If I was dating someone and they didn't invite me to their house, I'd wonder...
By cripfemme
@cripfemme (7698)
United States
October 26, 2009 7:25pm CST
what they were hiding. As many of you here know, I have an overactive imagination. After six months or so, I'd begin to wonder if they had literal skeletons in their closet or if they were cannibals in some religious sect or some other horrible thing. One of the women who was on Clean House tonight had been dating her boyfriend for two and a half years and had never invited him over. In her case, it was because the house was dirty. I'm sorry but that man has more patience than I would have. I think it would get to the point after month 11 when I would say, "unless you have stairs or some other barrier to my physical presence, you either take me to your house or we're done". Of course, I would try to deal with it in much calmer ways before than but I know my limits and I think this would be one. What about you? Would you tolerate not ever going to your significant others house for two and a half years? If so, why?
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
It would cause me to think too, it's two years and a half, haven't the girl ever gotten sick?
I would certainly think but if it has been a few months still, then I'd respect his/her privacy because there are people who still has that traditional feeling that only those whom they want to marry would be invited in, you get what I mean?
It's a good test of paranoia though, to see if truly the person you're with is sane or insane hehehe.. if he/she keeps on thinking too much like you do hahaha..
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 Oct 09
I woldn't care if I never went to a guy's house. And I wouldn't invite him to mine. I rather just meet in a neutral place. I have a " My place , my space " thing. I like the old Joy Behr joke. " I want a man , but not in my house."
