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Dollyswallowchang (18)   ranked 1,216 out of 11,899 in love3 months ago

I met a guy on line for 5 months and I think I fall love with him and almost everyday we chat online .But yesterday night he told me that he had a girlfriend for about three months .This really heart me .I just cry and don't know what should I do .
This is the first man I really move true feeling to him and told him but my heart is hurted .My heart is really so ache .
How can I do .Give me some advices and help me please .

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. Binthu (3428)   ranked 3,462 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

Hi Dollys,

This was quite common and was happened all the times especially
all the men are used to be a play boy. So you have to take more care
especially with him and also never give any chance to him to have the
relationship with you, because most of the men would like to have the
time pass on the girl and would like to have the enjoyments and never bother
about the real heart of the girls. So just take as easy and never remember
that again and thanks to the Gods at least you knew the person initially
otherwise it would hurts more if you came to know later on.

Have a nice day.


Dollyswallowchang (18)   ranked 1,216 out of 11,899 in love  3 months ago

Hello Binthu,thank you for your comment and advice .I know it is hard for me to adjust myself but I must do .I really think that he should told me that early and then I would not move feeling and hurt myself .
Thank you again .

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2. JIMBOH (40)   ranked 4,167 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

Have you ever met the guy in person. If not how can you really say you have feelings for him. It sounds to me that he was just stringing you along and that is not a good quality in a person. If he has done it once he will do it again. The best thing is to grieve the loss and move on with your life. It is ok to feel sad just realize he wasn't the one for you.


Dollyswallowchang (18)   ranked 1,216 out of 11,899 in love  3 months ago

I haven't met him by myself but my friend did .We live in different country and my friend study in that country and at the same school with the guy .The word is so small and sometimes to make fun .
Should I chat with him later:(
Anyway thank you for your answer .Best wishes .


JIMBOH (40)   ranked 4,167 out of 11,899 in love  3 months ago

I am going to agree with what everyone else is saying, forget about him. Give yourself some time to get over it and then move on.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. xannebull (1399)   ranked 4,165 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

there's only one solution for that, stop chatting with him and forget about him, it's not good to be inlove with somebody who has taken already because there will come a time that you will get hurt again and again, especially that he's just your chatmate.


Dollyswallowchang (18)   ranked 1,216 out of 11,899 in love  3 months ago

Ya,I am trying to adjust myself .Here are many chatmates which I met online and we help each other,but this one hurt my heart .
There I got something at the same time I must lose some?

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. abhikmjmdr (638)   ranked 3,592 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

Come on dear this guy was cheating on you. He was simply playing with your feelings. I do not think you should get committed to somebody without meeting him. He could turn out to be a person totally different from what you perceive him to be while chatting with him online. I do not feel you should carry on having a relationship with this person anymore. Just move on and try to find Mr.Right in person.I know it is easier said than done but at least you got to know about his double dealing quickly. Good luck!


myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (18010)   ranked 1,490 out of 11,899 in love  3 months ago

Come on dear this guy was cheating on you. He was simply playing with your feelings.

I;m sorry but you dont know that! Maybe he was just chatting with her as a friend...without having any romantic interest at all..if thats the case its not HIS fault she fell in love and it wouldnt be him cheating on her by any means..nor playing with her feelings


myLot reputation of 88/100. abhikmjmdr (638)   ranked 3,592 out of 11,899 in love  3 months ago

I do not think just chatting casually could cause somebody to fall in love.The guy must have sent certain signals for her to believe he was interested in her in a special way.


myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (18010)   ranked 1,490 out of 11,899 in love  3 months ago

I do not think just chatting casually could cause somebody to fall in love

LOL oh really?? I've known ppl to fall in love over casual chatting..Hell i've known ppl who've fallen in love over less than that

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. markmoney (561)   ranked 5,066 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

Online relationships or virtual lovers are common nowadays. Yes, you can find love on the web but it's risky, you should always know the limitations and take extra care for yourself and don't easily believe on what the guy is telling you. You should not let yourself fall in love with him so easily. Before you fall in love with the guy, make sure that you already know him well, search and read his profile, friend's testimonials, etc. For what he is saying, he should show you proofs. You may continue online chatting but with caution, beware because only few guys are sincere. Just like what I have said earlier, that before you fall in love, be sure that you already know the guy very well. Happy myLotting! cool

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6. myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (18010)   ranked 1,490 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

Had he been telling you that he was falling in love with you or had any sort of ROMANTIC feelings for you?

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. Hatley (21801)   ranked 2,351 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

hi dollyswallowchang I am so sorry but online romances are
very chancy, and one should not give one's heart that easily
You are going to have to forget this horse's rear end and
find a man who will love you back and care for you in real
life, do not depend on the net, as you just really do not
'know if that person is telling the truth or not. get a
man in real life so you can see him and talk to him.

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. adhyz82 (1064)   ranked 9,181 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

had he told you that he loved you?if he never tell you his feelings, so it`s not his faults. my advice is keep away from her and ignore him. you deserve to get another guys which more better,more nice and more handsome than him. you only need a time to forgive him, forgive the stupid time which meet you and him, and let the time bring you get the another guys.

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9. myLot reputation of 81/100. tatiana07 (387)   ranked 1,029 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

love online is really a gamble. it's good if you win but it really hurt if you lose. on my part, i won. my chatmate before is my husband now. anyways, it's good that he told you that he has a girlfriend because it will hurt more if he told you that during the time you're head over heels on him already. and one more thing, do you think it's love already? maybe it's only affection or a crush because you're chatting with him everyday that's why you fall for him. accept the fact that you're not for each other.it's really hard but you can do it.time heals as they say. go out with friends who know's you can meet someone who will catch your attention again. goodluck!

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. notlistening2 (11022)   ranked 4,011 out of 11,899 in love   3 months ago

You are wasting you time, and energy on someone you haven't met, and crying over this guy is not going to help you, get on with your life, leave this guy a lone, he already has a girl friend, and he is just using you, you are wasting you feeling on someone who don't care about you. sadthumbdownthumbdown

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