I Still Love Her....

It is really difficult when you lose someone that you love. And if it has been that long, and you are still staying in contact with each other, it makes me wonder if she doesn't still care about you as well.

The fact that she text messaged you and told you about the party means that she does still care about you in some way or another. I wonder if in the long run you won't end up together. I think that if you care about someone when you are young and that even if you are apart in the beginning that maybe in the long run that you might end up being together.

I know my sister and her husband were together when they were in high school. But he was a year older. He graduated and then joined the Air Force. They didn't see each other for the longest time. Probably about a year or so. Then when she graduated high school, a few months past and they got in contact again.

They courted for a while, and then ended up getting married. They have been married for 28 years this December. So don't give up. You may end up together in the long run. Good luck to you!

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I'm sorry that you feel so sad now.I believe you're madly in love.What you need to know is:does she feel the same or she's just treating you as a good friend?Religion might be a problem, but I believe that loving woman would accept your religion, you know.You said that at first she agreed to marry you.Why did she changed her mind?I don't want to seem rude, but don't let her manipulate you just because you're in love with her.True love doesn't end in two years.If she's not honest with you, then you would suffer even more being with her.

Does she know how you are feeling? I think you need to know if she still feels the same with you. If she is and you are willing to forgive and forget what has happened before then there is no stopping you from expressing your feelings for her. I think the only thing that stops you is yourself from expressing her. But you should weigh too that if you decide to reconcile with her there is a possibility that she may do it again with you since she knows you have a soft spot for her. So weigh things which is important with your life right now. Else you better move on with your life and find a new love for yourself.

maybe you love her more than she like u, and in fact she is waiting for somone better than u, that is the truth. women usually give u minor excuses u cannot marry but her attitude is to refuse you and not marry u, it is awfully clear and obvious. u better retreat to the noral relationship otherwise the most heated is u.

That badly hurts. Loving someone that you thought she felt the same way. We are in the same situation. Before i was playing with my boyfriend for our first month relationship until time came that i love him back, but at that moment he felt the same way. Then after 6 months and 1 week his love for me was fading and now he's gone and left me behind. I was hanging and i thought i can't move on.

I sorry to hear that.You must be very sad.From what you said,i know you love her in heart,but she does not,it is a pity.I have been together with my girlfriend for about six years.You can feel what i have experenced.Love is a mystery thing,sometimes it make you feel happy,sometimes sad.My girlfriend love me deeply than i love her,and she always cry about what i have done.So now,i am changing.I try my best to make her feel happy.As it to you,if you still love her,let her do some changes.

My ex and I broke up barely four months ago because he did something that was really hard to forgive. He got another woman pregnant.
When I decided that I was going to live my life without him, it was so hard. I felt like crying every single day. But then I got to thinking that I could never change what he did. I cannot control whatever it is that had already happened, I could only control wha I am going to do to make things better for myself.
At the end of the day, happiness and moving on is a decision we make. We can be as happy and as miserable as we want so why choose to be sad because of something that wasn't even your fault in the first place.
I know it's hard and I wish I could tell you that it will get better soon but that is not how the heart works. It heals really slow and even if it does heal over time, there will always be times that you can't help but feel the pain like it was just yesterday. But you have to understand that there is a good reason why you are not together. If somewhere down the road, you find each other and better suited for each other then be thankful. But if not, it is not a reason to stop living and being happy.
A friend once told me that sometimes it is better to let go and let God. It's true. Let it go and put faith in God that He has a better plan for you. He always does...
God bless...

Sounds like you're madly in love with this girl brother, be careful though, as a man madly in love is easy to forgive and easily manipulated, i know i have been there, love blinded us, weaken us, rob us of our thoughts, just watch the pace brother otherwise you'll wind up earning heartache after heartache.

It's really a dangerous when u love in sb so much.But if we fallen in love we have no choice,right?I think now you can consider your relationship between you and your girl rational and to confirm she really love you or not.If she often made mistakes which you can't bear then you'd better let your emotions cool down because in the world of love,we can't strained ourselve,and it's suffering.You choose to forget her now maybe can avoid the further hurts she will give to you.So considering it and then make your decision.Sometimes time can do anything for yor.Come on, man!