Are you simple minded? Does it take you long to trust someone u don't know?

Hi Sreekala

It is good to know you have learned to watch out well even i don't share my personal details with strangers, if i am traveling in the train i don't talk to strangers but only if need be otherwise i am never the one to start conversation, i would respond if they say something though but if they share something i say no thanks... yes we should be careful while chatting with people we don't know well, i don't add someone so easily in other social networking sites... thanks for responding Sreekala have a nice day!:)

Hi Koalapenguin!

Hey i am seeing you after so many days, where were you? Anyways i am glad to see you, hope you keep coming here when ever you get free time, i always try to come here when i am free, lol i say that like that i like i am busy person but somehow stay here longer than i should be coz i have to concentrate on others things as well hehe... anyways drop in like this at times

thanks for sharing and have a nice day koalapenguin!

Well i was busy with some short trainings that i wished to be my work. But unfortunately, i failed it. So here i am again.

No problem. Take care,

Oh i am sorry koalapenguin... i wish you best for your future and i am sure you will do great i know!... do come here though when you have free time, i would suggest you concentrate more for your future... all the best dear!

Hi Kitty!

Nice to see you again how are you doing? wow what a wonderful response my friend, thank you so much for your kind words, yeah i am young and i really need to learn a lot here, it is true we can't keep trusting everyone, i am sorry you had to learn things the hard way, but i guess you must be doing good now, i wish you the best my friend, i will always see you here:) . . . feelings, emotions and trust are not something to play with and some people don't care enough i guess, i will take care and keep my head alert at all times . . . like some say open up your head before opening up your heart, it seems true, this is how the world is, in fact there is one you can always always trust, it is Him . . . don't worry my friend i will always take care and better analyze things before execution hehe... but the good thing is that people who know us and who care find it easy to trust us and that is how i guess i have a nice image at the place i live in, okay i might be a little shy but well i should not be saying anymore coz i am feeling like i am boasting already lol, anyways we both seem to be so similar, thank you kitty for your kind words, have a nice day!:)

Hello my wonderful friend

You are such a great caring individual, your family and friends are lucky to have you keep up the good work my friend, brag all you like you are entitled I love to read what you say, I know you are going to be a remarkable husband someday, just take your time my friend and do what you have to do, never doubt yourself life has many lessons, also watch others you can learn a thing or two from them as well, I avoided so much in my life by learning from other peoples mistakes.

Smoochessss my friend.

I will be on and off, but never gone for too long.

hi kitty and voldrox^^;;
how have been the two of you doing?

hhmmm...i find myself the same with you voldrox.
but kitty, is having a trusting nature different from being gullible?
I also easily trust people whom i don't know even if we talk about money so i think the latter one in a way suits my description which disturbs me and i feel stupid

my first emoticons should be a happy one! why is it sad?
sorry for that mistake

Hello my friend

There is a difference my friend if you don't learn from these mistakes, if we continue to do the same things over/over/over again well that is pretty dumb, I use to lend money to people, well is some cases help them out when I thought they needed it, then realized things were being said in front of me just to get a reaction, I learned pretty quick, so gullible/dumb/stupid lol call it whatever we like I have been all these things one time or another I guess, but never again my friend, and the important thing is that we learn from this, we all make mistakes its what we take from them that matters, I know people that make the same mistakes over/over Its really sad, buy a clue why don't you.

So to answer you my friend, trusting is one thing gullible is knowingly allowing people to take advantage, no matter what they see you fall for it, I think we are too nice for our own good, gullible is not something I would call myself, well maybe then but not for long, you know what I mean, we make mistakes by trusting people at their word,but do we continue to make these mistakes thats the important question, I would hope you realize people will take advantage of your kindness,so be careful and don't give so freely o.k

Just a life lesson, learn from it, learn from this discussion,do things different and you will be fine, I hope you understand what I mean here lucky

Smoochesssss

Hi lucky09 and kitty:)

How are you both doing, i am so glad to see you both here, hey lucky i guess we need to learn many things from life, it might sound like a disadvantage when we trust people easily but you know it is a quality many people like as well, thank you kitty for your good words, i will take care and so will you lucky hehe... with me so far it has only been much much smaller things but i realize in the future there could be larger things at stake .. i trust people easily that is one of the reasons i don't get along well with people i don't know well, i mean i don't like to share personal information with people soon, i will be careful and so will be lucky hehe anyways thank you both so much for dropping in here, have a great day both of you!

hello again to both of you
smoochesssss my friends...
thanks for those advices kitty and voldrox.
ofcourse i don't believe everything one say and i know it doesn't happen often because i also don't meet a lot of people but i think i am just too way loose and kind (ahem) to refuse them when they ask something.

voldrox, what are u playing there? seems you like headbanging sound

Hello you two,

This is a great discussion, just know you are not alone, I am older so I already know how to hold back when the time comes, my daughter tells me al the time mom you are too nice you need to toughen up, I have but she has not seen it because I need to toughen up with her as well I will never be mean and cold hearted because that is not in my nature, so please don't ever allow anyone to change the person you are just be careful who you choose to be extra kind too, there are as many selfish if not more then there are kind hearted people in this world, they will take our kindness as a weakness, as long as we learn to wean out those people we will be fine, smoochesss to the both of you, always nice to meet like minded people.

Thanks for this discussion voldrox, the two of you are great and I am so glad you are my friends.

Hi both you ... nice to see you both you again, well sorry i keep coming in a little late, yes lucky i understand it is hard for us to ignore people, but sometimes we do need to ignore them coz they are no good and we should realize we should not worry coz they don't worry about us, once this feeling is set in then we can care lesser, why to bother people who don't want to bother you or are merely just surfacing from the ocean just to have some advantage from us, this shall not happen, nopes! yes like you say kitty, we need to be stern at times, we can't always think much about others, probably a whole lot waste of time, i should learn to care less coz they do!... i guess i am becoming more of the way you are now kitty, but still i have to learn a lot lot of things from this life... wow it is so good to meet people like you!.... have a great day both of you!:)

hey lucky, i do play drums, wish i could play much better... yeah sometimes i like head banging music, you know what sometimes there is no one around i 'air drum' while a head banging while listening to some good ones...lol

Hello my friends

Thats right my friend, told you I love how your mind works

The two of you are great.

Smoochesssss

hello friends^^;;
i'm really thankful i met you two. you're such great friends

kitty, i will live from now on with those advices..sure it'll help me a lot.

voldrox, i love headbanging when i was younger and play very basic drums too..had been a trainee drummer in my friends local band but haven't had the chance to play in crowd haha.

i haven't been active in mylot for several days now but just take care always the two of you..

Hello both of you again, well sometimes we get more busy with the real world i guess... always drop in at times lucky and kitty both of you... glad to know you both, well i am happy you played drums lucky, many don't even get the chance to play them... i am sure you had enjoyed playing them as a trainee drummer for you friend's local band..wowowow...hehehe.

Hi ami

Yes you are right, sometimes i become so sensitive towards small things, i don't like that... that is why i don't open upto strangers, i mean i don't like to share information coz i know i should not, i guess i should be more careful with people, well even i don't open up to people soon, i am a little shy but yeah with time i get close and that is the time when i get to realize the truth, anyways lately i have been careful and i would rather share information only when the other person is willing to start and so i won't be the first one to say about me, i would know more about the person and then i would say things about me... though some people might be uncomfortable being the first one to say just like me but later on things become understandable and then things go well...

thank you for sharing ami, have a nice day!

Hi jonjee

well good to know you are generous but not simple minded, i wish i could not be so easily influenced with words, well i am trying to get better at it and yeah it is getting better I am not good at dealing with strangers and i since i get influenced easily i don't open up easily to people i haven't met before... God fearing i am as well, the problem with me is that i believe everybody speaks the truth always but that is not the case unfortunately, i don't say i never lie but yeah i wish we were not so selfish, it is the way the world is now, and we need to be more careful...

thanks for sharing jonjee, have a nice day!

Hi Ravenladyj

It is good to know, yeah that is the way it is supposed to be, trust people best when you know them better, i don't get along soon with people i haven't met before, even if they try to be good, i don't open up soon, i need time to understand them well, i guess i am really getting better at it, we can't trust everyone always, we need to be good at analyzing what goes inside the head and better to keep away if you find something fishy , if you have a good feeling for someone after getting to know them better then it get's easier to trust them

thanks for letting us know Ravenladyj, have a nice day!

Hi jc_star

I understand jc it is good to know it isn't the same case with you, you are right we should not be so easily influenced with people we don't know well, well i am beginning to learn things these days, i am lucky i did not have a big issue anytime just petty cases, and those petty cases are enough to make one realize that we should be more careful when there are bigger things at hand, hehe you are right we shouldn't be worrying about things that others don't make a big deal out of, probably it only effects us and which is completely futile, i mean why think that much when the other person doesn't care enough, i have begun to realize that lately, and so i guess i am learning

thanks for sharing your views jc, have a nice day!

Hi EnglishTeaDuck

yes we need to be more careful when it comes to trusting people especially people trying to make out some sort of deal, or even some salesperson, they get to get a hint of you when they have a little talk with you and they start to bug you a lot, when they cross limits i get frustrated and simply tell them i m not interested... i guess i am changing, i becoming more 'hard hearted' i guess we need to be that way at times... not much speaking to strangers and all....

glad to have your response EnglishTeaDuck, have a nice day!

Hi prakrithi

I understand, i trust others very easily so i am not good with people i don't know well, i don't talk to strangers much especially when i am traveling in the train, i am never the one to start the conversation, it is best to keep it to yourself and have a good time enjoying listening to music and all and not bother others much...

thanks for sharing prakrithi, have a nice day!

Hi Solared, i understand ... yeah if you see that way then you are right but yeah i guess sometimes getting conned really makes a discussion interesting all the more ... thanks for being honest solared, have a nice day!