Wife: " I will give him a dose of his own medicine" I will cheat on him too...

@manong05 (5027)
Philippines
October 16, 2009 9:17pm CST
Maybe this was said in the fit of anger and never really intended to but could this be possible. Could a wife think of this thing seriously, wanting to get even? Or it is more likely to be just in the burst of anger. What do you think?
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@ruperto (1552)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
...Sounds like the history of mankind... I think it is just a transient burst of anger. It seems a coping mechanism to help one get by deep resentment. I think i happens to everyone. perhaps whether one would actually "cheat" is another matter. For what is real cheating? Perhaps it is to violate one's nature... If that is so, extramarital affairs, then, may or may not be cheating, isn't it. Perhaps I sound weird; perhaps it's because I am :) What do you think? Cheers
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
I think so too, that often is is only said out of anger and frustration but when opportunity to cheat rears it's ugly head, some women fall. This is the reality of life we see around us nowadays. enjoy life!
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@ruperto (1552)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
thanks for your insights. Also, perhaps women, as child-bearers, are more aligned into the universal law of giving toward a fuller life. Though I am a male, I believe most females are more physiologically* and psychologically** attuned to "excellence in giving even beyond human limits" (in context of child-bearing and rearing.) Males, perhaps on the other hand, have no major change [note: * & **] besides aging which seems to be common to both sexes. To conclude, it seems males may choose to be childish all their lives (and almost get way with it). Females, on the other hand, seem to be bestowed more virtue as suggested above... What do you think?
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
I agree with you ruperto. Women tend to be more committed in relationships and the last person in the world to fall. They tend to be strong when faced with overwhelming temptations unless pushed to do limit, generally it is not in their nature to intentionally cheat. There may be exceptions, this is just a general observations. cheers!
@sunita64 (6468)
• India
17 Oct 09
Why men cheat that is one thing I always think, there is one friend who is always cheating his wife, but he says he loves his wife a lot so cannot live without her either, that makes me think is their something wrong in a mans costitution or by nature they are polygamus. God only knows, but I also feel that we women should also behave like that so that they may get their own dose of medicine. What do you say?
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
One silly thing we see today is when a man cheats society looks at it as a normal occurence, but if a woman cheats, it will be a horrible thing. Isn't this true? cheers!
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
17 Oct 09
not much point it won't acheive much, you may end up feeling worse. my bro inlaw and the other blokes wife went out on a date not long after it was found out about the other 2, but from what i heard of the night not much happened expect they had a good time together.
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
a wife may think of it because of anger.it is a given that she will say bad things because she is angry.when a human is angry,s/he becomes impulsive and acts/says some things because of that angry.if that happens to me,I will leave him.I will leave him because he cheated and to save myself.what if he contacted an STD with the woman he fooled around with?I don't want to catch a disease due to his infidelity.
@sexyposh (575)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
If you're asking for a number, like in percentage of chances that a wife would get even, never heard of such survey. But if you ask me, I think its more on a burst of anger, if she caught her husband cheating. But one thing is for sure, she'll lose her trust on him...
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
Yes, regardless of whether the idea crosses her mind or not, one thing for sure, the trust is gone and the chances o regaining it are rather slim and may take a long time. enjoy life!
• United States
20 Oct 09
I think that it really depends on the woman. However for most women I think that its a fit of anger however do not be fooled if we as women are pushed far enough we can be real witches ( see War of the Roses). Most women are willing to forgive to a certain point, but beyond that point we can be revenful creatures.