How do you take care of children without beating them...do u beat, scold....
By rorisricha
@rorisricha (732)
India
November 1, 2009 11:07pm CST
I don't know how the parents are caring the kids that too this generation kids are they listening to u whatever u say atleast few....
6 responses
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
2 Nov 09
In my opinion, parents and kids are equal and it is not necessary to beat them.
It is obvious that there is vast gap between parents and children. Whenever the children have made some mistakes, most parents tend to beat them instead of realizing what have happened. In the eyes of parents, they are all right and the children should follow their ideas.
In total, it is important to learn to communicate.
@sanjuks_j (193)
• India
2 Nov 09
of course communication should always been there between parents and children. every parent s have their own way to treat their children. and think beating and scolding is also a necessary part, otherwise children could never feel fear even to do wrong things. too much love is also not good. too much love brings sorrows. parents are not enemies of children, they also come through this stag, and they know better what children are doing coz they also did this in their childhood, and later they realize what is good and what is bad.
@bluray (408)
• Singapore
2 Nov 09
I think strict attitude at times is helpful in disciplining the children.only scolding and beating a child will surely not help.it will make a child stubborn and he will not take your scoldings and punishment seriously.it is better to explain the child and tell them how to behave.scolding and beating should be adopted rarely.
@rorisricha (732)
• India
2 Nov 09
yeah it should be adopted rarely now and then not regularly...they should be made to learnt few things which they wont listen.....in that way first should say, convince,if not then u should...thank u...
@abhi_bangal (7679)
• Ahmednagar, India
2 Nov 09
Beating the children is the only way out I think on a whoe because kids don't listen to only oral talk. They do not feel it physically when you shout at them. Beating get a sense in their head that, they might feel the pain in it. And understand the thing that something done is not right. Shouting makes a difference only to you and not to your kid.
@MysticTomatoes (1053)
• United States
19 May 10
I don't "beat" my daughter, but I do spank her. There's a huge difference between spanking and beating.
@joandevil (58)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Beating and scolding definitely not a suitable way to teach current generation kids. They are not as innocent as we are when we were kids. They get expose to different kind of information easily...they learn fast...the harder you scold or beat, the more rebel he or she can be...
So, the best way is to be their friends, listen to what they want, what they are going through...give some opinion and let them learn to make decision with your opinion.
At least, through the whole process, you know what they are doing...
