Do you see him/her as someone you could grow old with?

Hi Laydee,

Nice to hear from you again!

I am settled now with my husband as someone that i want to grow old with. We've gone through a lot and we're still together loving and caring for each other til the end of time!

hey laydee.:). I used to see someone who i can grow old with but i guess he doesn't. So i just walked away before the cut gets very deep and too painful to bear, and I survived!:D. Right now, I can just see myself growing old with someone, but that someone hasn't surfaced yet.

I don't think you grow old with someone as much as you grow comfortable with someone. It takes time to really get to know someone. Sometimes we confuse a particular attraction as a life-long desireable trait and then we discover that trait is not all that great after all. I think that over time we discover the traits or characteristics that we find valuable and significant to us. We then find comfort in those qualities and we seek significant others who have those qualities. When we find someone who possesses those qualities, we become comfortable being around and with that person. And that is the basis for a lasting relationship.

Hi laydee
I do see myself with my husband for many years to come. We have been together for over 8 years and married almost 7 years. He is a good man and we have great times together. Im on my second marriage and he is on his third marriage, so we both have been around that block. Have a great day and keep smiling.

that's how i know if i love someone,if i see myself growing old with them,and i can with my current boyfriend who i've been with for 5 years

Nopp i dont see me being with anyone for the next 20 yrs:D

I do see my boyfriend as someone I can grow old with and be with for the rest of my life. We have been together for two years and I really think he is the one. I know a lot of people think that it is too early to tell but I really don't care. I do understand though that feeling of questioning yourself if what if he isn't and how can I be so sure. I think the solution to that is just accept what your feeling right now whether you really feel if he is the one or not and whatever happens even if you will not end up together, at least you know that you have been honest to yourself about your feelings.

yay! we exactly have the same condition.

i used to imagine my future with my boyfriend before, i loved the image that he's the first person i'll see in the morning and the very last at night.
but after all the heartbreaks, i am now unsure whether i would be happy if we'll end up being together. sometimes i feel that he's not the one who deserves me. but even though i think things like that, i can't end up our relationship, i know it would be soo painful for me if i will.

hi ladyee, i do not have this kind of question puzzled me. my boyfriend is good to me till now, and he is my husband to be. but nobody can predict his future, i do not know wheather he is also good to me when we get married. and so many examples showed that men would change with his money amounted. maybe he would change his heart to another young girl in his 40s, what i should do is taking good care of myself.

ofcourse i see my person as someone with whom i can grow old