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myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 1,453 out of 23,354 in relationships3 months ago

It is said that the best way to lower your workplace stress is to improve your relationship with the boss. Yes, if you have a strong relationship with your boss, you can increase your day-to-day workplace happiness and have more chances to improve yourselves obviously.

But for most stuff, it is really a challenge to try to improve your relationship with your boss. You see, they are not familiar with their bosses and they have no idea about which category does your boss fall into, understanding, friendly or scathing. It seems that it is impossible exactly for them to get along better with your boss.

Have you met such a situation before? How to improve your relationship with your boss? If you have tried to improve the relationship, do you regard it as an important part of your job?

 
 
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1. AD1970 (93)   ranked 21,905 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

I usually don't go out of the way to please my boss. But I think it is important that you make the boss notice who you are and what you have achieved for him. He will appreciate you more.

Also, if the relationship is good enough, you can call your boss over for dinner at home or restaurant...

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2450)   ranked 2,448 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

This advice is probably good for the subordinate, but most bosses would not be encouraged to get too familar with their staff.


myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 1,453 out of 23,354 in relationships  3 months ago

Why would most bosses not be encouraged to get too familar with their staff.

From where I stand, people can do well if they keep a good relationship with their boss. In my country, nowadays, more and more bosses are encouraged to try their best to get familar with their staff, which is a friendly way to improve the work efficiency.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2450)   ranked 2,448 out of 23,354 in relationships  3 months ago

Maybe I laft out a very important adverb - 'TOO,' familar. Which is different to friendly, as that can create jealeous feelings amongst the staff.

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. shajerrl (270)   ranked 6,521 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

The best way I think is improving your work peformance, every boss will want his/her followers can try their best to work for him/her, so if your work can be well done always, your boss will turst you more and of course you will have a better relationship with your boss...

anthoer point, if you have better personal relationship in privacy with your boss, maybe it's not good for you to improve youselves...but i not sure for this point, just for my imagination, this also will differ with different persons...good luck.


myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 1,453 out of 23,354 in relationships  3 months ago

Work peformance is an important part, relationship is important too.


myLot reputation of 79/100. shajerrl (270)   ranked 6,521 out of 23,354 in relationships  3 months ago

I still think you should not to develop the private relations with your boss, the only thing you need to do is hardworking and creating more values to your boss, that's should be best and effective way to get the trust from your boss.

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. hexeduser22 (689)   ranked 4,540 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

I'm still in college but I did experience working a while back. I agree with you that having a good relationship with your boss will really lighten up the stress in your workplace. Me, I don't try to please my boss I just try to do good in my work because it is what I'm being paid for. If my boss likes me it's good but if doesn't like me then I don't mind just as long I'm not doing anything wrong that would greatly affect my job.

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. Fulltank (1273)   ranked 2,419 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

If you want the easiest way then make him or her the God Father/Mother of your next child (LOL). Really, it would mean something.But thats the wrong side. The right side is simply give your best to ever task he/she assigned to you. Being friendly to your boss seems make a lot too. But make sure to know where you are standing, colleagues see you too close to him/her will have a negative impact on your personality.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (2865)   ranked 681 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

I am not the right person to give you tips and tricks about imprssing your boss. The only possible way I can tell you is hard work and timely response. That is how I work with my boss. I have seen many people impressing their boss by flattery. I mean just by saying 'you look good in this dress' or 'this hair cuts suits you well', etc. stuff. I hate flattery and I am sure that I can never do that to anyone.


AD1970 (93)   ranked 21,905 out of 23,354 in relationships  3 months ago

I hate flattery too..In fact, if I don't like something my boss is doing, I will usually say it, but in a polite way...Unlike most of the others in my office who just flatter him and say only "yes".

Like I said before, hard work is the key...And you have to make him notice that you did the job...

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7. myLot reputation of 81/100. crushy79 (406)   ranked 3,239 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

i worked in a hospital before i got married.

it was a very good experience for me.

it is very very essential to build rapport with your boss.

i think we should be punctual at work.

we should be perfect and finish our work task within time limit.

we should respect our coworkers.

we should not allow any personal work interfering in our work.

i think these are the major point we should follow.

we dont need to meet our boss often for our work.

if we do our duty well it will come to his view automatically.

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8. myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5520)   ranked 18 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

It does depend on who your boss is! I’ve had bosses that are not only unpleasant but impossible to please! My last boss was actually a work mate who received a promotion and I got along with him quite well and certainly having a good rapport with the boss makes your working life easier and less stressful; unfortunately it is not always possible. My husband is having issues with his boss at the moment because he is demanding the impossible and will not listen to reason.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9106)   ranked 376 out of 23,354 in relationships   3 months ago

Hi there!happy
I think that it is pertinent to have a good relations with you boss at work place. One needs to be submissive and be attentive to listen to commands and requests of one's boss. Boss should never be undermined or disrespected. One should accept the fact that the Boss is better qualified and experienced than him, that is why he is the boss and he be respected. We should have cordial relations with your boss and we should always listen to him/her and should not displease her/him, without any substantial reasons. If one wins the heart of his Boss, he would be in his good books and will be benefited in the long run.

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10. myLot reputation of 84/100. raiyandhaka (317)   3 months ago

i think an intelligent and wise boss are not like flattering. to be close and make a good relation with a boss you need to care and sincere on your office duty first. by your sincere and satisfactory work, you may get attention and comes close to your boss. he may like you.but if you treat it's like a friendship as like as office mate, college friend,personal friend, it will not good may be.always need to remember, boss like you by your official activities, sincerity and performance. you must keeping respect to him. off course its a important part, if your boss like you and you able build a good relationship, boss may increase your increment and other facility, which are improve your living quality.

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