cheating

I agree totally, the words "i love you" seem to roll off peoples tongues like it means nothing nowadays, i still find it difficult to say to someone even if i know that i do love them as im scared it will backfire! There is alot of cheating going on aswell and no-one seems to care! What happened to getting married and growing old with your partner? Too many single parents and divorced people as absolutely no thought goes into it before hand and "i love you's" are just another basic everyday phrase. Its saddening.

That's the sad part about love. Someone will tell you "I love you", but didn't mean it. I don't know how others lie and use this word just to hurt someone. It is sometimes cruel to be in a position that you thought who had someone who really loves you but, only hurt you in the end. If only that word could speak for itself, for sure it cast/curse all the people who use it wrongfully. I just hope they don't abuse the word(I love you) we can't just say it without even knowing what its true essence. Happy Lotting!

I think people don't think beyond the moment when they cheat on their partner. It is so stupid because all you are going to do is ruin your relationship, and then all of the sudden you realize how much you loved that person when they leave you, and then they think that maybe they should not have cheated and it was not worth it. Anybody who is thinking of cheating on your spouse, stop and think it is not worth it. NOT WORTH IT! It is only going to cause a lot of pain and a lot of problems, and I am sure that one night of passion is not going to be worth all of the problems it will cause.

i think people who cheat are the ones who are in love yet still immature that they are not ready for commitment. it is also possible that they don't love their partners as much as their partners love them, maybe their are not contented or happy, but if that is the case, it would be better if they stop saying "iloveyou" and just be honest to themselves as well as to their partner. .


as of the i love you, yea, i totally agree. i hate it everytime i heard couples break up because of the SIMPLEST reasons after months of being together, like c'mmon?! after how many times they've said i love you, they'll just give up their relationship for a simple reason?! it just shows that they don't really mean it everytime they say i love you. if they really truly love each other, they will not have the strength to let go.

I can't think much right now cause i have a fever i am really sick i have dengue but since this is a very nice topic, i will try to give you a good response. People do tend to tell someone "i love you" but in the end, it still a tragic ending. He may love the person at first but, soon may not, people are different from each other and have different kind of thinking. People are very vulnerable in terms of love because we people are very easy to fall in love and also easy to get hurt. Easy to fall from very sweet words that makes us really fell good and important. After such relationship if a person finds another one much more attractive the love becomes a tragedy. But why? That makes us humans, who commit mistakes and soon learn something after such mistakes, people do tell the one that they left "i still love you" but the other party can't comprehend on it. Because that person thinks that he/she is being played. The "i still love you" word maybe be true but sometimes not. There are only two kinds in this world of love, The one who's been hurt and the one who hurt the other. But both can compromise if the love and trust for each other is real right? How bout you? Which kind of person do you prefer? The one that's been hurt or the one to hurt? Either of the two, I am sure you do not want, but that's how it is. Other people just doesn't know the real meaning of love, just why for them it is very easy to say and it's nothing but a word to have the one that they wanted. To be played or be the one to play, either of the two isn't sound good. But the most important thing is that you know the meaning love. No body's perfect, even you have the ability to hurt someone without noticing it, even if you loved the person so much, cause you are only human. If you are being played, well it is better for you! Why? at least you learn and you become a better one. It's not your loss it's theirs. At least in the end you know you are a grown up and will be careful for the next relationship that may come to you. I am not telling you not to trust others, cause trust is one ingredient to a healthy relationship, but just be careful, and before entering in a new relationship, see to it first that you know how to love your self. If a person loves and respect him/her self so much then i assure you will have a good future for relationships to come. Cause of your partner see that you love and you respect yourself, he/she will do that if he/she really loves you. But if not, at the very beginning of the relationship they will leave you, at least it is a less pain, sometimes nothing. People should also know when to throw the "i love you" word, so that in the end they will not get hurt. Do you get my point? I assure you did. Honestly i really hate those person who do that kind of harsh things, but i asked myself, what if i am the one who did the mess? Don't i make mistakes? I also do of course. I go in front of the mirror and asked, You are human right? and so you commit mistakes, if you are the one who committed it, people will also see you the same, so why get angry? It can happen anytime, to anyone, and everywhere. Just be mature enough to face reality. And learn to forgive, cause of you will do the same, i am sure you will also be forgiven. Anyway! I really hate them! Hahahaha! But i learn to forgive, cause forgiving makes me a better person. And being a better person is a chance for me to have someone that is also better just like me. So in the end, the happy ever after word will still prevail.

in my opinion, though i'm very much loyal to my partner, i can't just judge those people who engage themselves from falling in love two or more at a time. it's because there are some people who were born to have that kind of personality from where they search for so many characteristics that they may find lacking to their partner. on the other hand, we usually doubt those people because if they really love their partner, why should they offer their love to somebody else also, right? so i guess it only depends upon the situation...

Today all the people do cheat with others. Man is say to women that he is love her so much but not actually

this is because we think that loe is just a word which will act as a glue in tagging us togrther with our cherished one

it is really bad to say someone which u don't mean. now a day people use such words
just for fun not even bothered that false words hurts other persons who believe it to be true.better to be honest as u said than to give false words to ur own benifits.
true love never hurts loved ones

there is different kinds of love, you can also love more than one person

we are only human and we do make mistakes altho I have never cheated as dont think you should, but I have had it done to me.

And she said she loved me and also the other lad, we are no longer together now but we are still best mates.

So in answer to your question no one sets out to hurt someone on purpose but it does happen love is blind as the saying goes.