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What would You do If Your Partners doesn't Want to be Seen with You in Public? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1427)   ranked 144 out of 11,823 in love1 month ago

Falling in love with others is happy but complicated situation, sometimes, people will have to face various problems if they want to keep a long relationship with their loves.

So, did you have such an experience ago? If you were dating a boyfriend/girlfriend who you dated many times before and you are head over heels for him/her and every time when you two date its like he or she doesn't want anyone to know but when people starts finding out things starts to chang a little bit more. He/she doesn't want to be seen with you in public only when alone, but you two are never alone at all. What would you do with this problem?

If he/she doesn't want to be seen with you in public, does it mean that there are no real love between you and your partner? Have you met such a bad situation before?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (20810)   ranked 2,328 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

getbrowser if a boyfriend or girlfriend does not want anyone to
know that you date, I would be really concerned as to why,and would make him or her explain to me what she or he means by this. And I think most times, this man or woman is probably either already married or is engaged to another person thus all the subterfuge. I think I would say ta ta to this person and find myself a new love that cared only for me and was proud to be seen with me. I have never been in this situation,but the first time a boy or man would insist we couldn't be seen in public he would have to have a damned good reason why.


myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1427)   ranked 144 out of 11,823 in love  1 month ago

Yes, if one have met such a situation, what they would do at first is to make it clear. Of course, if there are no problems, our partners won't refuse to stay with us in public.


BelieveFast (15)   ranked 9,226 out of 11,823 in love  1 month ago

No way! If someone did not want to be seen with me without a logical reason.. I could and would love to find someone who would.

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2. GreatLife4You (41)   ranked 4,594 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

Guess what? There are so many fish in the sea! In other words, I would leave them!
I love fishing.


myLot reputation of 93/100. free_man (506)   ranked 4,783 out of 11,823 in love  1 month ago

That is a great thing to say. It is so true there is so many people that want a special person in their lives you would be surprised to find out just how many people are looking for someone just like you. I would say by and move on. Like Greatlife4you says I would go fishing. Fishing could make your life so much better. Moving on is hard at first but gets easier as time goes by. Good luck!

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3. myLot reputation of 84/100. VVroom (141)   ranked 4,596 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

It doesn't necessary mean he/she doesn't love you. But he/she is obviously doesn't wanting your relationship to be public. You should find out why. What is that he/she is hiding? And then you will know if he/she loves you or not. The answer is not here but at the partner.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. charblaize (396)   ranked 4,593 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

I would feel very hurt and wonder why he/she doesn't want to be seen in public with me. I will feel that they are married, engaged or have a relationship already. If they do not feel comfortable enough to be seen in public with me, then I would say they are not good enough for me and move on. I would want to be able to do things, have a "real" date in public and be shown that we are together. I would have a tremendous problem with this and if they don't want to be true and loyal to me, then I would say good bye.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. paintswithwords (277)   ranked 4,588 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. solared (856)   ranked 1,988 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. celticeagle (4706)   ranked 906 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

I have never had such problem. Is he or you fat and embarassed? Is he hiding something? Is he trying to be romantic? Is he cheap? These are the things I would wonder about. Have you talked to him about this? Sometimes you have to understand that what there is between you isn't fixable.

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. Misterwit (1046)   ranked 2,211 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

To tell you the truth I think it is not a problem if she does not want go out we should not force...as it might hurt our relation ship....but if the partner's intention is to stay away from me I would rather go and find someone else...who is not shy to go out with me... thumbup...

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9. myLot reputation of 85/100. bluray (302)   ranked 4,478 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

I think it will be a very pathetic situation for other.It will be better to talk to your partner about this openly and ask a straightforward answer to this query.If you love somebody and dating then what is the reason to hide it from the world.it sounds fishy..it will be better to find out the reason and then decide what to do.

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10. lubeimao (66)   ranked 5,632 out of 11,823 in love   1 month ago

One of my friend has this kind of problems too.her boyfriend doesn't want to see her in public,when every time when they date,he will choose a place where his friend will not appear,therefore,a strange thing happen,they have dated for two years,but his friend don't know he has been in love,and i have not seen who is her boyfriend .It is funny to be in love with this kind of person.and there is no doublt of it isn't real love .

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