A man who cooks is oh so Hooot!

Men who can cook, it does impress me. I spend time watching this male cooks on tv. Bobby Flay, Jamie Oliver to name two of my favorites. My husband does know how to cook a few but not as good as this chef, but it still impresses me. I am happy that he can toss a few recipe, specially pasta. He is sometimes shy to cook for Ican say that I am a goodcook but I am very happy if he does.

..no wonder i easily secure the heart of my wife...even when i'm not in the mood i always make sure i put the important ingredients, "LOVE", happy mylotting!!!

My new boyfriend made me and my children supper last night. He made stuffed rigatoni and it was very good. This is the first time in a really long time that a man has cooked for me. My ex never cooked for me and when I did cook, he insulted my food. So it was wonderful to share this experience with my new relationship. I do think it is really hot that he could cook and enjoys doing it. I think it made him very happy to see me enjoy his food too.:) We had a great night. hehehe

Hi, ladyella! It is really nice when a man can cook, it not only helps the woman out it can give the man a sense of pride and accomplishment in what he is doing. My husband cooks, as do my sons. It is something i wanted them to learn, and hopefully we will be able to pass it on to our grandsons. It is nice to know that the family recipes can be passed to the males as well as the females.

hi ladyella, the fact that my husband is a very good cook sure was one of the reasons why we started dating after getting to know each other a bit through e mails.
Just coming from a relationship with someone who was totally unwilling to do much around the household, and who even made a face when I asked him to help me do the dishes (I didnt even want him to wash dishes only dry them), then I said the next man in my life absolutely must be able to do basic housekeeping simply as it is so reassuring to know that in case you are ill or absent or whatever else your partner will not live on granola and cheese sandwiches alone or you know that he will also be capable of doing a bit of laundry when needed.
Back to men and cooking. LOL we both collect cookingbooks and we both like the same cooking style.

I do love a man who cooks! Unfortunately my dear husband is not one of them. Just to give you an example, he cooked a frozen pizza once and fell asleep while it was in the oven and nearly started a fire. That is about his level of cooking.

I have a good friend back in England who is an amazing cook. He is vegetarian, and he became one at a time when, if you asked for veggie food you'd just get a main course with the meat taken out, or a salad or something! So basically he learned to cook so he could have decent food! He now makes stuff that makes me want to turn veggie, its so good.

ladyella,

Well, just don't be too disappointed if your man turns out knowing nothing about cooking. For I do not think it is common for men to be able to cook or be a good cook.

I am sure there are other qualities that will precede his culinary skills and I believe a sense of compassion, humor and devotion may be what you are really looking for.

I do not know and would not want to be too fast with agreeing to that saying of yours where you mentioned: ".....the best way to a woman's heart is through her stomach too" because that may be going to affect your precious waistline and a faster way to a slimming center.

Have a nice weekend.

hi ladyella^^;;
i really agree with you lol.
my bf never knew how to cook even simple dishes. maybe even eggs.
but when he spends time here in my country and misses his own country's dishes (which a few of them i can cook though), he was forced to look up the recipe of some over the internet and follow it. i can say he was a good newbie cook
it's just funny that he couldn't leave what he's cooking and really carefully watching it every minute lol. he was afraid to ruin it ofcourse.
unlike for women that we can do other stuffs while cooking.

If that is no then I'm not hot at all, I'm a disaster in the kitchen, sometimes I lose track of thing I'm boiling, or microwaving or cooking in the oven, burned hot dogs, pizzas.... just awful usually people wanna do things for me cause they don't trust me to do it myself...lol

I love a man who know to cook and deeply appreciate those qualities is very impressive. This kind of behavior added zest to any relationship, because it show he is caring, reliable, thoughtful and very affectionate. It really feel good having to eat in a breakfast, dinner or lunch and knowing this man sweat to cook for you. This is one things he could show truly his love and shares the nice food he have is the same as sharing love because you are the apples of his eyes so he wanna shares the good times with the girl of his dream.