Romantics a Question.  

That would not upset me. Although, I'm female and don't send my husband flowers. I had told my husband when we first met that I didn't like flowers. They just wither up and die anyway. So what's the point? If your going to give me something, then give me something that I can keep!
Since then I've changed my mind. An occasional rose (or dozen) makes my day. I have no idea exactly what changed. I guess it's not the flower per say, but that he thought of me while he was out

Well I like to think of myself as a romantic but I have always thought flowers too cliche and I have never sent snyone flowers However if my girl tolad me not to send her flowers then I would have thought that had some significance and she didnt want anything to do with me again .Cant see anyother way that could be interpretted because from as long as I know flowers were supposed to be a gesture of love and if she doesnt want any from you then I would think she doesnt want my love,unless she hates flowers and that is something youw ould have known from the start

I wouldn't be upset...I personally like getting them.....to me they make a bright spot where someone says.....I care. So I'll take flowers anytime someone wants to send them to me! LOL

Hi sarahruthbeth22, I have told my love not to bother with flowers, although I have sent him flowers before (guys rarely get them from girls so it was a nice surprise for him). I do love flowers but I would prefer something more permanent, maybe a plant that flowers but cut flowers from a florist will wilt and look wilted and unsightly, plus it is something my mom used to always say, "It's a waste of money, just give me the money instead" lol. A note, or email to tell me he's thinking of me is so much more to me. Just because you don't want flowers sent to you, doesn't mean you are not a romantic, maybe you are just romantic in other ways, (hockey tickets maybe?) The idea of romance is to do something that the other person finds special letting that person know that he knows who you are and what you like not just flowers as the good ole standby.

Hi Sarah..no it wouldn't bother me any. My husband knows not to bring me flowers. I do love them and I have flower beds galore, but I can't stand cut flowers, I hate to see them die just so I can have them in a vase.

He got creative when our last son was born..he wanted to get me flowers and respect the way I feel..you should have seen the look on the nurses face when he brought me in a potted rose bush that needed to be planted..It's still in the top 5 romantic things he's ever done...and blooms like crazy every summer.

i guess no, your lover would eventually understand that either way there are more things that he could give you like chocolates or even stuffed animals. Just be sure that if ever he mistakenly given you one, don't push the flowers away, accept them discreetly and tell him your views about "giving flowers"

hai,

if I were the guy, I guess I'm pretty upset if my lover didn't want me to send her flowers. perhaps a little explanation is suffice to clear things up, other than that...hmm I'm gonna be so--upset (big time) :(

Looka here Ms. Sarahruthbeth,
NO NO NO just beacause U don't like flowers sent/given to U isn't a sign that your not romantic, it just means U DON'T LIKE FLOWERS LADY!!LOL STOP beating yourself up about it and tell your "LOVE" to SNAP OUTTA IT AND GO BUY U SOMETHING NICE FROM TIFFANY'S instead.

I don't think flowers have all that much to do with romance other than as a symbol. And everyone has their own idea of what romance is. I wouldn't be upset. But someone else might be. To each their own. I think it is no big deal. Hopefully a person can respect a decision to or not to receive flowers.

A person giving gifts wants to please.If you don't want flowers, great. There are a million other things I can come up with. Hmmm??? Won't expect my gift. It's unique, just like you!!!