Why do you think some women don't want to bear a child?

There may be some good reasons why some married women doesn't want to bear child. It may be health-related and its understandable. But if not, then I can say that it may be because of the responsibility that comes along with having children. Include also the pain and the labor that the woman will undergo before a child is born into this world. I admire and appreciate women like you who love being a mother to her kids. Happy mothering, if there is such a word.

It's painful, it expensive, children can complicate things, it is a major responsibility. I am a woman who does not want children right now because I see other women having children and I think to myself that I am just not ready for that kind of responsibility yet. Also, I know women who have children that are special needs. Seeing that really makes me not want to have children, I don't want my child to suffer like that. There are many things that can turn women off when it comes to having children. I think that children are a lot to take care of.

There are probably quite a few reasons as to why some women do not want to bear children or simply do not want to have any. For some, it might have to do with their health or something like that. Motherhood is a stage that is made for some women and not for others. Some women may not want to have to be responsible for their own children or something like that.

I was a divorced mom, a working single mother and that responsibility is a lot for one person to raise children by themselves. I only had one child because I realized that my husband was constantly unfaithful and I knew that we would be divorced no matter how many times I tried to work it out.

If the relationship between partners is not solid, it is also a reason for not bearing children. It is definitely not easy to do it alone.

There are so many reasons why a woman may not want children, probably more than the reason to have children. It is a personal choice and I would rather have someone say openly that they do not want to be a mother than go ahead and have a child and ignore or mistreat it. There are way too many unwanted children in the world.

Some of my former female colleagues prefer not to bear a child. Some are afraid of losing the current post, which gives them self esteem and financial support. Others are hesitating to downgrade their living quality because of high cost of raising a child. They shift the responsibility to their brothers or sisters. Out of concern for their parents, most only child would think twice before deciding not to bear a child for ever. Quite some change their mind after staying rejective for more then five years. They finally experience the joy of parenting. Most parents would not interfere in the decision, but accept whatever their children make, in spite of the earnest wish to see their grandchildren.

There are many reasons, it might be financial she may feel that they can't afford a child, she may be in an abusive/controlling relationship and does not want to bring a child into it, she may want to focus on her career. There are too many reaons to list it's best to ask the person delicately why they made that choice but you have to accept that some women don't want to discuss it as it is a very personal choice, and probably not an easy one.

Hi,
Two month back my wife had give birth to beutiful baby girl. We are very very happy. first time in my life i was thought that i am richest person in wolrd. same with my wife.

I think these women aren't ready to take such big responsibility yet.I am 20 years old and honestly speaking,I'm not even ready yet.But I do agree that being a mother is the most rewarding profession in the world.I sure would be a mother soon.

i think it might be like because they lose their beauty. Their body become shapeless, they want to be more responsible which might be a burden for them. They cannot enjoy going here and there and whereever they want to at whatever time. They will become committed to the life. Should feed them and not feeling free because always the thoughts of the baby will worry them.That's why i guess some women not prefer babies for some year

There are lots of reason. Some don't want because they biologically can't, some don't want or are hesitant for some personal reasons. I have a colleague who is hesitant to have children. She was a teacher and she had lots of sad and traumatic experiences with her students. Some can't say that they don't want because they are very satisfied and happy not having children. It really boils down to what will make someone happy, career, family, children. I won't take it against the woman if she doesn't want to bear children as we have the rights to our own lives and the woman should not be obligated to have children.