't make a big deal out of nudity and makes it commonplace wouldn't necessarily make a boy into an abuser. I think teaching them respect for each other has a lot to do with this. Seems that abusers end up being the ones that learn from television and movies the disrespect.
Teaching a child when they get a visitor to the home or when they leave the home, they need to cover up teaches them modesty.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. stephcjh (22546)   ranked 100 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

I think that is disgusting. I do not think that is right at all for a parent to do something like that in front of a child or anyone for that matter. I do not think children should feel like they can show the world their body at anytime either. That is sacred.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. jonjee0203 (1655)   ranked 222 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

I would love to be the boy to see Hilary Swank in the buff.

Anyway, on a serious note, my friend told me she walks around naked in the house and both her daughter and son have got used to it. Things are as if natural. Whether this will rub upon the children when the grow up is hard to tell.

Personally, I am a prude and would not do a Hilary Swank in front of my kids.



myLot reputation of 91/100. mzz663 (996)   ranked 1,339 out of 38,193 in life  2 months ago

lol....I'm guessing you would jonjee!lol

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (4327)   ranked 620 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. dragon54u (9544)   ranked 176 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

I believe there should be modesty in a household. This doesn't mean horror because your son/daughter walked in on you changing clothes, but it means not parading around nude.

When my sons were little I let them run around nude--they wouldn't keep their clothes on, anyway! By the time they were 3 they wanted to wear clothes most of the time because I didn't make a big deal out of their nudity. They'd occasionally catch their dad and I changing clothes but that was no big deal either, we didn't convey a sense of panic put just calmly asked them to leave and let us finish.

The result is two healthy adult men who are modest but not ashamed of their bodies.

As for Swank, I think age 6 is a little old to be exposed to nudity on a regular basis. Why is he coming into the bedroom every morning? Teach him to knock on the door, let him develop a sense of privacy and consideration for others and in turn learn that he might like some, too.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. Phaedra_Scythe (1560)   ranked 918 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

It's usually a cultural thing or how you were raised. I think it's probably seen as less acceptable because it's not her child. If it were her own son, it wouldn't be as weird.

That said, I find it a bit odd. I suppose at six he doesn't really understand, but he's getting to the age where she should probably be a bit more careful.

What I find really, really odd is that she's silly enough to admit this to the press. She's not new to the fame game. She must realise that people would have a field day with this and that any candid or unusual confessions will be blown way out of proportion.

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. voldrox (1458)   ranked 627 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

Hi mzz

This is really weird, it might not be for those people but it is so ridiculous honestly, here if in my place if some does something like that, they will be looked down upon by the society... i don't think it is right in anyway, this has got to hinder with that kids thinking and morality, i mean it would become so weird when he grows up. confused

have a nice day mzz!cool

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10609)   ranked 179 out of 38,193 in life   2 months ago

Actually, at his age, I am thinking that it will numb him down. He will come to think of the female body as natural and won't be aroused just by seeing some skin. I actually don't think that's a bad thing. Maybe just maybe when he gets older he will look at a woman for who she is and not for her body. Not sure that I'm right here at all but I seriously don't think the human body is anything we should be ashamed of or covering.


myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10609)   ranked 179 out of 38,193 in life  2 months ago

Actually...I'm retracting. I've read some of the other responses. While I see nothing wrong with her nudity...the child should be taught modesty. Regardless of how I look at nudity...not everyone feels as I do. There are so many freaks and predators out there that would look at a child with sexual feelings. I need to think on this some more but I am now seeing the other side of this issue. I could be wrong in my initial reaction.

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