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myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people3 months ago

I've always been on the heavy side when it comes to my weight.
At 1 time about 15 years ago i was at my lowest weight and actually wore a 2 piece bathing suit and short shirts and even a skirt here and there. I'm not a skirt or dress personshocked. But over the years the weight came back and I went from a1 piece to a 2piece bathing suit to shorts and a T-Shirt every time we went swimming.
I don't think it looks good when you overweight and you have 3 rolls on your belly to wear a bikini. The same goes for spandex pants or tank tops. Why would you walk around with your legs rubbing together and your arms flapping for the world to see.
Do you think it's gross or do you think "If they don't care why should I"?
Sorry if I offended any onesad

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. dlr297 (2794)   ranked 5,841 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

Over weight people do not look very good wearing bikinis, and speedos, But everyone has their own opinion and their are people that like that sort of thing.

I believe that each person should make up their own minds, and ware what they are comfortable wearing. and people that do not like it they should keep their opinions to themselves unless they are asked for it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. tskmjk55 (434)   ranked 9,814 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

I would like to see overweight people in Bikinis. It will be good to see. If its too much overweight, then it may look awkward.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

I think it does but some people like it and don't care

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. sudiptacallingu (7200)   ranked 731 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

If they don’t care, why should I? definitely so, its their body and I really don’t know if they have some biological problem or they are just comfortable being fat or whatever…its their body and their decision to keep it covered or exposed. I agree that it does not make a pretty sight but then we all are ordinary mortals, not supermodels and handsome hunks…age catches up with everybody, every woman’s body undergoes change which makes it look less and less appealing after each phase…this does not mean that the woman cant walk around in bikinis and tank tops. If you are comfortable, I have no right to complain.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

Sometimes i wish it was easier for me to wear stuff that shows a little figure but I always try to wear loose clothe.

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. picjim (518)   ranked 4,661 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

As long as you are comfortable its o.k.If you feel self conscious i would stop wearing those outfits.It doesn't look good but then everything depends on the person wearing them.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

Point taking. If you feel comfortable with your body than I guess you don't care.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. rosepedal64 (1404)   ranked 4,673 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

Hi missybear
Good to hear from you again.
Im a little over weight too. Wait let me rephrase that, Im over weight period..LOLlol
According to what I am suspose to weigh Im about 40 pounds over. As for me I won't wear a bikini or short anything. I feel out of place and the looks that I get from people make me feel real out of place. I don't like being starred at any ways and to add to the problem..NO WAY..I think that people should wear what they want as long it doesn't look nasty looking..Have a nice day and keep smiling. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

I'm with you. On vacation there was a lot of overweight girls in bikinis at the pool.
They didn't seem to care. I think it bothered me more than them. I just don't feel comfortable showing off my flab.
Nice to hear from you. lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. rosepedal64 (1404)   ranked 4,673 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

Hi missybear
Yes the flab...I have enough of that to share with several people. If you know anyone that needs some flap, Im got some to give away for FREE..LOL..Have a great day my friend. Keep smiling..

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

Yes they should.... shocked


In the comfort of their OWN HOMES! lol. I was always skinny as a younger girl, and i wouldnt wear that stuff even though i had a small body/frame. I think there is something to be said about leaving SOME things to the imagination!!


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

Exactly my thoughts too, but some people don't care who looks at them.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

well they should care about how other people feel as well as themselves. geez have a little compassion! haha.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. moneymakingtoday (1719)   ranked 474 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

i had that time of my life, lol. and i had that time when i was confident wearing a ONE-piece swimsuit. that was when i was yet single and i was confident of how i look. as i gave birth and added years to my age (lol), i have also added pounds here and there. never had i worn even a ONE-piece bathing suit again. people may not care but i do care how i look and what a funny view i would be. also, never had i worn a two-piece bathing suit before when i had a slimmer body.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

I'm the same way, Why show something that's not that nice to look at.

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8. myLot reputation of 92/100. lealuvy2j (318)   ranked 12,045 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

Honestly, I really don't care if they do wear speedos or spandex tops. To each his own, right? I just hope that they are really confident wearing those things. I admit I am not really skinny and I do have a belly but I still wear one-piece spandex bathing suits because I'm comfortable in it and I don't really care what other people say about it. It all depends on how you carry the clothes anyway not how the clothes carry you.:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

Good for you, sometimes I wish I felt better about my body.

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9. myLot reputation of 88/100. Craicha (700)   ranked 8,529 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

yah why not as long it fits n them and they feel comfy 2 wear it in the public....yah u shld nah care, u shld mind ur own business...


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

It is my businesses if I have to look at it.

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. cortjo73 (2279)   ranked 4,358 out of 35,311 in people   3 months ago

I have cellulite on the backs of my legs and I hate it but, it is me now and there isn't anything that I can do about it. I am not overweight but, I'm not firm and could stand to loose about 5 pounds right now. That being said, if I find a good 2 piece bathing suit that looks good on me, I'll wear it. If it is tasteful, a bathing suit is a bathing suit whether 2 or 1 piece. However...spandex on anyone is a no no. Gross! Spandex on men should be a crime. I don't care what kind of shape a man is in. Spandex is wrong, wrong, WRONG!


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2175)   ranked 40 out of 35,311 in people  3 months ago

That's funny. I have a lot of flab too from going up and down on my weight.

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