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myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships1 month ago

Are you still in good term with your ex? If this question popped me, I'd say I am no longe having communication with my exs. Its not that I am bitter or something, it just so happend that it ended there after we broke up. But if ever we'll cross again I think I can still give them a smile or even a tap on the shoulder.. But the funny thing is and I also think ironic, I am uncomfortable when the ex of my current boyfriend greets us or having conversation with my boyfriend..

I already let him know that, and we already compromise.. He is still talking with her but not as much as before anymore..

 
 
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crazyoverpurple (2921) response was accepted on 10/18/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. LdeL0318 (512)   ranked 8,800 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

I still have communications with some of them. I do have good relationship except for one of my exes. We became totally strangers after the break up. We haven't talk since. It's been seven months already.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

That's the part that I don't get sometimes, why do we become suddenly strangers with our ex, while we use to talk 'til wee hours in the evening? I think its better to be that way, it might cause complications to your current relationship if to pursue the communication.

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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. max1950 (1390)   ranked 5,719 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

yes since 1973 we got married in 1969 divorced in 73 and have remaimed friends ever since. back then we just got married to young had 2 kids and it didnt work out, i see her and her husband 3-4 times a year on holidays and we go to dinner every now and then. just because we couldnt make it work doesnt mean ya cant be friends.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

Wow congratulation that you stayed friends with your ex-wife.. My auntie is also like that.. She is now in a new relationship, but she and her husband stayed friends.. They still celebrate anniversaries too, by the way...

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. crazyoverpurple (2921)   ranked 76 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

Now that I'm thinking about it, I just realized that most of my exes remained friends of mine. Friends in the sense that there never was any bad blood between us. However, I opted not to sustain the friendship by communicating with them or keeping the lines of communication open. But I did have one boyfriend who gets in touch with me every now and then. Sometimes when he sees me online via Yahoo messenger, he chats with me. I don't really feel uncomfortable about it because I know he's now married with 3 kids and I, myself, am in a relationship now but my boyfriend is the one who feels uncomfortable about it so I have to respect that. Thus I've stopped communicating with that particular ex.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

Good that you're still in good terms with all of your Exs. I think so too that there is nothing wrong if you're still talking with them, as long as no malice or something. Since there are people that might get hurt, that is the time we have to give up. I'm glad that you respect your current boyfriend's feelings...


myLot reputation of 96/100. crazyoverpurple (2921)   ranked 76 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

Thanks for the BR. happy Appreciate it.

Yes, I don't think there's anything wrong with it because after all, you both were once a part of each other's lives and you did have good memories to share so there will always be that bond between the two of you. But you also must be considerate of your present partner's feelings and that's what I did. After all, I am with him now, he is my present (and hopefully future) and that ex is just a part of my past. happy


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

You're Welcome.. I just like your views regarding this topic. Anyway, I wish you all the best and hope your current boyfriend will be the one.. yeeee...*kilig*

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4. briyana (6)   ranked 13,712 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

Yes, but not right away. It took us a 2 years before we became friends again. We avoided each other. Actually we missed so many parties. Birthdays of common friends of ours like if he's coming I won't be there. Until 1 day he called me up and asked sorry. Now we're best of friends


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

That is so sweet... Maybe that is the reason why the two of you stop talking for awhile because you never settled past issues... I'm happy the two of you are friends now...

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. xannebull (1302)   ranked 2,084 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

i have no communications with my ex from the day we broke up until now. we were not in good terms when we broke up because he doesn't want to let me go by that time, but i don't love him anymore so i have to go and break up with him.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

That is so sad... Oh well, there are things that should be left undone... But I still hope you and your exs will become friends again.. Its just so hard to carry too many baggages because of our bitterness in our hearts... I hope I didn't offend you or something... Wish you well!!!

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6. myLot reputation of 78/100. abhi_bangal (928)   ranked 1,386 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

That is one thing that still did not happen to me. Or, I should say, I never paid any attention on that part. But I don't think it that right an idea to keep in touch once you are recongized as an ex. When you break up after a relationship, then you don't have the same weavelenth, as you used to have before, right? And so, it is but natural that you are a little bit regressed while talking even after a patch up. But basically, there can't be any patch up, then you can't be an ex.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

Well for some they remain friends after the break-up, but I believe the reason behind it is that they have settled things up and forgive each other's differences. When you say remained friends doesn't mean that you are as close as before, but the two of you didn't carry any grudges or bitterness as you part ways.

As for my experience, even I don't have any communication with my exs anymore for two reasons: First, I respect the feelings of my current boyfriend and my exs current relationship with; Second, we lose contact. But if ever we'll cross again, I think I can still give them a friendly smile and can talk to them to catch things up and that's it...

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. dholey (954)   1 month ago

no i have no contacts with her, once we apart, after that we really never meet her..


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

But if you two will meet again, would you still have conversations with you ex?

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8. myLot reputation of 75/100. iceydon (227)   ranked 8,037 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

Yes I'm in very good term with my exes. They are all my friends. Friendship should doesn't end when relationship ends. Sometimes we have to explain to our new partner if she or he got uncomforted with it. Having communication with exes wont ruin any ongoing relationship if everybody could understand each predicaments.Communication is the key.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

Yes, I think so too.. Even if the relationship is about to end, both parties should explain each side so that there will be no bitterness for the two of you.

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9. jenyenh (94)   ranked 20,922 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

I guess it depends how you parted. I still communicate to my exs but not all. It's just a matter of moving on and I don't know where they are. I had some that still sends me emails even if they got married had kids. If I see them again, I would still say hi or even grab a coffee or tea and talk. I never hated them, it just happened that we parted ways. No hurt feelings. I threat them as special friends.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

Yes, it really depend on how you parted.. If the two of you clear things up and accept your differences, then I should say bitterness is very slim to happend.

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10. lyanne (55)   ranked 17,552 out of 23,109 in relationships   1 month ago

Me and my ex were still friends. The reason for that is because we never ended the relationship badly. Since we started as friends, we tend to keep it that way to still be friends. We still talk at times mostly about life. We are comfortable talking to one another not because we wanted to get our relationship back but because of the friendship we gained. We both know were we stand and respect one another..


myLot reputation of 94/100. sexyposh (131)   ranked 2,780 out of 23,109 in relationships  1 month ago

That is soooo sweet. Its so nice that the two of you remained friends after what had had happend. Hope your new relationships will understand what you and your ex have... wishing you well..:)

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