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myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend4 weeks ago

I think most of you would be aware of what happened to me recent days. Although, I know that you guys were a great help to me and I have felt very relief when I discussed all these things on internet but still there was something in my heart which was making me pain.

Today morning, one of my friend asked me if something was wrong and then I decided to let him know about my poem and the girl. Well, I told him every thing. I won't say that he was very good listener to me but whatever I said, he heard and told me to not to take this seriously and look forward in my life.

Now, I am feeling very relifed and I don't think I am sad at all. I don't want to cry. Although I am not in mood to laugh but it is a big improvement from cry to not to cry, isn't it?

So, saying things give great relief to us, isn't it?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. cobrateacher (4201)   ranked 113 out of 12,300 in friend   4 weeks ago

It certainly does help to vent!

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. celticeagle (4527)   ranked 119 out of 12,300 in friend   4 weeks ago

What ever outlet you have is great. Some are able to talk, some write poems or journal. I think for me journaling helps me get feelings out and it is there so I can remember what happened when also. Whatever helps is what I am saying. Talking it out is excellent.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  2 weeks ago

You know what, I have burned all the pages of poem I have written for that girl.


myLot reputation of 97/100. celticeagle (4527)   ranked 119 out of 12,300 in friend  2 weeks ago

What girl?


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  2 weeks ago

Oh, sorry, I thought you have read earlier two discxussions I have started, didn't you?


myLot reputation of 97/100. celticeagle (4527)   ranked 119 out of 12,300 in friend  1 week ago

I don't know. WHich ones?

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3. myLot reputation of 100/100. JenInTN (3551)   ranked 1,304 out of 12,300 in friend   4 weeks ago

Sometimes just talking about something can give us great relief. Relief can also come from closure..although it's sometimes not pleasant..it can be a little relieving. There's a girl out there just for you sanuanu. I hope you run into her soon.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  2 weeks ago

Closure! I wish I could get some moments with that girl! ahhh

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4. myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5131)   ranked 1,310 out of 12,300 in friend   4 weeks ago

My grandmother always used to say, “A problem shared is a problem halved” and she had a point. Sometimes talking to a friend can make all the difference. It is a relief to get another’s point of view and the support as well. By talking and voicing our problems we tend to look at them from the outside in and that somehow clears our head and that helps when making decisions and resolving our concerns. I'm glad you don't feel like crying anymore!


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  3 weeks ago

Nah, this time I am not feeling like crying. Yes, last time I was felling like anything. You won't belive but I thought of changing my body into soul.

Well, the best thing this time was that I proposed in time!

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. savypat (7623)   ranked 29 out of 12,300 in friend   4 weeks ago

thumbupIn times of stress just having someone listen to you often helps a lot. I hope that you have better days ahead.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  3 weeks ago

Ah, I have so many good friends on myLot? why isn't in my real life. ha ha h!


myLot reputation of 98/100. savypat (7623)   ranked 29 out of 12,300 in friend  3 weeks ago

Real life friends take a lot more time and effort. That is why most of us don't have many. Virtual friends are easy, they come and go at your pleasure.

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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9499)   ranked 43 out of 12,300 in friend   4 weeks ago

I think it does help, yes. Probably why I write so much about my own life. So keep on writing. Eventually you will find a girl who is right for you!


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  3 weeks ago

This is the third time that I have approached someone and she didn't accept me. Now, I think I have to depend on my parents to find a soulmaete for me. I think I should concentrate on my kid's future, shouldn't I? LOL!

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3186)   ranked 499 out of 12,300 in friend   3 weeks ago

The relief that comes from saying difficult things out loud is why we have counselors and therapists in the world. It makes a huge difference to get thing out of your system.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  2 weeks ago

Hmm, you are right, I understand your point. That is why people prefer real friends rather than net friends, isnt it?


myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3186)   ranked 499 out of 12,300 in friend  1 week ago

Well, the difference between real friends and net friends is that you can develop a real relationship with someone you interact with face to face. There is more trust because you can see for yourself that the person is exactly who they seem to be whereas online anyone can pretend anything.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  6 days ago

Is that true then it must be very difficuslt and that is why I don't have many of them because I find it hard to have faith in anyone.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3186)   ranked 499 out of 12,300 in friend  5 days ago

Well, if you find it hard to have faith in others you are going to have a hard time finding love and relationship.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 437 out of 12,300 in friend  5 days ago

This is what people say about me every time. I am trying to change myself but it is difficult changing yourself in the second part of your life, i.e after 25 years of age!

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