are you willing to live with your parents after you get married?

Hi Lucky,

Of course no doubt at all, I used to love with all the
family members so I must be live in the joint family after my
marriage, because you have good entertain from the family members
and also there is a lots more chance to have the more moral supports
from the family members too. So better to have the life with joint
family in order to have the good life, otherwise you are going to
wait for the long time to get the family supports. So according to]
my views I like to stay with the parents even after the marriage.

Have a nice day.

I got married 15 years back. I used to bear lot of dreams to stay with my parents all along. But due to my service, i used to be posted in other places leaving my parents with my brothers and sister in my home town. Thats why had no scope to stay with them even after my marriage. I started my family life almost alone, for first few days my mother had been with us. then she moved back. it is a 3 person family of mine. Me, my wife and our daughter, a neucleus family. Now i got habituated with this life. Yes, everyday 3/4 times me or my wife talking to our parents. Thats the life.

You know there are times in an emergency....If you lose your home, illness...
But I highly reccomend couples to live alone. You mature, you grow.
Cut the aprons strings.

yes, luckyke,I am still single,if I got married, I do not intent live with my parents,but when the holidays come,I will go to see my parents.and I agree with you when we get married we need a comfortable environment, just like you say, many people like to live a "two-persons world",I think this will make people feel relaxed.thus it will not have more embarrassment.

I know the only reason I would EVER move back in with my parents would be in case of an emergency. Such as my house burnt down, myself or my husband had a terminal illness, loss of income. I moved out when I was 18 and I have learned to appreciate what my parents did for me but I also learned that I am an independent human being. Perphaps talk to your spouse about getting an apartment together and saving up for your dream home or at least a down payment. That is my goal with my boyfriend. I completely understand you being uncomfortable. That seems like an odd situation.

Hi Lucky,

We did this right after we got married. After the wedding we had an overnight package in the hotel then in the morning my husband took me to his place. It was an agreement with both our families that we will be starting our new life as couple by ourselves. They approved of it and wished us luck.

It is advisable that new married couples stand on their own so they will be able to have more time for each other in the adjustment period with inlaws.

Hi! Well, I think its okay if after I get married and stay with my parents.
But, maybe just until I got the first baby because I think I need my mother help to take care my wife and my child.
Also, its a good way to make a good relationship between my wife and my mother.
But, its also depends to my wife too.
If she want to live at her mother house then I think why not.
Live at parents house is only for temporary because we need our own home too one day.

What you are experiencing now just like me. Now i have been marriied and lived at home with the children and my in-laws. it is my first.it is my firsttime with -laws house, i foundit difficult to adapt to them and this makes uncomfortable feeling. Afraid to do something wrong and it lasted almost a year untill i had a child. I think, in-laws do not like my presence, may feel added weight. But after the first child was born, i began to adapt to the in-laws. An d my guess was wrong. it turned out that my in-laws feel free to adapt to me. So we are equally distant to each other. All problems must be a way out. For sour situation, isuggest to invite them to chat, that aal the uncomfortable be difficult feelings can be lost by opening the conversation, you reply please be difficult to start asking for help your husband(wife). Do not think about things that do not need to acctually make your home does not live with them . Just in-laws lives with more exciting. Why??? Because if we travel with a spouse only, we can entrust our children to them without trirst worry about their condition. Of course all the work at home we are always helped by them. Try to communicate and adapt to them. Have a nice day

When I got married, my hubby and I were living together already for about 2 years. It's ALWAYS a good thing to have your own space when you get married. This way everybody's not in your business and you have privacy when you want. It's nothing like having your OWN house/apartment/home to go to.

Like everyone else, I dream of having my own family in my own house. However, my husband and I are not ready yet to live on our own. We got married last year and we do not have our own house yet. Renting one is also impractical for now. Living with my parents and brother who is still single has its disadvantages, but the advantages far outnumber them for now.

Welcome to Mylot, luckyke