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Have you ever encountered someone online that makes u uncomfortable or disturb? email this discussion to a friend?

ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend2 months ago

I am a member of social sites (I will not mention anymore what it is) I am just annoyed to someone who keep sending me personal message, like call him because he need to talk with me and he want me to talk with him. He keeps sending me that message and giving his phone number and I keep deleting that message and not responding, one time he said iloveu to me., I was so scared that I feel cold, it seems he is already a stalker. I don't like it, I am already married but even I am a single I don't like the way he does.,I want to delete him as my friend but I don't want to offend him.,so what I am doing is not to post comment anymore to his profile..,

 
 
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tags:  stalker, online friend, uncomfortable, disturb, someone
 
1. myLot reputation of 86/100. leahsmom (307)   ranked 2,273 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

Isn't it possible to block this person.


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

There'no application like that on that site..

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. Binthu (3131)   ranked 900 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

Hi Ryheanne,

It was happened so many time to all the peoples at most of the
social sites and more or less the peoples has to understand the mentality
of the other members too. When we are keep on getting this types of email
or personal message really hurts many members mentality and the members should
avoid like this activity. I am suggesting you that don't need to make any more
responses to his comments, or discussion and simple ignore him, that is what
we can do and also avoid this types of the person. I am also requesting all
our members here don't make this types of personal message in order to make the
inconvenience or mental disturbances to other in the social sites.

Have a nice day.


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

Thank you for the advice, that's what I am doing not to post comment anymore to him^_^
Have a nice day too! Take care...

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 917 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

This happen to me many times. Some unknown people send me message of marriage proposals. And I don't like it.

Some of time annoys me in my YM. There getting into my nerves. And some will post a comments on my profile that bothers me alot. But I have to delete the comment, if he don't stop, I rather to delete him on my friends list. I have already done that.


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

yeah, they are really annoying it seems they enjoy bothering other people online.

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. syankee525 (3481)   ranked 691 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

internet stalking isnt good but i would delete him why not. its him not making you feel comfortable. you could tell him you dont like the idea of calling him and you are married if he dont stop delete him from your list if he keep it up and then report him


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

Thanks for your response, I appreciate it so much. I am thinking to delete him so.,

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. corrycrystal (1047)   ranked 924 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

Hi, Ryheanne!

If I were you, I would just delete him off from my friends' list. He has terrified you a few times already and in some ways 'offended' you, so, I don't see why you should keep him accessing your profile and personal photos. He probably has been doing this to other people as well, hoping for someone to fall into his trap.

So, it is better to extra pre-caution than to feel sorry for the person who brings you nightmare and some more did he know that you are already married?? If yes, he should respect your status instead of trying to lure you away. It could be that he has misunderstood your kindness towards him???

I haven't encountered this kind of situation in any of the social site before because I would usually add those friends whom I have known offline before and I always am careful who can access my personal details and photos.

I have known a few friends, though. They would add anyone so, they would receive the same messages from some guys with phone numbers and some 'disgusting' words!!!

So, whatever it is I hope you will make the right decision. Think of yourself first before it's getting worst. Take care!!!


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

Hello crystal thanks for the advice, sometimes I want to ask the other users if they were also bugging or disturb by him, but I hesitated because they might think I am over reacting.,^_^

 
6. myLot reputation of 98/100. LetranKnight25 (4453)   ranked 91 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

lolhello ryheanne,

I used to think the same, there was even a discussion that i created about having a block user feature. but i received comments from seniors saying it might cause some paranoia and misused practice of the feature, and relentless blocked newbies, which could unfair to the new ones who are innocent.so, the best method there is either to ignore them or simply just report them if they bug youthumbupthumbup


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

Thanks, i really found those people so disturbing. I keep deleting his message coz I am afraid that my husband will read it, he may thought I am flirting online..

 
7. myLot reputation of 99/100. aixshaonline (291)   ranked 751 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

I've had a similar experience but mine's through chat. He keeps on chatting with me even if I don't want to chat with him. And it really bugs me!

 
8. myLot reputation of 65/100. LiveLove (346)   ranked 6,916 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

Yes, on a site like this one that wasn't a payout site a user kept harassing me. On
another site I was called several negative racial epithets and they threatened to kill me if they could find out where I lived. Then of course the dreaded chat rooms with men asking to see improper pics of me and trying to send improper pics of themselves tome. the internet can be very creepy.


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

You're right internet sometimes is very creepy, especially on chatrooms there are a lot people who are so annoying, especially those improper camera.,

 
9. myLot reputation of 99/100. puddytatt (841)   ranked 322 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

this person sounds so desperate, don't give him your number, i do not know what his motives are but it doesn't look halthy for him to keep begging you, block him and forget him, if he has your email, block his email too, he sounds like a proper pest, you don't need the harrassment from a stranger, also warn other people who are in your friends list about him, so they know what he's about...just tell him to go away and leave you alone. don't feel bad about offending him, he's not thinking about you when he's hassling you for your number, so just get him out of your list and forget him, he will keep doing this if you allow him to.


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

Thanks a lot for the advice, that's what I am doing right now ignoring him on my list.,as of today I did not hear from him hopefully he get tired of sending me message.


myLot reputation of 99/100. puddytatt (841)   ranked 322 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

well let's hope that this is the last time you hear from him, good luck, if he does contact you again, just ignore him, he will go away eventually....

 
10. myLot reputation of 99/100. lovelyn_medrano (778)   ranked 4,566 out of 12,390 in friend   2 months ago

That man is truly annoying, worst he knows that you are married. He is not in a right thinking. Saying "I love you" and stalking a married woman is sick! If I were you I would delete him in my friends list. So what if I will offend him, what he was doing is completely below the belt.

Completely ignore him. No worries, as long as you did not give him any personal information about yourself, he is completely harmless. Whatever he says, don't answer back, he will get tired in time. He will stop on his own once he realized that it is not working on you and you are not giving him any attention at all.

Happy mylotting ryheanne! I hope that man is not in herethumbdown.


ryheanne (75)   ranked 4,451 out of 12,390 in friend  2 months ago

Thanks Lovelyn, I appreciate your advice. I just don't know if he is here, hope not to see him here though. That would be my nightmare:((

 
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