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myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people2 months ago

I feel very awkward hearing people here in US calling their parents in law by their names. I can't stand it when I first hear it. when I heard a friend called her old parents in-law, Shirley? and Ron? oh my!! I don't feel good about it. I still call my husband's parents mom and Dad as what my husband called them. They might be surprised because I am from different culture but I can't stand calling them by their names.What about you? do you also call your parents in law by their names? am just curious how many of you here are doing that.

 
 
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11. myLot reputation of 96/100. bing28 (1910)   ranked 5,381 out of 35,417 in people   2 months ago

We also address our parents in law the way our husbands call them. We treat parents in law as true parents as well as they treated us their children too. I couldn't imagine how my husband, would feel hearing me calling his parents by their names. No offense however to those who do, maybe they have reasons for doing so or they are just used to doing it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people  2 months ago

well, the reason is just culture. That is the way how they are brought up and it doesn't matter to them.

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12. myLot reputation of 90/100. sudiptacallingu (7241)   ranked 728 out of 35,417 in people   2 months ago

To each his own really! Here in India we call our in-laws as mummy and daddy (ma & papa)…but then daughter-in-laws are also to be treated as the daughter of the house. You see, India traditionally has the system of joint family where married men stay with their parents and kids grow under the guidance of grandparents. So its kind of difficult that you are staying with your in-laws regularly and for so long yet you don’t called them ma & papa…calling by name is of course out of question. We don’t call any elder by their name.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people  2 months ago

Oh? so India and Philippines are pretty much the same.

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13. jerenah2022 (12)   ranked 24,907 out of 35,417 in people   2 months ago

here in our country its a tradition and a "law"(meaning should be always done) that our spouse's parents should be called just like the way they call their parents. if we do not call them like our spouse's do, its like disrespecting our parents in law and not accepting them whole heartedly. but if you don't like your parents in law, you can call them in any names that you want, behind their backs, they will not know it anyway.hahaha! just kidding!


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people  2 months ago

hahaha that's not kidding because I know there are lots of that in my country too? they call their in laws by their names when they are talking behind their backs.. hahahalollol

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14. myLot reputation of 97/100. williamjisir (13154)   ranked 1,316 out of 35,417 in people   2 months ago

Hello Bebs. In China, it is our traditional custom to call our parents-in-law father and mother the way we call our own parents. It is considered to be rude to call them by their names. I always call my in-laws the way I call my parents. They are as dear as my own parents.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people  2 months ago

that's the wasy it is also in the Philippines. But here in America? it is not rude to them because that is what they used to and a part of their culture.


myLot reputation of 97/100. williamjisir (13154)   ranked 1,316 out of 35,417 in people  2 months ago

Oh, I see. Thank you, friend.

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15. myLot reputation of 96/100. sender621 (843)   ranked 1,924 out of 35,417 in people   2 months ago

I call my in-laws by the same names that I call my own parents. I call them mom and dad. In turn, they also treat me like one of their own children. We accept each other as family.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people  2 months ago

Oh? that's good!!!

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16. myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (2612)   ranked 829 out of 35,417 in people   2 months ago

Like you I too address them the same way that my husband would address them i.e. Mom and Papa.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people  4 weeks ago

Yes because I can not stand it calling my parents in law by their names? that is rude to me...

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17. myLot reputation of 96/100. corrycrystal (1081)   ranked 1,093 out of 35,417 in people   4 weeks ago

Hi, Bebs!

My hubby has no problem calling my parents 'mom' and 'dad', but I still feel a bit awkward calling his parents that way. I seldom call them especially my father-in-law and only take the chance to talk to them when they are looking at me. I guess I am still not used to it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people  2 weeks ago

I understand that. I know it is awkward much more if we are not close to them, what I mean is we are not together most of the time. Or we are not communicating to them often, it is really hard to call them mom or dad.. hahaha

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18. myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5876)   ranked 7 out of 35,417 in people   3 weeks ago

Hi Bebs. I've never really been comfortable calling my in-laws mom and dad. To me, that is reserved for my parents only. So, I've always addressed them by their names. I did call my late father-in-law pa a few times, but only when we'd be joking around. Otherwise I'd call him by his name.

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myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (2527)   ranked 36 out of 35,417 in people  2 weeks ago

Oh really? well, I am uncomfortable doing that to my in laws.. maybe because we never do that in my country, but here in America, it is their culture so, it is nothing new. It is what they used to.

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19. myLot reputation of 95/100. soledadclickz (783)   ranked 8,414 out of 35,417 in people   2 weeks ago

Hi. I call my parents-in-law "Mom and Dad" because that's how my husband address them. That's my way of showing them my respect as their daughter-in-law.

I believe it's a matter of customs and traditions which may vary from country to country.

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