How do you take care of children without beating them...do u beat, scold....

I do not beat my kids as they are kids I always try to make them understand their wrong doings. ..I think kids will be spoiled if we beat them and punish them like some kind of criminals.....

Hi rorisricha

Only beating and scolding may not be the proper guidance to a child . Actually this two is not important in child care. It is right that some time you have to scold and beat your child but it may not be consider as prioritize of child care.

I think strict attitude at times is helpful in disciplining the children.only scolding and beating a child will surely not help.it will make a child stubborn and he will not take your scoldings and punishment seriously.it is better to explain the child and tell them how to behave.scolding and beating should be adopted rarely.

Well,i don't beat or scold my children.I explained them nicely and they listern it.I think beating and scolding is not required,it is better to talk like a friend and explain their mistakes,i hope it will work.

Beating and scolding definitely not a suitable way to teach current generation kids. They are not as innocent as we are when we were kids. They get expose to different kind of information easily...they learn fast...the harder you scold or beat, the more rebel he or she can be...
So, the best way is to be their friends, listen to what they want, what they are going through...give some opinion and let them learn to make decision with your opinion.
At least, through the whole process, you know what they are doing...

Beating the children is the only way out I think on a whoe because kids don't listen to only oral talk. They do not feel it physically when you shout at them. Beating get a sense in their head that, they might feel the pain in it. And understand the thing that something done is not right. Shouting makes a difference only to you and not to your kid.

In my opinion, parents and kids are equal and it is not necessary to beat them.

It is obvious that there is vast gap between parents and children. Whenever the children have made some mistakes, most parents tend to beat them instead of realizing what have happened. In the eyes of parents, they are all right and the children should follow their ideas.

In total, it is important to learn to communicate.