Do we have the right to blame other people when our life is in trouble?

i dont think that blaming others can help anybody with any trouble..
it will only worsen the situation and destroy relationships..

like what you said..we are responsible for our actions..and it should stay that way..
acting accordingly is never wrong..:)

I've never been good at blaming others. It seems that no matter when I try it, it always comes back to a failure on my part any way. Sometimes I've even been known to take the blame when it really isn't my fault. For example, when someone hurts me or does me wrong, I figure it's my fault for letting them in my life or trusting them in the first place. I don't blame them for being who they are, I blame me for not seeing it. I correct my faults voluntarily.

Hi
we have no right to blame others for troubles in our lives as we are the only one to be responsible for it.But when we are sad and hopeless,we started criticizing others for not guiding us when we require it most.but there are some people too who sometimes,knowingly or unknowingly force you in trouble
i think we should be patient and wait for the right time.

These days, nobody is prepared to take responsibility - they prefer to be seen as a victim. It's probably a more comfortable feeling than thinking that you contributed to your own troubles, but usually that is the truth of the situation. You're a victim if you get murdered or caught up in a serious accident. Losing your savings because of bad financial advice, or something like that, doesn't make you a victim, just a person who took the wrong advice. If more people thought like that, the world would be a happier place.

Blame game is definitely way to escape from reality. Sometimes blaming is obvious and it is right at that point. But most of the time blame game has no use at all. People hide their own mistakes by blaming other people. It's human tendency to hide their own mistakes and point on mistakes of others. And it is sometimes gives them pleasure as well. I don't like this type of pleasure. I mean i would love to point your mistakes if you're going to improve on that else there is no way i should positively criticize you. Blaming is just part of negative criticism and it is more of rewarding for those who wants to run away from their own problems.

I can suggest you to read this book on this topic:" Mistakes were made but not by me by carol travis". It is very good written book and that book highlights lot of issues related to blame game, criticism, escapism, negative replies, offense etc. That book will certainly answer some of your question related to "Blaming".

I really its really very very bad habit, when we blame others when our life is in trouble.
I feel its human nature, just to play safe, they pass on blame on other people, like if in office, then are not promoted then blame game on boss,
In house, if coming goes wrong, then blame goes to wife.
If children are not studying properly, then husband have tendency to blame wife.
Children blame teachers that they are not teaching properly, giving lot of home work and list goes on.

some people blame there failures to others this what we called displacement it is one of the personality management to maintain our mind of state in psychiatry.although blaming other people is not right and what our failures or trouble come we need to face it also also ask help if the situation makes worst.help of your parents,relatives and friends are very important.to make it clear it is not right to blame your mistake or failures to other people but it is also one way of coping from stress events.

We don't have the right to blame others for our failure in life. We always have the choice to do good and make extra effort to be good and successful in life.

no, whenever I am in trouble i never blame it to others as maybe I have the desire to finish a project but then it do not comes out successfully. Then, i already know my mistakes then have to correct it after I already identify and the next times i encounter the same things i know now how I could handle it. My mistakes could even be serves as my starting point where i could learn to talk with my worries for free. Then, have to find a solution to make my worries vanish. Thus, from the worst experience up to the little one could develop more confidence to prove that one self could solve it alone without asking for other to help.

I don't think its right to blame others if our lives are in trouble because we are the one's who make decisions for ourselves. Their should be no one to blame when aout lives starts to suck but ourselves alone..